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Posted 9/10/08 , edited 9/10/08

nezedud wrote:

I encountered this situation a lot of times with my friends (most are Asians and Asian transferred) in college. Typically, most ended as friends, some ended a really good couple, and some just have a bunch of drama.

Ask yourself:
- Is it just an infatuation?
- Can you control yourself? Are you willing to go the extra mile for this girl? Meaning you will respect her and her boundaries.
- Is this chick willing to do the same, the extra, for you as well? Two-way street.
- How much do you actually know about her? No favorite or color wise, but more in a personal level.
- Are you willing to wait?


Is it just an infatuation?yes

Can you control yourself? Are you willing to go the extra mile for this girl? Meaning you will respect her and her boundaries. yes i can controll my self, i tried to not talk to her the time i saw her walking by. i just said hello. i'm willing to do things thats for good to her, ill respect her. i'm not like the americans that just want kiss and things like that. i dont really like those, i just like the times that when i'm with her, talking about things laughing with her, being with her, .

Is this chick willing to do the same, the extra, for you as well? Two-way street. that question is too early,

How much do you actually know about her? No favorite or color wise, but more in a personal level. she told me that she lived in taiwan, she just got here about 15 days ago, been helping her to adapt here. i'm with her a lot. so i know her things like personal likes, and some experiences she had there, and the difference between usa and taiwan.

Are you willing to wait?i dont really care if she wont be with me right now, i just like to be like the way we are right now.
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nezedud wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


nezedud wrote:

I encountered this situation a lot of times with my friends (most are Asians and Asian transferred) in college. Typically, most ended as friends, some ended a really good couple, and some just have a bunch of drama.

Ask yourself:
- Is it just an infatuation?
- Can you control yourself? Are you willing to go the extra mile for this girl? Meaning you will respect her and her boundaries.
- Is this chick willing to do the same, the extra, for you as well? Two-way street.
- How much do you actually know about her? No favorite or color wise, but more in a personal level.
- Are you willing to wait?


Is it just an infatuation?yes

Can you control yourself? Are you willing to go the extra mile for this girl? Meaning you will respect her and her boundaries. yes i can controll my self, i tried to not talk to her the time i saw her walking by. i just said hello. i'm willing to do things thats for good to her, ill respect her. i'm not like the americans that just want kiss and things like that. i dont really like those, i just like the times that when i'm with her, talking about things laughing with her, being with her, .

Is this chick willing to do the same, the extra, for you as well? Two-way street. that question is too early,

How much do you actually know about her? No favorite or color wise, but more in a personal level. she told me that she lived in taiwan, she just got here about 15 days ago, been helping her to adapt here. i'm with her a lot. so i know her things like personal likes, and some experiences she had there, and the difference between usa and taiwan.

Are you willing to wait?i dont really care if she wont be with me, i just like to be like the way we are right now.


Well, just like what everyone says, "Take it slow."
Good luck.


thank you, arigatu, xie xie, salamat
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buy her a panda and she'll go out with you ! all asian people love pandas =D pandas are awesome >.<大熊猫!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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kingdom93 wrote:

buy her a panda and she'll go out with you ! all asian people love pandas =D pandas are awesome >.<大熊猫!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


hahah not yet too early, but thank you.
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dude i know whatcha going throw.. im going throw the same shit here!
but in my case i cant do anything abt it becoz of.. loads of reasons. but you look like nothing is stopping you to ask her out! so gather up the courage and dont waste any minute, ask her out bro!! ^^
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novak666 wrote:

dude i know whatcha going throw.. im going throw the same shit here!
but in my case i cant do anything abt it becoz of.. loads of reasons. but you look like nothing is stopping you to ask her out! so gather up the courage and dont waste any minute, ask her out bro!! ^^


bro, something is stopping me... money... me 16 but no job yet, so hard to find one. thaank you for the advice. not yet, maybe month more, cauze i need to get more comfortable and get to know more and more and more, so no bad things, and take things slowly.
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just go ask her out
just stop wasting time
we are agreed you will ask her out

love shouldn't be about money

i urge you sir just do it you'll be happier
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Cliffssssssss !
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Explicit_Female wrote:

Cliffssssssss !


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kingdom93 wrote:

buy her a panda and she'll go out with you ! all asian people love pandas =D pandas are awesome >.<大熊猫!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


gaint panda


ha they are awesome the bigger the better right
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moratorium wrote:

just go ask her out
just stop wasting time
we are agreed you will ask her out

love shouldn't be about money

i urge you sir just do it you'll be happier


yea agreeed love shouldnt be about money, but i still need to supply somethings, like money for food, movies, and things like dat. shes on her own here in usa, so i dont want her to be spending the things, and its not being me if shes one paying, haha, and i want to get the goals first then when the time comes, it will go, i'm patient. thank you thoughhhh.
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Cliffs: "When a person begins telling you a story that drags on and on and is full of irrelevant details and not getting to the point... you can hurry things up by asking for "cliffs".
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mahalkomgapinay wrote:


novak666 wrote:

dude i know whatcha going throw.. im going throw the same shit here!
but in my case i cant do anything abt it becoz of.. loads of reasons. but you look like nothing is stopping you to ask her out! so gather up the courage and dont waste any minute, ask her out bro!! ^^


bro, something is stopping me... money... me 16 but no job yet, so hard to find one. thaank you for the advice. not yet, maybe month more, cauze i need to get more comfortable and get to know more and more and more, so no bad things, and take things slowly.


dude for guys in our age money will always be an issue, but money isnt everything in a realationship.. you know how lucky you are to have someone like her that you can ACTUALLY ask out.
the girl i have a huge ass crush on, i cant do anything abt it becoz *and this is one of the reasons* she's my friends sister dude.
and many more other reasons...
but hey.. if taking it slow is what you wanna do, then you should go with what you wanna do really^^
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Posted 9/10/08

zendude wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


novak666 wrote:

dude i know whatcha going throw.. im going throw the same shit here!
but in my case i cant do anything abt it becoz of.. loads of reasons. but you look like nothing is stopping you to ask her out! so gather up the courage and dont waste any minute, ask her out bro!! ^^


bro, something is stopping me... money... me 16 but no job yet, so hard to find one. thaank you for the advice. not yet, maybe month more, cauze i need to get more comfortable and get to know more and more and more, so no bad things, and take things slowly.


Just enjoy it. Take it slow. Learn more about her and build a stable relationship. Don't worry if you are just the friend or the nice guy. This may work to your benefit.


yea, thats what i'm doing. thank you for the advice though.
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Explicit_Female wrote:

Cliffs: "When a person begins telling you a story that drags on and on and is full of irrelevant details and not getting to the point... you can hurry things up by asking for "cliffs".


oh, the point of this is just asking on things that i should do and not do and comments people want to give, okkkk thank you for the definition. i appreciate it.
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