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Love turned into obsession?
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Posted 1/3/08
love is actually a very airy affect, most people who find themselves in love have actually conditioned themselves to think so ie: telling themselves that they love that person, by repeating images of that person in thier head, or even constantley thinking of some one. Love can become an obession if that love is unstable, this can be for anything, not just love for a person.

I view obessions as bad, an extreme towards anything is bad, thoughts produced under this conditions are usually radical and untrustworthy,even if those thoughts are suppose to be positive aspects of the things one love
Posted 1/3/08

reaLee wrote:

well, i was just wondeing how love can turn into obsession... do you think that there are really some factors out there to make this so-called transformation? or is it impossible for an obsession to come from love?
hope you guys can answer this!


I'd say obsession comes from infatuation, not love.
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Always.

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jesusosorio wrote:


reaLee wrote:

well, i was just wondeing how love can turn into obsession... do you think that there are really some factors out there to make this so-called transformation? or is it impossible for an obsession to come from love?
hope you guys can answer this!


I'd say obsession comes from infatuation, not love.


Exactly, you think you love them, but you might not. And trying to think that you do.
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definitely possible.........its scary when that person becomes ur stalker and starts messing up ur life
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mamaw200 wrote:

it depends on how much you love the girl/boy to make it an obsession.i think one factor of obsession is time cause when you don't see each other regularly and see each other one time...it's like '' i can't get enough of you'' feeling.happened to me.


i agree
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Posted 1/24/08
love hurts.
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Posted 1/24/08
love > obsession

not

love = obsession.

too bad they don't have that cool slash equal sign. haha.
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yes i believe true love between two people is what starts the obession ... especially when someone love the other more than they love that someone...some say it's not true because you can love without becoming like that and you still love but i believe when you become obess then that's when you really have fallen too deeply in love that you become blind..
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Posted 1/25/08
possible!
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Posted 1/29/08
very possible. like me with L. except the other way around.
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Posted 1/29/08
im obsessed with the girl i wanna ask out!
Posted 1/29/08
I don't know, but it could happen
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Posted 1/29/08
well 21 stalk me so iunno that's obsession and wen i like someone i go straight to obsession
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Posted 1/29/08
I don't think love can turn into obsession. Love can even be obsession(+ emotional attachment) if you think about what obsession is defined as.

But I'm assuming you mean an unhealthy, dangerous obsession.

I think there are three main ways an obsession can occur:
1) Clinical insanity
2) Emotional immaturity or instability
3) Or if a person does not properly live out his/her life beyond what they happened to be interested in. Although someone in this situation is probably suffering from either 1) or 2); it's not healthy be in a relationship with anyone while avoiding everything else you should experience in your life. People who get obsessed with someone tend to not be happy with other aspects of their lives or they even don't much of anything else in their lives. It's the same way you look at someone getting over a break up. Someone who is busy and has other important things in their lives can get over a break up faster than someone who focused on their relationship and is holed up in their room.
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