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Posted 9/13/08


thx..your advise was really good..thx
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Posted 9/13/08

allanimelover wrote:

thx..your advise was really good..thx


Again, no problem. I'm actually having some rather emotionally taxing times, and this kind of helps.
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Posted 9/19/08
i really like reading your advises. They kinda help me with things i've been wondering about.
and i have a Q. I'm a rather strange person if i'm gonna describe myself. I love rain, thunder and lightning, and scary things, the moon, and (almost) everything about the night ('cause it's kinda scary and i like scary things) and i'm usualy super duper shy around people i don't know much, and i don't have any close guy friends. So when i'm around people i don't know much then i get shy and try to hide it with making a reserved face ( but when i'm around people i know i usualy get WAY too hyper, and i mean like crazier then a drunk person x.X) and many thinks that i'm sad or angry or something, in 8th grade there where even this boy in 9th grade that always said "your sad, your sad, why are you sad" everytime he passed me (so annoying) well let's get to the Q. Do you think there's somebody out there who likes me, or will tr to get closer to me (a guy or something) .. sorry about the strange Q >.< and must be a hard Q to answer <.< ....
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i really like reading your advises. They kinda help me with things i've been wondering about.
and i have a Q. I'm a rather strange person if i'm gonna describe myself. I love rain, thunder and lightning, and scary things, the moon, and (almost) everything about the night ('cause it's kinda scary and i like scary things) and i'm usualy super duper shy around people i don't know much, and i don't have any close guy friends. So when i'm around people i don't know much then i get shy and try to hide it with making a reserved face ( but when i'm around people i know i usualy get WAY too hyper, and i mean like crazier then a drunk person x.X) and many thinks that i'm sad or angry or something, in 8th grade there where even this boy in 9th grade that always said "your sad, your sad, why are you sad" everytime he passed me (so annoying) well let's get to the Q. Do you think there's somebody out there who likes me, or will tr to get closer to me (a guy or something) .. sorry about the strange Q >.< and must be a hard Q to answer <.< ....


Perfectly legitimate question. I used to be about the same. During middle school and high school up to my junior year I was incredibly shy. I can honestly say there's no doubt someone has had a crush on you. The problem is- as a shy person- you are way more likely to attract a shy guy. Just try to keep an eye open. Speaking from who would typically have been 'that guy', just look out for a quiet guy. If he smiles or smiles and looks away then there's a chance. If that kinda guy isn't up your alley, don't fret. There are undoubtedly a few guys who consider you now.

Best thing to do is think about who you'd like- and if you can't approach them- at least try to show what kind of person you are near them. Try and catch their attention.

In short: reason says there's someone, probably a few people considering you romantically. Also keep in mind patience is a good tool. Many people opt for early and fast relationships, but those generally don't work and should not be a model for you.
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Taru-chan wrote:

i really like reading your advises. They kinda help me with things i've been wondering about.
and i have a Q. I'm a rather strange person if i'm gonna describe myself. I love rain, thunder and lightning, and scary things, the moon, and (almost) everything about the night ('cause it's kinda scary and i like scary things) and i'm usualy super duper shy around people i don't know much, and i don't have any close guy friends. So when i'm around people i don't know much then i get shy and try to hide it with making a reserved face ( but when i'm around people i know i usualy get WAY too hyper, and i mean like crazier then a drunk person x.X) and many thinks that i'm sad or angry or something, in 8th grade there where even this boy in 9th grade that always said "your sad, your sad, why are you sad" everytime he passed me (so annoying) well let's get to the Q. Do you think there's somebody out there who likes me, or will tr to get closer to me (a guy or something) .. sorry about the strange Q >.< and must be a hard Q to answer <.< ....


Perfectly legitimate question. I used to be about the same. During middle school and high school up to my junior year I was incredibly shy. I can honestly say there's no doubt someone has had a crush on you. The problem is- as a shy person- you are way more likely to attract a shy guy. Just try to keep an eye open. Speaking from who would typically have been 'that guy', just look out for a quiet guy. If he smiles or smiles and looks away then there's a chance. If that kinda guy isn't up your alley, don't fret. There are undoubtedly a few guys who consider you now.

Best thing to do is think about who you'd like- and if you can't approach them- at least try to show what kind of person you are near them. Try and catch their attention.

In short: reason says there's someone, probably a few people considering you romantically. Also keep in mind patience is a good tool. Many people opt for early and fast relationships, but those generally don't work and should not be a model for you.


okai, thanks alot for the advice ^__^

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Posted 9/20/08

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okai, thanks alot for the advice ^__^



No problem, boost my topic back to the top. If you haven't heard, I promised to leave the group when this topic hits page two [or if they kick me out I guess]. Also, if you're even on the same continent as me, you shouldn't be up so late!
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hi!!! i luv raeding ur posts but now i wld like to ask u something!! there's a guy that i ws in love with and still n his my boyfriend!! he said that he'll never let go of my hand!!even if he see's me dying from his love cuz we wer havin some problems with my mom! but sisnce i came back from summer break i feel like there something off!! he doesn't trust me n too controling! plus he had a girlfriend while we wer together he brok up with her to be with me! so i feel like our relation satrted wrong! so i've been thinking of living him n then i cldn't face him and sice he's always around i just started ignorin him! till he told me am lettin go of ur hand! but the way he looks at me is still the same! kindda!! but it's like he's blaming me!! but i just cldn't take it anymore all the pain the tears...! i cldn't n today he tried to give me back my pic but mom was there so i said don't! n maybe he got it the wrong way like am not raedy to let go!! i really dont know what to do!!how to deal with this!! even if i love him am ready to walk away and suffer! cuz i can't live in the sorrow and the dark state i was in!!
what to do!?
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hi!!! i luv raeding ur posts but now i wld like to ask u something!! there's a guy that i ws in love with and still n his my boyfriend!! he said that he'll never let go of my hand!!even if he see's me dying from his love cuz we wer havin some problems with my mom! but sisnce i came back from summer break i feel like there something off!! he doesn't trust me n too controling! plus he had a girlfriend while we wer together he brok up with her to be with me! so i feel like our relation satrted wrong! so i've been thinking of living him n then i cldn't face him and sice he's always around i just started ignorin him! till he told me am lettin go of ur hand! but the way he looks at me is still the same! kindda!! but it's like he's blaming me!! but i just cldn't take it anymore all the pain the tears...! i cldn't n today he tried to give me back my pic but mom was there so i said don't! n maybe he got it the wrong way like am not raedy to let go!! i really dont know what to do!!how to deal with this!! even if i love him am ready to walk away and suffer! cuz i can't live in the sorrow and the dark state i was in!!
what to do!?


First thing you should do is try to remain calm. The worst mistakes are made when you get emotional. At this point you need to take control of the situation. In order to be safe you can't assume others will take care of problems for you, so you need to. In this situation I would tell him you want to take a break; that you're unsure of the relationship and you need time to think in peace. If you're afraid of his reaction, reassure him he's a good friend; just maybe not boyfriend material. He will be upset no matter what if he cares for you, but some things must be faced for a happier life. During that time it should become more obvious whether you want to be with him, and if not you can transfer this into a simple friendship. It seems like you have affection for him, but not in a romantic sense.

I don't mean to belittle the relationship, but it sounds like a relatively common situation. This seems more like an experimental thing than a solid relationship. The fact that you didn't leave him as soon as he had a second girlfriend says it couldn't have been that important. What I'm saying is, you can't possibly expect a good relationship from someone as unstable and frivolous as him.

In my honest opinion: unless you're into somewhat open relationships, you need to back out before you feel too reliant on it. It's never too late to move on.
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Posted 9/24/08
tnx alot!! u just validated what i've been thinkin to do!! tnx alot for ur time!!! and plz stick around we appreciate ur help!!
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tnx alot!! u just validated what i've been thinkin to do!! tnx alot for ur time!!! and plz stick around we appreciate ur help!!


Well, that's up to them. Though it seems like they're having a hard time uh, getting a hold of all of them or something. Hopefully I can just stick with my promise.
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cool,
but do u like join every group that says girls only groups?


i got a little bro like u, hes always around girls and stuff like me hes sister and cousins(girl) and he actually used to play barbie
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ur goo by the way its fun to read the things u write
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cool,
but do u like join every group that says girls only groups?


i got a little bro like u, hes always around girls and stuff like me hes sister and cousins(girl) and he actually used to play barbie
LOL


Well, I was actually accidentally invited to the group; so short answer: no. I figured I shouldn't go around reading the posts, but I tend to prefer talking to girls and I also tend to sound smart for some reason. That and that I consider myself something of a recreational sociologist lead me to start this topic. I will leave if a moderator asks me to or once the topic is no longer wanted (falls off the main page).

On a side note, thanks to having a sister only a year younger, I will admit my action figures were thoroughly mixed with my sisters barbies. I may have even asked for a Ken once. How effeminate can you get as a guy? My top toy as a kid was still legos though.
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awsome_anime_angel wrote:

cool,
but do u like join every group that says girls only groups?


i got a little bro like u, hes always around girls and stuff like me hes sister and cousins(girl) and he actually used to play barbie
LOL


Well, I was actually accidentally invited to the group; so short answer: no. I figured I shouldn't go around reading the posts, but I tend to prefer talking to girls and I also tend to sound smart for some reason. That and that I consider myself something of a recreational sociologist lead me to start this topic. I will leave if a moderator asks me to or once the topic is no longer wanted (falls off the main page).

On a side note, thanks to having a sister only a year younger, I will admit my action figures were thoroughly mixed with my sisters barbies. I may have even asked for a Ken once. How effeminate can you get as a guy? My top toy as a kid was still legos though.


lol
u always put a chunk of text
do u copy and paste it from somewhere or someting?
but its nice that u can elp us gurls kindof so i think u should actually stay in the group+u always give a detailed explanation
LoL
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awsome_anime_angel wrote:

lol
u always put a chunk of text
do u copy and paste it from somewhere or someting?
but its nice that u can elp us gurls kindof so i think u should actually stay in the group+u always give a detailed explanation
LoL


I can proudly say every single post is completely original and made on the spot. Don't take it personally, but the thought of plagiarism offends me. I'm not looking up answers for any of these questions, or currently studying this topic. Each answer is uniquely made from my collective logic and experience. I hope that settles that.

Me copy and paste? Never!

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Sorry, but any discredit to journalism can be touchy. It's my work!
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