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Love turned into obsession?
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25 / F / !i!ToinK!i!
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Posted 4/10/07
well, i was just wondeing how love can turn into obsession... do you think that there are really some factors out there to make this so-called transformation? or is it impossible for an obsession to come from love?
hope you guys can answer this!
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28 / F / singapore
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Posted 4/10/07
it's possible...totally possible.
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M / Philippines
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Posted 4/10/07
it depends on how much you love the girl/boy to make it an obsession.i think one factor of obsession is time cause when you don't see each other regularly and see each other one time...it's like '' i can't get enough of you'' feeling.happened to me.
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LOVE: Trust, Honesty, ability to live as two and becomes one at home. OBSESSION: Controlling, distrustful, unable to let partner live his/her daily lives such as going to work, visiting families, friends etc. Wanting to know where he/she is, who they are with, what they're doing etc. , that will 100% turned love to obsession.
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27 / M / California
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Love doesn't necessarily have to be shown towards another human being.
Is it not possible to love an object of wealth, for example gold, so much that you become obsessed with it?
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35 / F / East Bay California
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Obsession is not a good thing...to be obsessed with someone is to want to possess them. Love can never come out of anything like that. I was dating this guy a while back who became totally obsessed with me, he used to sleep in his car around the corner from my house, so that he could make sure I "was safe", and when I finally broke up with him, he used to wait outside my classes or sit on my car in the parking lot and refused to move until I agreed to take him back...long story short, I had to change schools. Obsession is so not cool.
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20 / M / Boston
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Posted 4/10/07
^ I saw him in my How to Stalk Properly 101 class last year. Don't worry he hasn't gone anywhere he's just learned to stalk you from afar.

Love is a very simple thing that gets turn very complex by the fallacies that every person has. People toss the word love around so lightly these days. They love their neighbors, their friends from school, the icecream man, the mailman, that sort of thing. I think love has turned into a word used to describe simple affection or comfort with someone and that simply isn't what it was meant to mean. Love doesn't change, it cannot be corrupted, and it will never harm, if you cannot without a shadow of a doubt assure that your "love" won't do any of those things then you do not understand what love really is. That isn't to say you as a human being won't end up changing, hurting, or something of the like. No relationship is without it's imperfections or pains, love itself never the cause of those things though.
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27 / M / Irvine, CA
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Being obsessed is pretty much becoming a slave to that person. It's one thing to be in love, another matter entirely to be obsessed. People who are obsessed are pretty much creepy stalkers.
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Posted 4/10/07
bein obsessed is not leaving the person alone, doing everything they ask, and being a leech.. did i already mention that? man its possible -_- took me 3 years to convince this girl that there is nothing between us and during that time she was not further than 10 feet of me the whole time
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29 / M / Bayside, Queens,...
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Posted 4/10/07
love in a way is some sort of obsession but in a good way of course, its when it starts bothering the other person or yourself that turns bad.

i guesses
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28 / F / Singapore
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Posted 4/10/07
it is POSSIBLE! real life incident of mine
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27 / F / Singapore
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Posted 4/11/07
Maybe when u don't see the person for a while you think of the person more. Hmmm...absence makes the heart grow fonder....and fonder...and fonder?!
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Hopchow wrote:

Love is a very simple thing that gets turn very complex by the fallacies that every person has.


Check the rest of your post with this very statement in mind.
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23 / F / happily in her pl...
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Posted 4/11/07
i think love is a state of obsession. i mean you think about them like crazy either way.
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F / canada
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Posted 4/11/07
hmm love is sth like addiction or maybe obsession
u r juz totally over wif tat person tats u think abt he/she all the tym
very possible
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