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PREGNANT!!
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Posted 8/13/08
As in right at this moment?
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Abortion or adoption, if my parents don't kill me by then.
Posted 8/13/08
Jeez, intense question. Uh, adoption would probably be the best option, or I'd let my parents raise it.
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I would keep it. If I know the father will be a great one, I'd marry him. Then again, why would I want to make love with an irresponsible, atrocious man that I do not even love?

Sure, my parents would be furious. But later, I know that there would really be nothing they can do to change what has already happened. So, I wouldn't run away.

My child would despise me if he/she finds out that I gave him/her up for adoption. Also, I'd want to be the one to take care of it, no matter how hard it would be.

Lastly, abortion...? No. I just can't kill. Not my own child.
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Fruits_Punch_Samurai wrote:

It really depends on alot. Though I can't see myself getting a girl pregnant any time soon or any time at all. I think it would be almost impossible, I don't drink or do any drugs nor would I get that physical with any girl no matter the relationship.

But if somehow it happened I'd do as the women I got preganant decided, of course I'd voice my feelings and opinions but I wouldn't push them on her, but I'd make clear that I'd support her in what ever she did. I'd take responseblitly of course without hesitation if she decided to keep the baby and I'd be there for marrage if she wanted that. If she decided to abort the baby I'd comfort her as best I could.

But I dunno how I'll feel when it happens or how well I'll be off but if it is a matter of she doesn't want to or can't or won't take care of the baby but is willing to have it or if she was going to put the baby up for adoption I would feel that I should take care of the baby. Of course I'd think that child support would come with that.

One thing I would never even think of doing(though I can dream JK) is to run away.



yeah. i totally agree with what ur saying. this topic just came out of the blue since loads of girls are getting prego at my skewl... & what i meant by run away.. it was more of a, leave the place, calm down... and start over...

[[hope u understand ]]
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Posted 8/13/08

cindy_hsu12 wrote:


Fruits_Punch_Samurai wrote:

It really depends on alot. Though I can't see myself getting a girl pregnant any time soon or any time at all. I think it would be almost impossible, I don't drink or do any drugs nor would I get that physical with any girl no matter the relationship.

But if somehow it happened I'd do as the women I got preganant decided, of course I'd voice my feelings and opinions but I wouldn't push them on her, but I'd make clear that I'd support her in what ever she did. I'd take responseblitly of course without hesitation if she decided to keep the baby and I'd be there for marrage if she wanted that. If she decided to abort the baby I'd comfort her as best I could.

But I dunno how I'll feel when it happens or how well I'll be off but if it is a matter of she doesn't want to or can't or won't take care of the baby but is willing to have it or if she was going to put the baby up for adoption I would feel that I should take care of the baby. Of course I'd think that child support would come with that.

One thing I would never even think of doing(though I can dream JK) is to run away.



yeah. i totally agree with what ur saying. this topic just came out of the blue since loads of girls are getting prego at my skewl... & what i meant by run away.. it was more of a, leave the place, calm down... and start over...

[[hope u understand ]]


start over? No such thing. But I guess it is always an option, and I have no right to say if it's right or wrong but I do think each person should imagine how the other feels about it, or how the they(the person running away) would feel if they were abandon like that. Empathy it's not a kick in the nuts, it's you feeling what it's like to get kicked in the nuts lol

Btw Good Topic, and to me it's sad that they are getting prego at your school(sorry I wanted to use prego lol) not that having kids is bad but, a person needs to be able to make mistakes and live and prepare before having a child, then you can provided and do the best you can for your child.
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start over? No such thing. But I guess it is always an option, and I have no right to say if it's right or wrong but I do think each person should imagine how the other feels about it, or how the they(the person running away) would feel if they were abandon like that. Empathy it's not a kick in the nuts, it's you feeling what it's like to get kicked in the nuts lol

Btw Good Topic, and to me it's sad that they are getting prego at your school(sorry I wanted to use prego lol) not that having kids is bad but, a person needs to be able to make mistakes and live and prepare before having a child, then you can provided and do the best you can for your child.


idk. well everyone's got different opinions, and i respect each and everyone of who's posting here... though i think the falcon punch is just plain mean...? and yea.. apparently my skewl is known for that, and it's only in it's second year too! [sad, huh?] not very proud of that myself....
Posted 8/13/08
hmm i would keep it
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Marriage, adoption, or abortion. 3 best answer but it's all depend if you either like the person a lot or not. Strange answer it seems but just in my opinion. It's hard to believe that some morons would run away knowing their girlfriend may be in danger because of pregnancy. For those who chosed "RUN AWAY!", good luck with that.

If you need an example, watch this movie, which just came out recently, called JUNO.
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Posted 8/13/08
i'd marry the girl ..
though i know its early ..
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Posted 8/13/08
if it was rite now id say abortion. why bring a child into the world if youre not able to make it happy and care for it? ive seen many friends who were adopted but passed around so much that it left them beyond insecure. kids with one parents can grow alrite but giving it life and not thinking whats best up to capability is stupid. im not completely kid friendly. short temper with kids after they cry for 20 min non stop. if i was serious with the guy i would marry and try to adapt. for now i dont have to worry cuz im keeping my vcard and staying single until im 18 at least.
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Posted 8/13/08 , edited 8/13/08
Oooo controversial subject... I like!

Well i am at a different point in my life than a lot of you..(old-er-ish) Well in my cause there would be no running away..i will still be pregnant. If i was a victim of rape i would have to talk seriously to my boyfriend and discuss if having a family at the time would be okay with him, (since its not his baby). Or i would give the child up for adoption: having the child as the constant reminder of the time i was rapped would be painful. But if i became pregnant under normal circumstances i am sure that i would get married to the guy and have a jump start on making my family. And if it happend today i would be ecstatic that FINALLY after 6 years we can get married. (im supposed to finish college first )
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22 / F / England
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Posted 8/13/08
either keep it n be a single mum or keep it n marry the father ... depends on wat the father wants to do ...
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28 / F / Las Vegas, Nevada
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Posted 8/13/08
i would abort. No matter what the situation is, even if i was raped, knowing that a part of that person is growing inside me is disgusting. I know that even if i did keep it, i wouldn't make the child happy, because it would constantly remind you of what had happened. I sound really heartless and i know it's not the childs fault, but i would still feel some resentment towards it.
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izickree wrote:



I almost died of laughter...
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