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Posted 3/17/07
I agree with everyone that you should talk to someone who is close to you. Its that bond that will get you through your anger and stress. . .
But if you don't want to involve them, I usually go out and exercise. . .And I take deep breaths to loosen my tension up. . .Sometimes, it does work to talk to a perfect stranger and see what they come up with, because sometimes they see something that your friends would not feel comfortable to talk to you about. . .Sometimes friends like to hold what they really feel back because they don't want to hurt you with it. . .but strangers like us wouldn't know if we'll hurt your feelings we'll probably state what we just see or feel. . .
So this thread I think would really help you in the long run. . .But I also think you should go talk to someone who really knows you too. . .

Second, get to the bottom of why you are feeling so stressed about it. . .and why you are so touchy about it. . .maybe it isn't what they are saying but that you are already stressed about your family or friends. . .come to terms of why you are so angry. . .
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i'm touchy because after 10 years of keeping your head down and your mouth shut, it gets to you. i don't care when someone says something about me because 1)i'm used to that and 2) i can deal with it directly. but if it involves family then it means that whoever is trying to bug me is getting someone else unnecessarily involved. that and i stand up for my friends because i hate to see them being dragged into something because of me. they don't deserve that

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I'd totally whoop his/her ass.

Oh and maybe it's just me but listening to very loud violent music really helps me calm my anger.
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26 / M / New York
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What u can do is take that anger out the best way trust me and fast. The more u keep the anger the more u are going to hurt people what u can do is go do some sport like involves hitting like american football or in the gym go punch the punchingbag as hard as u can just like the boxers and it will take the anger out.
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I would write it down as a smal sonnet of how i will react in such occasion every night a situation has happened and i didnt do any reaction , and that to ease things for me afterwards....
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Posted 3/17/07

mushroomjay wrote:


insane_killer_bunny wrote:

i'm touchy because after 10 years of keeping your head down and your mouth shut, it gets to you. i don't care when someone says something about me because 1)i'm used to that and 2) i can deal with it directly. but if it involves family then it means that whoever is trying to bug me is getting someone else unnecessarily involved. that and i stand up for my friends because i hate to see them being dragged into something because of me. they don't deserve that



Ask them to stop bothering you, make sure you use please? : p

Then go out with some stress relieving activites


OOOO please don't bring that kind of crap, vengeance is thet best way or make fun of them, kick their ass no one should make fun of u no one
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insane_killer_bunny wrote:

i'm touchy because after 10 years of keeping your head down and your mouth shut, it gets to you. i don't care when someone says something about me because 1)i'm used to that and 2) i can deal with it directly. but if it involves family then it means that whoever is trying to bug me is getting someone else unnecessarily involved. that and i stand up for my friends because i hate to see them being dragged into something because of me. they don't deserve that



You should talk about whatever problem you have with your family and your friend. And if you have a problem with someone, you should talk about it with him, violence might appear, but noone normally wants to solve problem with violence, to me violence sounds like running away. Its not about being strong, not opening one heart is a weakness.

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Posted 3/17/07

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insane_killer_bunny wrote:

i'm touchy because after 10 years of keeping your head down and your mouth shut, it gets to you. i don't care when someone says something about me because 1)i'm used to that and 2) i can deal with it directly. but if it involves family then it means that whoever is trying to bug me is getting someone else unnecessarily involved. that and i stand up for my friends because i hate to see them being dragged into something because of me. they don't deserve that



You should talk about whatever problem you have with your family and your friend. And if you have a problem with someone, you should talk about it with him, violence might appear, but noone normally wants to solve problem with violence, to me violence sounds like running away. Its not about being strong, not opening one heart is a weakness.



U too. Look man u don't have to open ur heart to other people it does not make u weak it will make u strong trust me.
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Like i said, its not about being strong. If you dont want to hurt someone else, words are the key. They should know whats on your mind and whats your mean, so they can understand you. And its hard, but at least you do something, rather than to hurt someone that you dont even realize.
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26 / M / New York
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Posted 3/17/07

ProxyOne wrote:

Like i said, its not about being strong. If you dont want to hurt someone else, words are the key. They should know whats on your mind and whats your mean, so they can understand you. And its hard, but at least you do something, rather than to hurt someone that you dont even realize.



That might be true but now these days people don't use words any more sometimes in life u had to decide which one hurt them or let them hurt u, but proxyone has a good point.

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29 / M / Germany
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Yep thats life, everybody get hurts sometimes. But no matter you hate someone, deep inside you want him or her to continue on living, thats why word is important, but ppl like to see it as cheap, scary isnt it!? War everywhere, murder everywhere, innocent kids get killed, kids lose his parents, etc. So insane_killer_bunny pull up your head, try to open your mouth, try to speak your mind. It will hard at start, 10 years is a long time,so try not to be too critize about anything, you would feel insecure and then you would hold back. That means going nowhere from your position now, if that happens, your family and your friends will be there, so dont be afraid to tell it to them. Im afraid it would explode someday, if a person stays like that. And the person who gets hurt, would be the nearest ppl, like family or friends, that will make everything worse. Happiness is important in life, so take a good care of it.
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26 / M / New York
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true but life is not easy it will try to trick u and make u think u found happiness now these days u can't really find happiness sometimes u have to give u something for it and it will not be easy. To tell u the truth family, friends to me are not people to help me their just get in my way.
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29 / M / Germany
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Exactly, thats why you have to take good care of it, and indeed you cant be happy every single seconds in life. Maybe they dont mean to get in your way, they just concern about you, or need help from you because maybe they dont feel well at that time or ill, and because you seem strong and dependable. If you feel like that, you should talk to them when you need anything too, or when you have something in mind that disturb you, that way you would feel better, would have more alternative for anything, and im sure they are happy being able to do anything for you, because you do.
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26 / M / New York
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Posted 3/17/07
That is true but sometimes words are not the only ones that speak for u or me or them just a smile or any kind of expression that tells them i love them or care about them it is all u need. Maybe if don't talk to them they know in their heart that I care for them even if don't talk just a smile is all i need, remember their eyes tell me everything I don't need to talk to them to tell me how they feel about me, words are not enough just expressions .
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Posted 3/17/07
for the most part i bury any and all of my emotions, im kind of scared to know wat ill do if i get pushed to the limit =P
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