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Fight for love, or "Let go" for love
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07

kirstely wrote:


Lierajox wrote:

i guess it depends...
i mean...lets say that you're in love with this person but this person is not in love with you but with another....so if you really love him/her you should think about their happiness..and lets say that a guy and gurl are inlove like one of those dramatic love story...
and the girl parents want her to marry some else but she doesn't want to..b/c she love that guy...so she should fight for it...
am i making sense????


yeah.. watching crunchy roll and the dramas in here got me thinking,, that sometimes even if you love someone so deeply, when something aint meant for you.. just aint it,, but aint love giving one more chance to me to be happy?



Yes that is true...love is to give ppl one more chance to be happy...
but your still young...you'll find more love or someone you think your in love with
till you really find the absolute one...
u know...am i confusing you??..
cuz if i am jez say so..
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07

Gaburiera-chan wrote:

I think you should find someone else

You should only fight for your love if you really LOVE that person and feel like you need them.

People say "Let it go" because they believe that you can find happiness and he can too

If you still like him a little bit then just settle for friends,don't leave him completely, he can be happy and you can too by just being with him, sure you won't get all the attention, but at least you'll get some.

(This has happened to me and because I let him go the way I did we don't even talk anymore which is waaay worse than just being friends)



come to think of it.. this really makes sense..
i just wonder if i could ever fool my heart to think that i am ready to settle for being JUST FRIENDS
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fight for love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but if you are sensitve/emotional let go
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07

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kirstely wrote:


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aww poor kirstely ><
well.. you can either give up or keep going..
but just dont waste your time....
like theres other guys out there right.. not just him... and maybe they're better than him.. im not saying you should give up.. >< i know how you feel... well hope you feel better!


waaaa.. yah.. im weighing my options on what really do i feel.. and should i blame myself for losing his love and interest in me? coz i think im partly to be blamed for not keeping the fire of love burning..


well does he still like you.. like why did you leave you for ?


i can feel he still does.. because he still calls me and all.. it's just that we were together for so long that he said.. i dont place so much importance on him and im always busy.. i do try to make time for him. it's just that sometimes my sched really does kill our quality time together.. i expected him to understand though,,
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07

Lierajox wrote:


kirstely wrote:


Lierajox wrote:

i guess it depends...
i mean...lets say that you're in love with this person but this person is not in love with you but with another....so if you really love him/her you should think about their happiness..and lets say that a guy and gurl are inlove like one of those dramatic love story...
and the girl parents want her to marry some else but she doesn't want to..b/c she love that guy...so she should fight for it...
am i making sense????


yeah.. watching crunchy roll and the dramas in here got me thinking,, that sometimes even if you love someone so deeply, when something aint meant for you.. just aint it,, but aint love giving one more chance to me to be happy?



Yes that is true...love is to give ppl one more chance to be happy...
but your still young...you'll find more love or someone you think your in love with
till you really find the absolute one...
u know...am i confusing you??..
cuz if i am jez say so..


not at all,,
actually, you're helping a lot,,
thanks,,
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not at all,,
actually, you're helping a lot,,
thanks,,


ok
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07
I think the best thing is to do what's best for the other person. If you know that you're good for each other, and that being together will be good for them, and good for you, then FIGHT!

on the other hand...

If letting them go will be better for them, and not being with you will let them be happier with someone else, or have the time/ability to achieve something they want to do, etc. Then you need to let them go. It's the best more unselfish thing you can do for them.
Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07
fight for love! ^0^
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07
What's love got to do with it?
Who needs a heart if a heart can be broken?

hahahaha.

One should know when to stop fighting for love and just learn to let go. If that other person has no interest in even trying to work it out with you, it is futile, and it will only turn into obsession and turn you into a spiteful, crazy stalker who will eventually receive court summons because of a restraining order.

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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07

kirstely wrote:

here is the situation.. he likes another girl.. but i know some part of him still likes me.. recently we are always fighting,, and i know he is happy when he's with that other girl.. so should i let him go and be happy for him? or should i fight for what i feel and know that he loves me too even just a little?


You really just have to ask yourself why you're holding on. I mean I know that you care about him, but if he's happy with someone else then it might be better for you to just let go and move on. If you two are really meant to be, then he'll come back.
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fight for it kababayan. to obtain happiness, you should fight for it. i think.. haha
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07
fight for it if your truly in love don't fight for lust though
Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07

kirstely wrote:

i've always been curious.. some people say that "dont give up on him, you must FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE!" while others say "if you really love him, LET HIM GO"..
im confused.. some help pls?


If you can't have him, no one can. That seems to be the modern phycopathic mentality. I think you should adopt it. Haha.
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07
fight for me ^__^
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 12/2/07
It usually depends on the person and individual.

I can rant on and on but y dun u get inspirations from dramas or animes?

LOL. I'm serious.

Hf u watched Lovely Complex the anime?
Good stuff. Good stuff.

You'll amazingly learn a thing or two abt relationships from media. lol.
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