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Posted 9/10/08

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dude i know whatcha going throw.. im going throw the same shit here!
but in my case i cant do anything abt it becoz of.. loads of reasons. but you look like nothing is stopping you to ask her out! so gather up the courage and dont waste any minute, ask her out bro!! ^^


bro, something is stopping me... money... me 16 but no job yet, so hard to find one. thaank you for the advice. not yet, maybe month more, cauze i need to get more comfortable and get to know more and more and more, so no bad things, and take things slowly.


Just enjoy it. Take it slow. Learn more about her and build a stable relationship. Don't worry if you are just the friend or the nice guy. This may work to your benefit.


yea, thats what i'm doing. thank you for the advice though.


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thank you very much.
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just go ask her out
just stop wasting time
we are agreed you will ask her out

love shouldn't be about money

i urge you sir just do it you'll be happier


yea agreeed love shouldnt be about money, but i still need to supply somethings, like money for food, movies, and things like dat. shes on her own here in usa, so i dont want her to be spending the things, and its not being me if shes one paying, haha, and i want to get the goals first then when the time comes, it will go, i'm patient. thank you thoughhhh.



get a job sir i urge you
remember dont think about the negative just think about what you wanna do....wait wait wait a second i think that might sound wrong ha

just do it man dont think get a job if

youre worried ask parents hey theres this girl i really like ...we (insert lines here)
is there some way you guys could lend me some money i would not be comfortable having no money and not being able to take her out at least once

in the meantime till you get a job

and plz dont piss your parents off if you are getting money from them for something like this

so on so on so on yadda yadda yadda

itll be fine dont stress yourself

whats the worst that can happen shell say yes

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Posted 9/10/08

moratorium wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


moratorium wrote:

just go ask her out
just stop wasting time
we are agreed you will ask her out

love shouldn't be about money

i urge you sir just do it you'll be happier


yea agreeed love shouldnt be about money, but i still need to supply somethings, like money for food, movies, and things like dat. shes on her own here in usa, so i dont want her to be spending the things, and its not being me if shes one paying, haha, and i want to get the goals first then when the time comes, it will go, i'm patient. thank you thoughhhh.



get a job sir i urge you
remember dont think about the negative just think about what you wanna do....wait wait wait a second i think that might sound wrong ha

just do it man dont think get a job if

youre worried ask parents hey theres this girl i really like ...we (insert lines here)
is there some way you guys could lend me some money i would not be comfortable having no money and not being able to take her out at least once

in the meantime till you get a job

and plz dont piss your parents off if you are getting money from them for something like this

so on so on so on yadda yadda yadda

itll be fine dont stress yourself

whats the worst that can happen shell say yes



haha, i never ask my parents for money, only for things like school payment or medical and shit. i just dont want to be a big pain to them. i wont tell them things right now. only when i ask her out. ill keep on looking for one that wil hire me. the jobs is so hard to find right now, since most places arent hiring.
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check up on your app
be persistent show them you want the job
thats how i got my first job at an office not flipping burgers at 8 the hour

just do it

dont even think about bad stuff like "but but but" no dont waste my awesome time with any doubts you may have just toss them out and go in fact GTFO of cr and go ask her out do it just do it
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okkkk

so. school just started here in my place. then just last monday, i met a taiwanese girl here in school(USA), she is a transferrred student, since i watch things like hotshot meteor garden, brown sugar macchiato, taiwanese game shows, and other taiwanese things, i talked to her about those things just for fun, then after that yesterday tuesday, i got very very close to her, its just so fun when i'm with her, i was scared of my AP US HISTORY test that day. but then whenever i think of her, it calms me down. shiiit, i cant stop thinking about her. what the hell is happening too mmeee shiiiit. i ditched my friends during lunch just to be with her. When i'm with her, i'm just happy and soo comfortable with her. I'm Filipino, she's taiwanese, sometimes its hard to understand what i say, cauze shes just new to the country, sooo,


now i'm writing here in crunchyroll cauze i dont know what to do, i just want some comments on what to do or what not to do, or anything you want to say about my shit. oh yea, when i talk to her i stop cussing, haha.

EDIT: me not rushing, just want to learn what things i should avoid and things like that, so i wont mess up,
whenever i pray, i sometimes add that someday there will be a taiwanese girl here, cauze this place i'm in is full of americansssss. thank you for the ones that gives me advice, i appreciate it.

EDIT2: this is a survey from the second page, this person asked me these.
Is it just an infatuation?yes

Can you control yourself? Are you willing to go the extra mile for this girl? Meaning you will respect her and her boundaries. yes i can controll my self, i tried to not talk to her the time i saw her walking by. i just said hello. i'm willing to do things thats for good to her, ill respect her. i'm not like the americans that just want kiss and things like that. i dont really like those, i just like the times that when i'm with her, talking about things laughing with her, being with her, .

Is this chick willing to do the same, the extra, for you as well? Two-way street. that question is too early,

How much do you actually know about her? No favorite or color wise, but more in a personal level. she told me that she lived in taiwan, she just got here about 15 days ago, been helping her to adapt here. i'm with her a lot. so i know her things like personal likes, and some experiences she had there, and the difference between usa and taiwan.

Are you willing to wait?i dont really care if she wont be with me right now, i just like to be like the way we are right now.


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....

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Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.
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Posted 9/10/08

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Well, as a Filipino, it should be easy to get a job via connections with relatives that lives near you. I know this because for a while in Los Angeles I got a job like that when I arrived because of my relatives. When I wanted to change my job, I just ask around my relatives, and they got one for me really quickly (a week or so).


the problem is i dont have much connnections here. i have to find things on my own. my parents are always busy at work. yea, ill keep on trying hard for those things. then i can live and do some things that are needed for futre and present.
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mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.


trust me, spare the pain to each other(if she really liked you) just forget her if u cant go the extra mile. beside your young still, u should be putting ur studies 1st.
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Posted 9/10/08

Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.


trust me, spare the pain to each other(if she really liked you) just forget her if u cant go the extra mile. beside your young still, u should be putting ur studies 1st.


yeaaaa, that person is overreacting, my intentions is only for the present status not the future wife thing. agree with u, yea i study 1st, i got As ahhaha. so this opportunity is like big to be happy with her for this year, sooooo, yea its like that.
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mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.


trust me, spare the pain to each other(if she really liked you) just forget her if u cant go the extra mile. beside your young still, u should be putting ur studies 1st.


yeaaaa, that person is overreacting, my intentions is only for the present status not the future wife thing. agree with u, yea i study 1st, i got As ahhaha. so this opportunity is like big to be happy with her for this year, sooooo, yea its like that.


then go ahead then, make happy memmory! also take down her contact and address frm taiwan so that 1 day u might actually be able to go taiwan and find her.
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Posted 9/10/08

nezedud wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.


Nursing Career. To many of my cousins and friends are doing that.
So typical for American Filipinos in this time of age.
Just watch out for Microbiology.


yea, but i picked it not for that reason, its cauze its on deman, the RNs are sooo in demand, and i like working on that kind of position, not like doctor, you have to make the decision, nurse is to assist the doctor and to work with patients, ayt, dont think i picked it cauze many filipinos have it. haha. ayt
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Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.


trust me, spare the pain to each other(if she really liked you) just forget her if u cant go the extra mile. beside your young still, u should be putting ur studies 1st.


yeaaaa, that person is overreacting, my intentions is only for the present status not the future wife thing. agree with u, yea i study 1st, i got As ahhaha. so this opportunity is like big to be happy with her for this year, sooooo, yea its like that.


then go ahead then, make happy memmory! also take down her contact and address frm taiwan so that 1 day u might actually be able to go taiwan and find her.


haha, i already got it. and taiwan is only 2 hour plane ride from manila, so its easy thing if ill follow. but not time to think about that now, ayt ill go sleep first
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ey guys, i'm going sleep first,... and tell improvements and what will happen tomorow. and things like that tomorrow like at this time.
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mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.


trust me, spare the pain to each other(if she really liked you) just forget her if u cant go the extra mile. beside your young still, u should be putting ur studies 1st.


yeaaaa, that person is overreacting, my intentions is only for the present status not the future wife thing. agree with u, yea i study 1st, i got As ahhaha. so this opportunity is like big to be happy with her for this year, sooooo, yea its like that.


then go ahead then, make happy memmory! also take down her contact and address frm taiwan so that 1 day u might actually be able to go taiwan and find her.


haha, i already got it.


good luck and hope u dont play with her feelings. i never approve of such relationships. U either go all the way or u dont start at all. good luck to mine too in china, hope i can spare time for her in china since i m working and taking my degree there.

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Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


mahalkomgapinay wrote:


Razen wrote:


Dont bother 2 go steady with her, do u want to break up with her in the end because she has to go back to taiwan? Are u willing to chase her to taiwan and live with her there? Can you support urself there? what abt your studies? ur future? ur family here?

if u cant do any of these then dont bother to talk abt going the extra mile. I m currently in love with a girl from China and i already made plans to go there and work while taking my degree in film production. THAT IS what i call going the extra mile.....



i was already thinking that at first, cauze the transfers are always moving back at the end of the school year,
you are correct on that. but i just want to have the feeling of her being there, having fun with her during the time we have and things like that, its just the time will tell on what will happen, i already taking classes for my nursing carreer. so if somethings will hhappen then, i might keep in touch after and be friends, i just want to experience the things that i want right now. time will tell on what wil happen, thank you for the advice.


trust me, spare the pain to each other(if she really liked you) just forget her if u cant go the extra mile. beside your young still, u should be putting ur studies 1st.


yeaaaa, that person is overreacting, my intentions is only for the present status not the future wife thing. agree with u, yea i study 1st, i got As ahhaha. so this opportunity is like big to be happy with her for this year, sooooo, yea its like that.


then go ahead then, make happy memmory! also take down her contact and address frm taiwan so that 1 day u might actually be able to go taiwan and find her.


haha, i already got it.


good luck and hope u dont play with her feelings. i never approve of such relationships. U either go all the way or u dont start at all. good luck to mine too in china, hope i can spare time for her in china since i m working and taking my degree there.


i can never think of playing a girl like her. she is so unique compared to other girls, i wouldnt forgive myself if i do that. i'm sincere on this thing.
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