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Asian Girls + Virginity?
Posted 9/12/08
You said it, we are ASIANS. We have our own rules and traditions and have DIFFERENT THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS TO IT.

BUT, many asians are becoming more like what you want them to be, so don't worry. HA. No offence or anything~ They are getting more "open".
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Posted 9/12/08

BurningMaiden wrote:

I'll tell you why!

Losing one's virginity is a sin to God! And that is if you are religious.

Losing one's virginity doesn't mean that you are attractive! It's like being a slut who can easily be taken advantage by any guy!

Losing one's virginity can make an accidental pregnancy and ruin one's life.

And finally, Losing one's virginity is an embarrassment in Asian countries.

Now you get it?

Simply, VIRGINITY is the only GIFT you can give to your husband telling that he is the only person that is ALLOWED to touch you and it is the ONLY thing that can NEVER be given to EVERYONE!


you are so right!
i don't know why some people think being a virgin is an embarrassment. like if you love this person very much, and when he asks you, "how many have you slept with?" ain't it embarrassing? or worse, you have a boyfriend whose friends with the people you slept with, wouldn't he feel disgusted? and most people, if not all, think that losing your virginity before marriage is kinda whorish and may look down on you. so in asia, virginity is something to be proud of, especially before you're married.
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Posted 9/12/08

hunterxkira wrote:


BurningMaiden wrote:

I'll tell you why!

Losing one's virginity is a sin to God! And that is if you are religious.

Losing one's virginity doesn't mean that you are attractive! It's like being a slut who can easily be taken advantage by any guy!

Losing one's virginity can make an accidental pregnancy and ruin one's life.

And finally, Losing one's virginity is an embarrassment in Asian countries.

Now you get it?

Simply, VIRGINITY is the only GIFT you can give to your husband telling that he is the only person that is ALLOWED to touch you and it is the ONLY thing that can NEVER be given to EVERYONE!


you are so right!
i don't know why some people think being a virgin is an embarrassment. like if you love this person very much, and when he asks you, "how many have you slept with?" ain't it embarrassing? or worse, you have a boyfriend whose friends with the people you slept with, wouldn't he feel disgusted? and most people, if not all, think that losing your virginity before marriage is kinda whorish and may look down on you. so in asia, virginity is something to be proud of, especially before you're married.



Yeah yeah!!! You got it right!!!!
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Posted 9/12/08
Asians have a more conservative society and culture, whereas the westerners have a very open minded society and culture. Westerners tend to have lose their virginity due to peer pressure from friends and society. To them losing it means that you are one step closer to adulthood. Asians tend to judge each other's character and personality with the mentality of being pure and innocent.
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Posted 9/12/08 , edited 9/12/08

khyongbj wrote:

Asians have a more conservative society and culture, whereas the westerners have a very open minded society and culture. Westerners tend to have lose their virginity due to peer pressure from friends and society. To them losing it means that you are one step closer to adulthood. Asians tend to judge each other's character and personality with the mentality of being pure and innocent.


well said dude.

i agree with this guy, i would have said the same.
you know here in the Philippines in some strict families and communities, they consider girls who lost their virginity at single and in a young age as whores...

that only applies here though so to others dont get offended...
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Posted 9/12/08
Nothing wrong with staying a virgin till marriage =/ It happens alot in western society because everyone watches those shows (one tree hill, OC etc.. not that they're bad shows) that pretty much "promote" having sex because it makes you seem popular or something, you shud just respect the girls decision to keep her virginity it's her choice.
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Posted 9/12/08
because asian girls are not sluts well most of them aren't
because if their dad or family found out if they where promiscuous
then that a no no in the family and they will disowned her
and probably kick her out into the streets
Posted 9/12/08
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Posted 9/12/08
Well, it's a cultural thing. Also if they get pregnant are not married, then they might lose their face in society. Plus, education comes first. And personally I don't think that it is so wrong if someone doesn't want to give up their virginity so easily. ಠ_ಠ

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Posted 9/12/08

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YemYam wrote:

Absolutely a lot of hours late, but honestly, didn't I reprimand you about they way you relate your opinions, man? I know it annoys you, but life isn't actually all about what you think.

So what if they're serious about it? Please don't go bitching about how you dislike it because nothing will change. Learn how to respect and understand how people live their lives.

The answer is simple. Oriental religion stresses the importance of purity and they preach sex outside marriage is a huge sin. This causes our moral standards about promiscuity to be different from occidental side. Yes, when Asian women lose virginity before marriage they are most of the time considered as sluts!

Also religion teaches that there are other and better ways to enjoy life than go getting laid with every person if they feel like it.

Lastly, they have parents. I know you have too, but you don't have one you who'll beat the crap out of you when you go make out at some place. And no, 911 is not an option for children in Asia. Spanking isn't even considered child abuse in some Asian countries!


Totally agree, He sounds frustrated that their culture is different from his own
social attitudes are different the world over, if a woman makes a choice, respect it


Edit:I'm Not frustrated.
Posted 9/12/08

Deathguitar wrote:

Why do a large population , or a large majority of asian girl's stick to there virginity until marriage?

I've always thought because people aren't attracted to them cuhzz there short.
Or .. There just... Ya?

Well , Each of them always are so serious about losing it and keeping it.
It get's annoying.
Frankly I keep reminding them....
"You only live once."

So Serious about it , I know there little hooker's in there own little wayy ;]


Absolutely a lot of hours late, but honestly, didn't I reprimand you about they way you relate your opinions, man? I know it annoys you, but life isn't actually all about what you think.

So what if they're serious about it? Please don't go bitching about how you dislike it because nothing will change. Learn how to respect and understand how people live their lives.

The answer is simple. Oriental religion stresses the importance of purity and they preach sex outside marriage is a huge sin. This causes our moral standards about promiscuity to be different from occidental side. Yes, when Asian women lose virginity before marriage they are most of the time considered as sluts!

Also religion teaches that there are other and better ways to enjoy life than go getting laid with every person if they feel like it.

Lastly, they have parents. I know you have too, but you don't have one you who'll beat the crap out of you when you go make out at some place. And no, 911 is not an option for children in Asia. Spanking isn't even considered child abuse in some Asian countries!
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Posted 9/12/08

Deathguitar wrote:

Why do a large population , or a large majority of asian girl's stick to there virginity until marriage?

I've always thought because people aren't attracted to them cuhzz there short.
Or .. There just... Ya?

Well , Each of them always are so serious about losing it and keeping it.
It get's annoying.
Frankly I keep reminding them....
"You only live once."

So Serious about it , I know there little hooker's in there own little wayy ;]



Because they're not ready

Having sex for the first time is a lot more daunting for a girl than it is for a guy.
While i totally don't believe in waiting till marriage it took me ages to finally lose my virginity and perhaps I should have waited even longer than I did. Whatever age a girl has sex at, as long as she's ready it does not make her a slut, i DETEST the word.
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Posted 9/12/08

YemYam wrote:

Absolutely a lot of hours late, but honestly, didn't I reprimand you about they way you relate your opinions, man? I know it annoys you, but life isn't actually all about what you think.

So what if they're serious about it? Please don't go bitching about how you dislike it because nothing will change. Learn how to respect and understand how people live their lives.

The answer is simple. Oriental religion stresses the importance of purity and they preach sex outside marriage is a huge sin. This causes our moral standards about promiscuity to be different from occidental side. Yes, when Asian women lose virginity before marriage they are most of the time considered as sluts!

Also religion teaches that there are other and better ways to enjoy life than go getting laid with every person if they feel like it.

Lastly, they have parents. I know you have too, but you don't have one you who'll beat the crap out of you when you go make out at some place. And no, 911 is not an option for children in Asia. Spanking isn't even considered child abuse in some Asian countries!


Totally agree, He sounds frustrated that their culture is different from his own
social attitudes are different the world over, if a woman makes a choice, respect it
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Posted 9/12/08
don't you want your wife to be virgin??
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Posted 9/12/08

Deathguitar wrote:

No but , Don't flame this thread kiddies.
I need's answers.


Deathguitar~ Real to Real.


because they actually care about their virtue and regard that kind of relationship as something very important and only for their certain someone! it works different ways here and there Deathguitar
Posted 9/12/08 , edited 9/12/08

eliz3 wrote:

You said it, we are ASIANS. We have our own rules and traditions and have DIFFERENT THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS TO IT.

BUT, many asians are becoming more like what you want them to be, so don't worry. HA. No offence or anything~ They are getting more "open".


What the fux? I don't like open girl's this whole thread was a joke.

Funny how people took it seriously.
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Posted 9/12/08
i kinda have to disagree.
there are many cases of females not being virgins anymore in asian countries.
males as well.
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Posted 9/12/08
Asians are taught to be reserved and humble. However, more and more are breaking out of the shell especially the younger generations.
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You said you wanted opinions? wtf should be me saying it.
Posted 9/12/08
i think it's pretty much due to the deep-rooted cultural beliefs and practices..
however.. not all countries in asia are as conservative as u think they are..
for instance.. Japan... the japanese are very open to pornography and sex-related topics..
they are also expose to sex-related media at very young age.. most of the teenages these days have pre-marital sex experience..

i think every country every ethnic group has its own culture, beliefs, values and practices..
so i dun see a point in questioning why it's like that.. coz the culture has shape it to be like that.. keke..
Posted 9/12/08
there is asian sluts
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Posted 9/12/08

IntenseAllure wrote:

Honestly, I think it's admirable that someone would want to save their virginity for something special. In the US, there is almost a 50% divorce rate.. in Asia, the divorces are a lot less. Doesn't that say something? <.<,


Korea is third in divorce rates following the United States and UK. I'm pretty sure divorce rates are the result of something else than losing one's virginity. In China the system is too f'ed up for people to even care about getting a divorce and in Japan the sense of honor overrides many actions in which they would otherwise enact. Same goes for India because the woman will be valueless if she is divorced. It really comes down to cultural and generational values as well as growing socio-economic independance of women.
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Posted 9/12/08
i'm amazed to find out that asian women keep their virginity till marriage. thats a good thing. something to be proud of as a women
Posted 9/12/08
RACIST!!! REPORTED!!!
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where's your proof?
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