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Fight for love, or "Let go" for love
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just follow ur heart 0-o
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23 / F / USA
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when people say "just follow your heart"

how the hell does it help the person decide?
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kirstely wrote:

here is the situation.. he likes another girl.. but i know some part of him still likes me.. recently we are always fighting,, and i know he is happy when he's with that other girl.. so should i let him go and be happy for him? or should i fight for what i feel and know that he loves me too even just a little?


This is what I would personally think and do about if I was in this situation. If a guy likes another girl and I'm dating him then he just doesn't care for me as much as I want. When I start a relationship I always tell him if you ever feel like cheating on me or want another girl just tell me because it will hurt me more if you do it behind my back.I'm not giving him permission to cheat on me as long as he tells me It just means that obviously are relationship is dead and not worth the heartache. Now if another girl is trying to steal my boyfriend thats a different story. Face it some girls are whores and want what another girl has.(The grass is greener on the other side) Instead of thinking oh that guy is nice I want to find a guy like that. They think I want that guy. Thats when I put my foot down and my bitchy side comes out. Thats when you and your friends band together and the shit hits the fan. I will straight up tell my guy that girl wants you and tell the bitch I know you want my man and it ain't gonna happen unless I give you my leftovers. So good luck to you on what ever you choose to do just do it with a clear head. I'm pretty sure you deserve better and can find better.
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it just really depends on the situation
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Lol to sum it up NO means NO
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juspasby wrote:

let it go hes too good 4 u..............LOLZ.........j/k......follow ur HEART


ya so tru
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i used to believe that it is better to let go of someone you love...as romantic as it may sound, i ardently deem it impractical at the present. i mean, what for? if you love, defend it and pursue it...just to be the one you love. now, that's romantic.
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hmm, i'm not an expert in love... if he likes the other girl more than you then I would say let them be and back off. The problem is this guy has already changed his feeling, he is now liking another girl eventho he says or you feel he still like you.

If you are hard to let this relationship ends, then take your time, fight for it until one day you realise that it is useless for you to continue fighting for it. Think before you act.
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candichik wrote:

This is what I would personally think and do about if I was in this situation. If a guy likes another girl and I'm dating him then he just doesn't care for me as much as I want. When I start a relationship I always tell him if you ever feel like cheating on me or want another girl just tell me because it will hurt me more if you do it behind my back.I'm not giving him permission to cheat on me as long as he tells me It just means that obviously are relationship is dead and not worth the heartache. Now if another girl is trying to steal my boyfriend thats a different story. Face it some girls are whores and want what another girl has.(The grass is greener on the other side) Instead of thinking oh that guy is nice I want to find a guy like that. They think I want that guy. Thats when I put my foot down and my bitchy side comes out. Thats when you and your friends band together and the shit hits the fan. I will straight up tell my guy that girl wants you and tell the bitch I know you want my man and it ain't gonna happen unless I give you my leftovers. So good luck to you on what ever you choose to do just do it with a clear head. I'm pretty sure you deserve better and can find better.


lol, you're awesome and cool, i agree with this
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Posted 12/2/07
well do you love him to the point that you want to stay with him, or love him to the point where you want to let him go? I think one question you have to ask yourself is, "Which choice has the 'greater love'?"

Make sure that whatever decision you make, it's for his and your benefit. Reason why break-ups between a girlfriend and boyfriend is tough is because only one person benefits: the person who initiated the break-up. For example, let's say the girl is pouring out everything she can for the relationship she is in with the dude, but the dude isn't happy. So the dude breaks up with her, only benefiting him, while the girl is wondering "Did I do something wrong?" and cries her heart out.

I almost confused myself there, so I hope you can understand what I'm saying.
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flippizzle wrote:

What's love got to do with it?
Who needs a heart if a heart can be broken?

hahahaha.

One should know when to stop fighting for love and just learn to let go. If that other person has no interest in even trying to work it out with you, it is futile, and it will only turn into obsession and turn you into a spiteful, crazy stalker who will eventually receive court summons because of a restraining order.



aw.. you know what.. i kinda agree with you,, sometimes im already pitying myself.. how pathetic =(
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Posted 12/2/07

sembranosa wrote:

It usually depends on the person and individual.

I can rant on and on but y dun u get inspirations from dramas or animes?

LOL. I'm serious.

Hf u watched Lovely Complex the anime?
Good stuff. Good stuff.

You'll amazingly learn a thing or two abt relationships from media. lol.


thanks for the tip,, ok, i'll watch that anime and see where it leads me
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Posted 12/2/07

Haseo_ wrote:


MentalChaos wrote:

fight for it if your truly in love don't fight for lust though


so true lol


how do you know if what you feel is not anymore love? how will you know if its merely lust or obsession?
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Posted 12/2/07

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kirstely wrote:

here is the situation.. he likes another girl.. but i know some part of him still likes me.. recently we are always fighting,, and i know he is happy when he's with that other girl.. so should i let him go and be happy for him? or should i fight for what i feel and know that he loves me too even just a little?


u should let him go...he likes another girl. dont be stupid


u'll find a better guy


am i really becoming stupid? or am i already stupid?
haayzz.. sometimes i wish i cant feel this love thing..
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Posted 12/2/07

Gaburiera-chan wrote:

when people say "just follow your heart"

how the hell does it help the person decide?


this made me laugh,, thanks
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