Do you think it's okay to steal your friend's boyfriend/girlfriend?
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Posted 8/30/08
Hey everyone,
A couple months ago.. I fell madly and deeply in love with this one guy. Sadly he was my friend's boyfriend. One day he told me that my friend was a bitch and wanted to date me instead. Suprised i agreed right away, forgetting my friend's feelings. When my friend got mad, she started telling people i was a boyfriend stealer and brought people against me. I lost a lot of my friends. But, my love for the guy was so great I barley cared. One day, he told me I was a bitch, and he left me for someone eles. Now that i lost my friends and my love. I don't know where i went wrong. Is it because I stole her boyfriend?
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Posted 8/30/08 , edited 8/30/08
=_=;;

You want my honest opinion?

First of all, you are a complete idiot, and not a very good friend. You believed what the guy told you forgetting that men for the most part will say anything to get into a woman's pants. You didn't even defend your friend when he started calling her names. And now you're posting your personal bullshit all over the internet. As for what your friend and the guy said -you are a bitch and you are a boyfriend stealer. You brought it upon yourself. You reap what you sow. I have no sympathy for you. No personal threads, and I'm pretty sure that there's already a thread about dating an ex of a friend or relative.

Edit:

aha! found it!

http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-3017/Is-it-right-to-date-your-friends-ex.html

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Posted 8/30/08
That is messed up but humans generally follow emotions, but a lot of people would have not gotten with their friends boyfriend (not trying to offend). Its quite normal (but mean) to do that though. You probably won't be able to patch things up with your friend but you can probably with the friends you lost due to the rumors of you being a bf stealer.
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Posted 8/30/08
then you're not a real friend to begin with..

man isn't this School Days??
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Posted 8/30/08
Ermm...I wouldn't say "bitch", because everybody makes mistakes. You did, however, show poor judgment. Before you do something like that, it's important to weigh out who's more important to you in the long run, your friend or your boyfriend. In this case, it should have been your friend. Not saying it'll always be that way though, because sometimes it could be a really crappy friend and a really amazing guy.
Posted 8/30/08
you f-cked up big time.
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Posted 8/30/08

ralvyn wrote:

then you're not a real friend to begin with..

man isn't this School Days??


wow didn't even think about that XD you're totally right though now all we need is a very tragic ending =D
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Posted 8/30/08
first youre an idiot (sorry to put it so bluntly)
dont pick love over friends
when he said that youre friend'a a whore
did you ever thought of defending your friend or that
this guy might be a douchebag
I know that this sounds mean but well,, thats my take
and im sorry if it sounds too mean
just think before you act the next time you begin to like someone
Posted 8/30/08
Please use the thread stated by saiyukilover

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