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Posted 3/18/07
ah, i didn't want this thread entirely about me sorry it kind of turned out like that.
what about other people's views? how do you deal with stress? sadness? people who go out of their way to annoy you? anything!
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ummm i hard a hard time with that to i just practiced getting rid of my emotions (seriously). i practiced not showing a weak side of yourself: not caring for others, not leashing out in rage, etc. And i find it extremely useful i found it hard at first especially with hate or rage but you eventually get the hang of not showing any emotion
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but with that method, doesn't that mean you keep it all inside? or do you let it out at a later point?
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Posted 3/18/07

insane_killer_bunny wrote:

ah, i didn't want this thread entirely about me sorry it kind of turned out like that.
what about other people's views? how do you deal with stress? sadness? people who go out of their way to annoy you? anything!


HMmm...k...for me emotions are really hard to control...contain rather. Things sometimes happen when it gets out of hand. Ah, especially depression. So i turn to poetry to channel all of this...it does work...good therapy for me.
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Posted 3/18/07

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lolz yeah it was my internets fault, too. Some sort of bug or something wouldn't let me see my first post. Long story short:

@Dularc: We're talking about I_K_B having problems. Not me.

@I_K_B: You'll have to stick with what other's have said. It's all i can suggest right now.


I didnt really mean that post to be directed towards you, i meant that Ickybunny should just work out a bit, because i think it helps and also Bakayaro was said in a friendly way , such as "Idiot"

It was in no way directed towards you bakayaro.
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I'm no psychiatrist but I've found most negative emotions come through enviroment and past events. For me I just buck the past and keep the surroundings as tranquil as I can. Unless I'm making money of course. Quoting Barry White, "The positive has to overtake the negative!" Or somtin like that...
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^ you up there, thats not really true! >.<

i just think its how they were raised.....

if your troubled talk it out, write it out, swet it out(exercise), there are many tension relievers. Don't act like its the end of the world!
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Im not a very violent person but i do have the ability to hurt people...badly...but for soem reason i dont.I try to avoid conflict because ive never been in an actual fight with someone before and if i do im afraid i might do somethin that one of us might regret.When someones trying to provoke me or im thinkin about hurtin someone i just try to subdue my anger and not lash out at them.Instead i go for a wall/chair/very big rock/car or any inatimate object.Then after that moment has passed and im just relaxing i just randomly imagine how that event couldve happened.Thinking about the possiblities helps me not to hurt people.Everyone at school prolly thinks im a bitch but whatever.All i know is if i hit something that isnt a person it helps because it doesnt move and i can hit it repeadedly as long as its sturdy enough.And also its better if i hurt myself than hurt someone else.one time i actually almost broke my hand one time from hitting a brcik wall,that shit hurt too cause it was the kind that had the little sharp pieces stickin out of em.Sorry if i was ranting...again, i guess i just went into my own little world of thought.anyways i hope it isnt too boring for whoever decides to read it
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Posted 3/19/07
I deal with negative emotions by: surpressing them, bottling them up and never bothering people with how I feel.
Posted 3/19/07
i think you should do some relaxing things to get it off your mind like listening to music or laying on your massage chair if you have one
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Posted 3/19/07
most of the time when im having problems i just find somone to talk to... it doesnt even neccesarily have to be someone you personally "know"... it could even be someone of CR.... there are soooo many nice people here and im sure they would be willing to help you out if any of you seriously have any problems give me a message... id be happy to help you out... even if i may not know you
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Posted 3/19/07
That is true...I find it easier to disclose very personal stuff with people I dun know. No personal attachments or whatsoever. Maybe because they a have an objective look at things.
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31 / M / Walnut/Berkeley, CA
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Posted 3/20/07
find some friends and just bitch to them about it.. it iwll make u feel alot better.. if not, alcohol alwasy help... like homer used to say, Alcohol: the cause of and solution to all of life's problems..
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alcohol doesn't really help u...it just gives u a huge headache the next day!!! <_<

personally for me, i have gone thru sum1 else calling me a whore and slandering me to people i know and turning my once so-called friends against me just 4 months ago...and at first i didn't say anything...i just basically ignored it coz i know she was just jealous of me and everything that i am. but once the girl kept calling me up and started bitching at me over the phone i ignored that aswel, but then she called my sister, trying to involve my family as well, i lost my temper and i started calling her names like 'retard' and so on....and my sister also fought back.

but in the end, i found that it only made me look sooo immature and childish trying to fight back a deranged woman who can't see past her own nose and defend myself to sum1 who already hated me just coz of my looks.....u can't win....people like that have no life and it must be really boring to be like them thats why they do it....to get some excitement in their own pathetic lives......

i have learned to ignore the slanders and move on with bettering myself.....besides as a uni student i can't mess round with people like that im too busy 4 dat and thank god i found out who my true friends are.....those who believes in me and truly cares about me.....im not saying it doesn't affect me but i don't want to show weakness by reacting to the lies....and showing them that no matter what they say,i will move on and leave them all behind. i am still me!
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31 / F / Cambridge
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Posted 3/20/07
and really the only people you can trust is yourself and your family. you know yourself best and your family is there to support you. violence is never the answer.....its only purpose is for defending yourself against any attacks.

and even if you think violent thoughts, as long as you don't actually do it....its fine. we are all only human. and as human beings, we are entitled to our private thoughts and imagination!!! lolz!

trust me, if you imagine your most hated enemy naked in a bus or in a public place, ur anger melts away!!! why don't u try it sumtym....
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