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does a man have the right to take away a womens chance of having children?
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Posted 8/26/08
It's not the woman's egg alone because they're already fertilized.
Although its sad that the woman can't have any more children, the court made the right decision.
She could always adopt.
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WHAT THE HELL?!

What a total A-hole! As far as the circumstances, the man has no right to destroy his ex-wife's only chance of children. He cheated on the poor woman and ruined her life! If I were the woman, I'd hunt him down!

Besides, about the child support, the woman could simply ask for sole custody of the would-be child WITHOUT child support. If I were her, I wouldn't want anything to do with a man like that!
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Sry but that guy is just sick -_-
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NiNaBoN wrote:

Well... guys don't spam.

I mean the couple got divorced. Why would she want to keep the babies afterwards. Does she want them not living with a father? Since she'll be single she'll have to work and leave her kids in a daycare. And trust me : MOST KIDS WHO ALWAYS GO TO DAYCARE NEVER GET A GOOD EDUCATION. Unless she gets another mate. I agree with the dude but I don't share the same point of view.


Then again... *Language warning* ITS HER FUCKING EGGS SO SHE MAKES THE FUCKING DECISION.

I don't agree with the man's point of view but the court made the right decision.


Umm it's his sperm also, so he has 50% of decision also hehe
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xOxcinderellaxOx wrote:

WHAT THE HELL?!

What a total A-hole! As far as the circumstances, the man has no right to destroy his ex-wife's only chance of children. He cheated on the poor woman and ruined her life! If I were the woman, I'd hunt him down!

Besides, about the child support, the woman could simply ask for sole custody of the would-be child WITHOUT child support. If I were her, I wouldn't want anything to do with a man like that!


sorry for being cold....he didnt destroyed her chance of having a baby ...her cancer destroyed her chance of having children, all he did was cheat on her and they both decided to get an divorce. ,y question is ig she is so desperate to have a baby....why not be a surrogate mom ad have a baby...why does it have to be those specific fertilized eggs?
Posted 8/26/08 , edited 8/26/08
Well, the point is that he didn't want children and she wanted children, if her eggs would have been fertilised with the sperm of some other men, then this wouldn't have been a problem, and if she wouldn't have wanted from her ex husband to get child support, then he would have probably let her have her kids, and even if not, if they were already separated, then it is quite understandable for the guy that he doesn't want to become the daddy of the kids any more.

I guess she is pretty much depressed over this, since it was her last chance to actually have her OWN children, made with her genes, now the only option left for her is to adopt children. The ego of humans, tsk tsk, just adopt a child, there are so many with no parents :)

But basically, I would need some more details about it, I would need to know, if she wanted her ex husband to actually pay child support or not, I would need to know if her husband would have minded the fact of her having children if he wouldn't have to pay child support, etc.

Like that I can't say anything really meaningful when it comes to that case.

And, personally I think it depends on the case, I can't say for instance that I think men have no right to decide whether to have children or not. There are various reasons why a man wouldn't want to have children, and there are various reasons why a woman wants to have children.

But when it comes to abortion, then I don't think that a man is allowed to disagree with abortion, nor to force abortion upon her, as the child is already in her womb, it's not like in the OPs mentioned case, where it's just a few eggs with sperms in a lab tube...

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I-Killerbee-I wrote:

Well, the point is that he didn't want children and she wanted children, if her eggs would have been fertilised with the sperm of some other men, then this wouldn't have been a problem, and if she wouldn't have wanted from her ex husband to get child support, then he would have probably let her have her kids, and even if not, if they were already separated, then it is quite understandable for the guy that he doesn't want to become the daddy of the kids any more.

I guess she is pretty much depressed over this, since it was her last chance to actually have her OWN children, made with her genes, now the only option left for her is to adopt children. The ego of humans, tsk tsk, just adopt a child, there are so many with no parents :)

But basically, I would need some more details about it, I would need to know, if she wanted her ex husband to actually pay child support or not, I would need to know if her husband would have minded the fact of her having children if he wouldn't have to pay child support, etc.

Like that I can't say anything really meaningful when it comes to that case.

And, personally I think it depends on the case, I can't say for instance that I think men have no right to decide whether to have children or not. There are various reasons why a man wouldn't want to have children, and there are various reasons why a woman wants to have children.

But when it comes to abortion, then I don't think that a man is allowed to disagree with abortion, nor to force abortion upon her, as the child is already in her womb, it's not like in the OPs mentioned case, where it's just a few eggs with sperms in a lab tube...

Floetry~

*claps many times*....eheh that was perfect answer i owuld say^^...becaus ei htink the smae¨^...but its really different thign to have her OWN children athan adopt one^^
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NO, especially not that selfish bastard. he was cheating on her while she had cancer. fucking retard..he should get his bits chopped off..
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Posted 8/26/08 , edited 8/26/08
it makes perfect sense... he has the right to do it.... why pay child support to your ex wife? it sucks
she was bound to be infertile. the girl is selfish.... she should know that her eggs have her hereditary cancer cells. its like giving cancer to your own baby.
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Posted 8/26/08
They're her eggs and her body. He doesn't have as much right as she has. He sounds like a douche too. Cheating on her and taking away her chance at having babies.
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Posted 8/26/08 , edited 8/26/08
It's HIS child also, and the bitch could just adopt. Her genes are probably not so amazingly better than everybody else anyways, although I'm sure mine are better :). I do feel sad for her and all, but it's the worst thing I've ever seen. :-/ She has other options if she wants kids.
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Tough one. I might side with the ex-husband if she still had the ability to concieve, but she doesn't, so she should be able to use those eggs.
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redfinger1 wrote:


NiNaBoN wrote:

Well... guys don't spam.

I mean the couple got divorced. Why would she want to keep the babies afterwards. Does she want them not living with a father? Since she'll be single she'll have to work and leave her kids in a daycare. And trust me : MOST KIDS WHO ALWAYS GO TO DAYCARE NEVER GET A GOOD EDUCATION. Unless she gets another mate. I agree with the dude but I don't share the same point of view.


Then again... *Language warning* ITS HER FUCKING EGGS SO SHE MAKES THE FUCKING DECISION.

I don't agree with the man's point of view but the court made the right decision.


Umm it's his sperm also, so he has 50% of decision also hehe


Oh true that
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Posted 8/26/08
Speechless.......... I hope he will regrets destroying someone’s future
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Posted 8/26/08

Lost_Wings wrote:

Aww that's sad. =[ What a selfish guy. *sigh*

Oh.. she can go with adoption.


yea but it probaly won't be the same
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