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How can you tell when you really love someone?
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I don't think its easy to figure out. One sure way of telling is if you eventually lose interest. There's a saying: "Love never fades." I'm not 100% on that but it makes sense.
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Here's my 2 cent..


I think we never know if that person is truly the one. Time will tell it all. If you find yourself loving him/her, arguing and going through all sorts of hardship and joyful time together, and at the end of the day you still think this person is the best to be with, then maybe he's the one.

But I dont know any better so...
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Hopchow wrote:


simpleyesa wrote:

How can you tell when you really love someone?
^ I'm uneasy if i'm talking to the person i love ---- but a smile makes my day and will make me happy.

Funny I'm the complete opposite. When I'm in love with someone despite the fact that they make me nervous at times and my hearts jumps around them, I feel comfortable and at ease more than normal. I'm in love and I find myself making time to talk with that person or going out of my way to be around her. There's a wonderful blend of nerves and excitement running around in my heart and head when I'm around her, but she knows exactly what to say and when to smile to make everything stop and the world just seems to zero in on the two of us.

wooooo! that's great hop! Good thing you're finally in love.
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when I can't get him off of my mind...I guess.. and his absence makes me miss him so much...shoot...
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Or you could be like me, and just not believe in love. If you have a healthy obsession with someone that makes you feel amazing... what's wrong with that? It may be horomone induced but at least you're happy. Maybe you would find love if you stopped defining it as 'the one' and more on enjoying life with someone else.
Posted 4/8/07
who knows, who cares? its all a bunch of bullshit anyway
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Hmmm......when you feel all warm and fuzzy inside especiall when you look at that person. Hmmmm....
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well I've never loved someone besides my family.
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When you want to share your last bottle of Sunkist with him/her......then you know your either stupid or have some serious feelings for them....^^
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lol....mmm sunkist
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When you can't describe how you feel about someone, when you want to spend every waking moment with that person(in a non stalker kind of way). Being in love is very complicated sometimes and cannot be explain so easily if you really love someone. You just have to look deep within yourself and find the answer that if you love someone and not to lie to yourself.
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give them money hahaha
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when you drool as you watch them from a far.
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Posted 4/11/07

ZeroEiyuu wrote:

When you can't describe how you feel about someone, when you want to spend every waking moment with that person(in a non stalker kind of way). Being in love is very complicated sometimes and cannot be explain so easily if you really love someone. You just have to look deep within yourself and find the answer that if you love someone and not to lie to yourself.



you should try putting in a sad music why saying that, it give more drama in it haha
and no, being in love doesnt you truly love them, being in love is when they buy you items and give you money hahaha.


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when u start wondering if something bad happened to him/her because he hasn't called & when you wonder why are u going out with him/her when you are so different ? That's when inner beauty comes in handy !!!



Maybe, but what I wish people would learn is that obsession is not love! There is a difference!

As far as knowing when you are in love I look at it religiously. The bible gives a pretty good description of what love is, and even an Atheist could value the information about love given within it.

However, to look at it secularly I say this:

Love is not when you constantly think about someone! Is he/she with someone of the other sex? Love isn’t when you go into an envious rage when your boy/girlfriend is hanging out with another girl/guy!
It’s not when you stalk them


Love is when you want the very best for someone. When you desire their joy so much that you are willing to sacrifice yourself! Let him/her date somebody else because that somebody else is better for the person you love then you are.

Love does not envy. It is not self centered. The reason people refer to somebody they love as “Their other half” is because they stop thinking about themselves and start thinking about the other person. They’re more concerned about the one they love and her/his desires than their own. Call me cliché, call it naïve, but love is not some stupid form of intense affection!

Love is something that the pleonasm of a thousand poets cannot truthfully explain! We can describe it, but not understand it.
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