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Nonsexual - is there such a thing ?!!
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27 / M / Look up.
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Posted 11/4/08
Non-sexual is the equivelant of a pointless existance. Unless of course you do something freaking awesome but other than that there's no point you exist. Creatures live in order to reproduce and to further their species. Its the basic blue-print of existance.
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Asexual sure exists
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HeatherHanderson wrote:

Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...


dun worry too much, i think what you're going through is normal and you don't need counseling..hmm.. nonsexual is the same as intellectual which means finding something else more interesting than sex.. maybe you just don't know what that "something" is yet... others choose god and ended up holed up in a convent, others chose the force and ended up in a convention, others chose bill gates and ended up being screwed over by microsoft.. ok that last part was totally irrelevant but what i'm trying to say is. just chill, explore the world and you'll definitely find something you can be passionate about minus the ritualistic exchange of bodily fluids known as kissing, and the other thing people do in bed or at the badly lit parking lot and so on..
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i think you should not worry about it at all. For example, if just the mention of holding hands freak you out, maybe you should try loving without touching?? <<that sounds kinda sick..

I've seen married people that dont hold hands, kiss or sleep tgt but they still love each other no matter what. So, dont worry about it, it will work out for you. you may feel different altogother too xD

You said you went out with a guy that you were really into, but maybe it was just.. you know? puppy love? i think you'll feel different altogether when you go out with a guy u love.

thats all ^^ hope everything will work out for you xD
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manzi wrote:


HeatherHanderson wrote:

Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...


dun worry too much, i think what you're going through is normal and you don't need counseling..hmm.. nonsexual is the same as intellectual which means finding something else more interesting than sex.. maybe you just don't know what that "something" is yet... others choose god and ended up holed up in a convent, others chose the force and ended up in a convention, others chose bill gates and ended up being screwed over by microsoft.. ok that last part was totally irrelevant but what i'm trying to say is. just chill, explore the world and you'll definitely find something you can be passionate about minus the ritualistic exchange of bodily fluids known as kissing, and the other thing people do in bed or at the badly lit parking lot and so on..


lol "others choose god and ended up holed up in a convent, others chose the force and ended up in a convention, others chose bill gates and ended up being screwed over by microsoft." < that was funny
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...I'm not attracted to anyone right now. I mean hell yeah I still get turned on but that's because I need the physical sitimulation. I don't need a man or a woman for that. I just want the emotional aspect.
Posted 11/4/08

HeatherHanderson wrote:

Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...


There are plenty of fishes in the sea. For now, don't be too curious to get one.
You might bump on someone one day and totally get fascinated [whether by looks, personality, money(?), or the scenario].
Who knows. You might turn in-love to a total bum on a street. >:D bwahahahahahahahahahhahahahha!
Posted 11/4/08
Don't worry about it. Connecting with others is a multilayered ordeal. You won't know what you're looking for till you find it. Maybe you're some kind of exotic deviant and you'll find some way to get you're motor running. Stop forcing yourself to make a decision about your sexuality or lack thereof, and taste the other fruits of socialization. Sometimes it is good to surround yourself with close friends and love them all.

Eros - Erotic love
Philos - Companionship
Agape - Selfless unconditional love

Find out what your favorite flavor is and ignore what you don't want.
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That is...deeep XD but i agree...:/

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hmm your just like me but do not give up you just have to look HeatherHande... take care
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You could be Asexuality or you are afraid of relationships (getting close to people) or maybe you do not like public affection (showing the world your affective side(or some would consider their weakness). Or maybe you haven't met the right person. :blush:

P.S
Sometimes these feeling are caused by bad or wierd childhood (eg: parental divorce,rape, or death). So if you had one you might want counseling
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According to WordWeb Dictionary:

Adjective: nonsexual

1. Not having or involving sex
- asexual


Yes it does exist Or maybe it means your a virgin...
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27 / M / In your room stea...
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Eh, I dont care about anything like sex or relationships, so I guess you could call me NonSexual.
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HeatherHanderson wrote:

Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...


You might be anti-social without knowing it. Like you can only relate to people you think are your best friends, that might be a cause of your repulsion to the male sex, since you dislike lesbianism as well, that means you are straight but simply aren't ready for any kind of contact with males. It's a possibility.
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Posted 11/4/08
I think that you just want a friend to talk to You dont want to do anything sexual with anyone
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