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Is it right to date your friend's ex?
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31 / M / Walnut/Berkeley, CA
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Posted 3/21/07
yay i finally have 200 pts so i can start a new thread! anyways, liek the title said, would you ever date one of your friends' ex?
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hows she rate on a scale of 1-10?

Just kidding....somewhat.

Really it depends, but sure why not?
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I have a very firm rule against this. For many reasons, if it's a good friend who you spend a lot of time with and it was a messy break up the two of them around bound to not want to see each other. That means you'll have to choose to split your attention between the two of them. On top of that even if they don't have feelings for each other your friend might resent the fact that you're dating his ex. There are always reasons people break up and you would know a lot of the faults she has going in to it which is good and bad. Then there's that whole second to the game idea which bugs me.
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27 / M / California
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never cuz friends should be ur friends and not stab u in the back....
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77 / F / in the club
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Nope. I can't date a friend's ex --- i'm totally against it. No matter how their relationship ended, i care much about the breakup. I can't hurt a friend's feelings anyway cos believe it or not - ex's will be hurt once a friend dated your ex. It's as if --- i'm stealing my friend's past relationships.
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31 / M / Walnut/Berkeley, CA
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what if all three of u are friends??
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20 / M / Boston
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Posted 3/21/07

whatispaintball wrote:

what if all three of u are friends??


I believe this to be a whole separate bag of issues. Dating a friend almost surely ends in disaster. I also avoid dating friends since it's like walking in a mine field with clown shoes and a blind fold on. You could make it through but honestly it wouldn't be a bad idea to just stop and realize it's probably a bad idea.
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31 / M / Walnut/Berkeley, CA
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Posted 3/21/07
haha once in the friend zone, it's over... because u worry about ur friendship afterwards...
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26 / F / somwhere in calif...
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Posted 3/21/07
im ABSOLUTELY againest dating my friends ex's... because no matter how much they say their okay with it... its still going to hurt them... even if its just a little bit and plus true friends are harder to find then boyfriends so why would you want to hurt somone who matters to you soooo much
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whatispaintball wrote:

haha once in the friend zone, it's over... because u worry about ur friendship afterwards...

^ ohhh.. this is a different story.
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27 / M / Toronto
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Posted 3/21/07
If she's the most important thing for me then I will, heck I care if he's my stupid friend's ex.
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77 / F / in the club
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^ that's the spirit Rei.
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27 / M / Toronto
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Posted 3/21/07

simpleyesa wrote:

^ that's the spirit Rei.


Oh yeah...that is what I wanna do yet I can't...damn.
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26 / M / San Francisco
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Posted 3/21/07
uh...losers cant date. and i'm a loser

...sniff...
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26 / F / somwhere in calif...
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Posted 3/21/07
i think its kinda different for boys and girls... because girls are sooo much more emotional then guys.... well at least most girls are
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