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Nonsexual - is there such a thing ?!!
Posted 8/23/08

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absynth wrote:


FlavorAmazing wrote:

I'm an involuntary nonsexual
Some people are just doomed to die alone.


nah.
worst comes to worst, you can always get a dog!


With a dog? That's even worse than being nonsexual!


... i meant as a friend.
lonely people get dogs for friends.

ugh.

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Posted 8/23/08
crap!
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Posted 8/23/08
there is a specific term for people like that, slipped my mind though.
I'll let you know if I can find it out. It's not very uncommon or anything like that.
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Posted 8/23/08

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Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...


its called being asexual. Look it up. Also it might be a phase, you never know.
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Posted 8/23/08

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HeatherHanderson wrote:

Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...


its called being asexual. Look it up. Also it might be a phase, you never know.


Isn't A-sexuality when you procreate with yourself, or split and become two separate organisms?
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Posted 8/23/08 , edited 8/23/08

memphit wrote:

Isn't A-sexuality when you procreate with yourself, or split and become two separate organisms?


Dont know, i dont have much knowledge of it myself. Thats why I told her to look it up instead of trying to describe. The asexual i'm aware of, is when you're not attracted to anyone.

edit:
you're talking about the asexual reproductive system.

I was talking about this..

http://www.smh.com.au/news/National/No-sex-please-Im-not-into-it/2005/04/15/1113509924438.html
Posted 8/23/08
im not sure about nonsexual... but i know someone who says that she's an antisexual.. whatever that means >.<
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Posted 8/23/08

Kippu wrote:


memphit wrote:

Isn't A-sexuality when you procreate with yourself, or split and become two separate organisms?


Dont know, i dont have much knowledge of it myself. Thats why I told her to look it up instead of trying to describe. The asexual i'm aware of, is when you're not attracted to anyone.

edit:
you're talking about the asexual reproductive system.

I was talking about this..

http://www.smh.com.au/news/National/No-sex-please-Im-not-into-it/2005/04/15/1113509924438.html

I couldn't read that full article, how depressing.
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Posted 8/23/08

absynth wrote:

depending on your age, this isn't something to stress out about.
*oh, you're 20. hmm.

also, it could be that you just haven't met/seen that person you could be in a relationship with yet... although if you've never been attracted to anyone you've met i dont know what to say!
but, its definitely okay to be picky or anxious about relationships.
some people aren't meant for casual things.

... is the problem that you aren't attracted to the people you date?
like, nonsexual.
what do you mean by that?




I was really into that guy i dated a few months ago. He was one of the rare guys i thought i'd never have a chance to go out with, but after a few times going out with him i felt so wrong. I didn't even bother answering his calls after that. . But anyway, this stops here. I'd just assume i'm non-sexual. Thanks for your reply though.
Posted 8/23/08

HeatherHanderson wrote:


absynth wrote:

depending on your age, this isn't something to stress out about.
*oh, you're 20. hmm.

also, it could be that you just haven't met/seen that person you could be in a relationship with yet... although if you've never been attracted to anyone you've met i dont know what to say!
but, its definitely okay to be picky or anxious about relationships.
some people aren't meant for casual things.

... is the problem that you aren't attracted to the people you date?
like, nonsexual.
what do you mean by that?




I was really into that guy i dated a few months ago. He was one of the rare guys i thought i'd never have a chance to go out with, but after a few times going out with him i felt so wrong. I didn't even bother answering his calls after that. . But anyway, this stops here. I'd just assume i'm non-sexual. Thanks for your reply though.


no problem.
at least you've got it all figured out.
:)
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Posted 8/24/08
there is someone for everyone eventually, just dont look for it, take care hun
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Posted 8/24/08
maybe you have some kind of tick that makes you attracted to a person
like if they look good in an apron or something
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Posted 8/24/08 , edited 8/24/08

HeatherHanderson wrote:

Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...


Yes there is, its rare that it last a hole life time, and I feel a little bad for you but im sure you will find a man or women who you like. If not you can run a orphan or help animals at worst you might be the cat laydie of the town when you get older. On some real though those represt feelings will go some were they allways do weather you like it or not. But I dont think you should worry about it sence you still have alot of life to live.
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Posted 8/24/08
First, the title of this thread made me assume that you hate things that are sexually provocative or just phallic in nature. "Non-sexual" can be a bit misleading. Ha ha =D

It seems to me that you are tad homophobic. It is not a bad thing considering that many people are freaked out by homosexual relationships easily. Also, based on your age, you are still a young adult and still is on the transition from adolescence to being a real adult per se. Problems on gender identity is not isolate for people in this age group.

Just chill and take your chances on relationships. Learn to grow from them and maybe you wouldn't feel this confused. Well, that's it on my take on your situation. Good luck!

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Posted 8/24/08
I don't think there's such a thing but maybe you're just not ready for any relationship right now... At least, not a serious relationship.
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