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Racial Stereotypes (in Relationships)
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Black girls and Asian men are the underdogs of American society (as far as dating/marriage) society. Why we don't hook up more ??? Maybe we each believe the stereotypes that have been placed upon us that we hate so much.
Seraph is so right about the video hoe phenomenon, because of Music videos and certain movies blk girls get a bad rep, epecially internationally. Most blk/hispanic women don't act/dress anything like that.
I think you fall for who you have a connection with. That goes for anyone preferences or not. You might be surprised who people find attractive but are too afraid to say so because society, the community, their culture, family, etc... says it is a no-no.
Their is an independent film (still in production) Akira's Hip-Hop Shop that looks really good. It's about a Japanese guy and an African-American girl whose relationship cause everyone around them to have a coronary. Looks good you can watch a preview on youtube.
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SeraphAlford wrote:

Well you are going to jump down my throat for this, but I’ve never had much interest in black women. I think this is because my only friend growing up was my half-black cousin, and it’s kind of weird to me or something. We’re still very close friends, and I have a lot of black friends who are females. I don’t know. Call me racist if you like, but that’s my taste.

However, I did once try to date a black girl. Never again. I got the Sh#4 kicked out of me! “Stay away from our women white boy!” I remember, ever bloody kick to my face, my groin, my stomach… I still have a scar across my elbow from where her brother tried to slice me in half with a knife.

I didn’t even do anything wrong! I didn’t even like her, I just said I’d go out with her to avoid hurting her feelings!

As far as which races I see most common:

Black female/ white male

Asian female/ white male

Hispanic female/ black male

Just my personal experience. In any case, I think everyone is welcome to their taste. It may be a form of prejudice, or actual lets be honest, racism, but people don’t control what their taste is. (Although they did this study which showed that people tend to evaluate how attractive people are according to some mathematic pattern. I don‘t know, just an interesting fact.)

Now, I think there is a horrible prejudice of stereotyping black women going on these days! It makes me mad! Just because you see whores in rap videos jiggling their nasty butts does not mean all black women are ghetto booty, hutchie, tity mamma hookers!


Psy, that's understandable. Like I said, taste is something above your controll.
One last thing. Enlighten this ignorant youth… What’s B/c?




i agree no one can control their likes and its like girls with fare skin or not it just might not be appealing to you cause skin tone is part of a girls beauty you know?
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really thanks tweetiepie (^_^) I'll check it out, yeah thats what I think b/c I've heard a lot of guys say they want to ask a blk girl out but they are afraid to get rejected, but wouldnt that be with any chick lol

Jiangu: and yeah but a small part of a girls beauty, so a girls skin color would make her ugly...?



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Posted 3/28/07

BasouKazuma wrote:

Talk about perpetuating stereotypes
You'll never know just how much i hate it when people label others before getting to know them.

I'm attracted by people of all races. For me, it simply comes down to their individual personality.


I feel exactly the same way.
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Wow, thanks. I was braced for a bunch of caps...
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i never tot about dating a girl of the other race
but hey, why not?
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by the year 2025 it won't matter us crackas wont be the majority but the black people will and we will become minorities, and I have no opoion on the mexicans except if you want to come to our contury come through the right way and quit jumping our borders.
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well in my opinon race don`t mean shit. i`m the blackest one one my block the girl i`m talking to is the whitest girl you`ll ever find. every one I hang out with is a mixure of race. it realy does not matter
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sorry but most chinese korean and japanese girls wont go for blacks only the scummy side will and i dont see a problem with mixed races. Im half white and half asian so fuck u if u have a problem with mixed races.
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sorry but most chinese korean and japanese girls wont go for blacks only the scummy side will and i dont see a problem with mixed races. Im half white and half asian so fuck u if u have a problem with mixed races.


erm dunno why this double posted?

wow you have so much rage...? kenshin?

and I thought that the title would mislead ppl about what I was really asking so if ppl could just read what the first post that'd be nice...

and I've seen a lot of asian chicks in my area who date black guys so thats news to me that they don't like black guys what do you mean by scumy side only? please explain throughly...


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* Please note that the views expressed in this reply are not my own(their moms) and that I as a spineless momma's child have been brow beaten into doing this unpleasent act(I WAS WATCHING SOMETHING!) so please don't hold me responsable for what is said in the following.Thank you* undefined

I think there is a sterotype going on about black women out there. If were not video hos then were like the Clair Hustables of the "Cosby show". Were either one extreme or the other. When I'm just a normal avarage women trying to make a living like everybody else. From my personal experiance I am 45 and I get all races of men hitting on me. I have no preferance because like you My family is pretty mixed. Black, White, Hispanic,Asian and American Indian is part of our family history. And for the most part women like you, my daughter and myself tend not to look at race but at people as people because of that fact. But I have been called beautiful every sice I was a little girl. So it doesn't bother me when others say were not because of our color. I personllly like my honey golden brown complexion, and it's ok toif others don't. It's the world we live in. And that's my view.

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yeah I get hit on all the time by mixed race guys, and have been called several things to describe how I look (*^^)...like I'm a pretty normal girl I'd like to think look wise etc...I like rock, classical, and foreign music, I usually don't take shit from anybody, but I'm also not into confrentation, I prefer to try and talk things out then fight or yell...

But I was thinking about this earlier like how I stated before that black women are portrayed a certain way, but since were not seen as "beautiful" in the media that some guys will not even consider the possiblity of looking at a black woman in a romantic way? does that make sense?

And I could lie and say it doesnt get to me but growing up and not seeing an "image" of myself being seen more then the best friend in a movie, or the non lead who doesn't get the guy type of movie, or show...story? you know, its kind like wow its like 2007, I mean there is just now going to be a black disney princess...or lead female...

thanks for you input gaztasterofpork!!!!! oh yeah and only thing I don't have is Asian in my family my grandad pointed that out to me lol and was like referring to my dating an asian guy that maybe itll change lol

I'm just glad I was fortunate enough to be raised in such an open family so it doesnt cloud my judgement when chosing a mate (^_^) more gene possiblities for me!! I got off my own topic sorries...
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It doesn't matter what race you are when it comes to love. You would be just thinking inside of the box if you everyone just went out with people from the same race. I personally like to think all over the place. If you are a good person, it shouldn't matter what race you are. Right now, I'm best friends with an Asian guy who has feelings for me, and I'm starting think that I have feelings for him too. And as of right now, I want an Asian boyfriend, but can't seem to find a good one. XD...
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erm i'd make sure it'd be ok with her...more so b/c shes your best friend...I kinda felt left out in the az group (group for blk girl asian guy its a nickname i give it but anywho...)b/c all there ppl were talking about dating each other (asians guys dating blk chicks vice versa) but i didn't want to just go looking for asian guys lol but it would've been nice to have a story to share ya know, and then my bo came to me (^_^) we met in bio class my first semester in college!! so erm.. just be patient...and maybe your destined to be with a different race...don't limit yourself....or you can w.e floats your boat lol
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lilprince wrote:

For discussion on mixed races go here:
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=2119

-BasouKazuma
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Me and My friend always talk about this subject, like how black women seem to be the under dogs (I guess kind of like how asian guys feel that way?). Like the reason ppl give for liking asian woman is b/c they are "exotic" but I would think out of any race of females black girls are that extreme exotic (even more so straight african girls). There is no other race that has our hair texture, skin, body shapes etc...(can come close but doesnt compare)

I always say the true interacial relationships now are the ones between a black female and another race of guy, b/c every other combination is more common. (I know thats not true about being only IR but I'm stubborn lol, kinda like exaggerating things to make a point...)

Most common that I've seen

Black male/ White Woman( my grandparents lol)
Asian Woman/ White male (a lot in pittsburgh)
Asian Woman/ Black Male
White Woman/ Asian Male (a lot in the burgh)

Don't get me wrong I love seeing mixed relationships (^_^) I wouldn't exist if it werent for them but ya...Every where you look there is reasons why every other race of women are beautiful but only time I ever hear of why black women are its from all black movies or all black w.e...

So are there guys out there who honestly like dating Black Woman, if yes what do you like about them...any one dating a black girl? or have/ or wanted to?

And are there any black girls who feel the same way?

I'm dating a chinese guy right now, and I'd like to see more movies that have IR themes without having the drama be about their race, me and my bo have regular problems like other relationships. Any one else feel the same way?

Like I read somewheres that guys tend not to go for black women b/c we seem more masculine (stronger), and that, thats why girls tend to go for black guys is b/c they seem more manly. And Asian woman were more femine , and asian guys not as manly... And White women and men are in the middle...didnt say anything about latins though (not my theory < ppl so don't get mad at me lol)









wow that was racist. but um who fucking cares if all you see them is in black movies, and blah blah blah. do you see white people in "white movies" saying oh damn look at the japanese girl she is smokin, or in "black movies saying" look at that white guy he's an adonis. NO why because it doesnt matter. BEAUTY IS BEAUTY, and BEAUTY is in the eye of the beholder. bring this up you should have just jumped up and said im sick a crackers, all them different kind of knees, not thinkin we niggas are all that. Seriously that was racist, you saying that other races dont appreciate ebony woman is racist. classifying a whole world and defending one race is racist. and for that matter why are you complaining that people dont find ebony woman attractive, obviously that seems to be not true, because the race hasnt died out, there are alot of half blacks out there, so people are obviously fucking negroes out there somewhere.

by the way saying black is actually racist because the proper term is negro. just like calling a caucasian white, or an asian yellow, or a native american red is racist.
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