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Posted 8/17/08
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In our society today, people tend to judge others harshly, whether its based on looks, or what a person does once. People sometimes refuse to look past the exteirior and judge others upon meeting (first impressions can be wrong).

Most of these judgings are aimed at women or girls. We all know these names (I'm sorry, but I'm about to use curse words): hooker, slut, whore, ho, bitch, etc. And more than likely, we are judged of these names based on the mistakes we make. Sometimes we aren't like that.

But its also girls who do some of the worst judging. You've all seen those cliques of girls roaming around and insulting people, right? Well, they do it, but its not just them. Everyone has judged or insulted someone, with or without reason.

I personally think this is unfair-- judging and being judged-- and I think it would be better if people thought about this. And I also want people to come clean and admit if they've judged others without reason (I'll admit, I have...). This unjustice needs to stop, and I hope we can all be more careful from now on.
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Posted 9/3/08
i don't like to judge people....but being cautious is nothing wrong i think....
Posted 10/13/08
I dont liek to judge people too

This girl can look real nice and pretty

but maybe deep down shes a mean girl

which makes her ugly becuz,if ur mean u will grow to be ugly

thats wat i think..
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Posted 10/13/08
i really hate judging ppl and being judged but i think we all do it at 1 point or another.. so u can't stop it completely but we shouldn't be treated differently because of what ppl THINK about us
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Posted 11/21/08
i have and i dont like it but wen im mad i dont care one bit
Posted 11/29/08
i have judge people i think. but i dont get that what does judging means?
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Posted 12/10/08
ooooo I've done this too many times, but Im capable of empathy to a fault as well. When Im mad I know that I shouldnt judge but I end up doing it, i think more out of jealousy actually. But ive improved a lot. I know theres a lot more to the person than meets the eye (Ive been doing some itsybitsy psychology as well to improve my understanding of others so as to not judge them in future.) I really feel like Ive done a great job hehe j/k
Posted 12/22/08
exactly, u should never judge someoe beause ifu gotto know em better, u might actually become good friends!
Posted 8/7/09
where i live they judge u on how rich u r and if i wanna survive i have to be sum1 im not and i hate it
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Posted 10/23/10
I'm Popular in 8th grade so like, my popular friends want me to judge people by their looks and on the outside, and i just don't like to do it.
Posted 11/23/11
I am in the seventh grade I've never judged people intentionally unless they have bullied me and the only person I talk with when I judge

people are my mom or best friend who doesn't even know the people I talk about and goes to a different school.Nobody ever talks to me at

school so i'm usually lonely.I was the only girl in my class from k-3rd so I've never got along with girls in groups at school,but I long for

acceptance.The girls in my class are always talking about boys or gossip,which is why i don't hang out with them and they don't like it when i

come over to say hello.When I do try to hang out with them they shoo me away after a couple minutes saying"Oh we have something we

have to talk about alone,"well then don't talk about it at school,I know saying that doesn't sound bad but the person you say it to feels hurt.

I'm not a total tomboy,I wear frilly clothes occasionally and collect makeup.I can't hang out with the boys who play basketball anymore

because i no longer feel i fit in.When the girls in my class need someone to talk to they come to me even though we don't hang out

together,because i an quiet and I listen,and occasionally give advice(I never tell others secrets).For some reason people feel i'm someone

they can trust which is something someone said to me.My bf is 16 and always talks to me about her problems.When i hang out with a girl

when their not with the group,we get along well and there friendly.

Posted 12/8/11 , edited 12/8/11
i know how it feels to be judged people/ the girls think i am dumb in my class, but luckily i proved them wrong by explaining them things
Posted 4/9/13

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I am in the seventh grade I've never judged people intentionally unless they have bullied me and the only person I talk with when I judge

people are my mom or best friend who doesn't even know the people I talk about and goes to a different school.Nobody ever talks to me at

school so i'm usually lonely.I was the only girl in my class from k-3rd so I've never got along with girls in groups at school,but I long for

acceptance.The girls in my class are always talking about boys or gossip,which is why i don't hang out with them and they don't like it when i

come over to say hello.When I do try to hang out with them they shoo me away after a couple minutes saying"Oh we have something we

have to talk about alone,"well then don't talk about it at school,I know saying that doesn't sound bad but the person you say it to feels hurt.

I'm not a total tomboy,I wear frilly clothes occasionally and collect makeup.I can't hang out with the boys who play basketball anymore

because i no longer feel i fit in.When the girls in my class need someone to talk to they come to me even though we don't hang out

together,because i an quiet and I listen,and occasionally give advice(I never tell others secrets).For some reason people feel i'm someone

they can trust which is something someone said to me.My bf is 16 and always talks to me about her problems.When i hang out with a girl

when their not with the group,we get along well and there friendly.



Exactly what you said. I agree with you!! Liike, about the people I judge are the ones who bully me or bullied me. ^^
Posted 4/9/13

wrote:

I am in the seventh grade I've never judged people intentionally unless they have bullied me and the only person I talk with when I judge

people are my mom or best friend who doesn't even know the people I talk about and goes to a different school.Nobody ever talks to me at

school so i'm usually lonely.I was the only girl in my class from k-3rd so I've never got along with girls in groups at school,but I long for

acceptance.The girls in my class are always talking about boys or gossip,which is why i don't hang out with them and they don't like it when i

come over to say hello.When I do try to hang out with them they shoo me away after a couple minutes saying"Oh we have something we

have to talk about alone,"well then don't talk about it at school,I know saying that doesn't sound bad but the person you say it to feels hurt.

I'm not a total tomboy,I wear frilly clothes occasionally and collect makeup.I can't hang out with the boys who play basketball anymore

because i no longer feel i fit in.When the girls in my class need someone to talk to they come to me even though we don't hang out

together,because i an quiet and I listen,and occasionally give advice(I never tell others secrets).For some reason people feel i'm someone

they can trust which is something someone said to me.My bf is 16 and always talks to me about her problems.When i hang out with a girl

when their not with the group,we get along well and there friendly.



WAIT. SAME HERE!!!! I have the same social issues too ^^
Posted 6/24/13
In my case, you were popular if you were a gothic and/or butch girl because guys thought "wow, she's so independent and different from other girls" So being the catty girly girl that I am, I always got bullied or ignored.
I find it ironic because in highschool stereotypes, the glamour girls are usually the ones getting all the guys and running the school. But where I come from, people automatically assume I'm either a bimbo, b!tch, or both.
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