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Fight for love, or "Let go" for love
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Posted 12/2/07
Lol, first you must think of the 2 choices. 1 Could get you your love back or bring you depression. The other one will bring you depression but you get a chance to meet other people and get a new love. It's a 50/50 chance, risks are always fun in life xD
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Posted 12/2/07

candichik wrote:


kirstely wrote:

here is the situation.. he likes another girl.. but i know some part of him still likes me.. recently we are always fighting,, and i know he is happy when he's with that other girl.. so should i let him go and be happy for him? or should i fight for what i feel and know that he loves me too even just a little?


This is what I would personally think and do about if I was in this situation. If a guy likes another girl and I'm dating him then he just doesn't care for me as much as I want. When I start a relationship I always tell him if you ever feel like cheating on me or want another girl just tell me because it will hurt me more if you do it behind my back.I'm not giving him permission to cheat on me as long as he tells me It just means that obviously are relationship is dead and not worth the heartache. Now if another girl is trying to steal my boyfriend thats a different story. Face it some girls are whores and want what another girl has.(The grass is greener on the other side) Instead of thinking oh that guy is nice I want to find a guy like that. They think I want that guy. Thats when I put my foot down and my bitchy side comes out. Thats when you and your friends band together and the shit hits the fan. I will straight up tell my guy that girl wants you and tell the bitch I know you want my man and it ain't gonna happen unless I give you my leftovers. So good luck to you on what ever you choose to do just do it with a clear head. I'm pretty sure you deserve better and can find better.


thank you.. i feel girl power on this advise..
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Posted 12/2/07

DoNotDisturb wrote:

Watched too much Drama?


i've watched vic zhou's LOVE STORM, and really admired how the girl pursued a hopeless guy..
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Posted 12/2/07
Kirstely only wans CR points hahaha!!!
nvm!!
Situation is u like this girl...but that girl is happier with some1 else
thats when u let go!!
But if yr see tt girl wif another guy and he happens to like her too.Then i think thats when u fight for yr love
I THINk haha
Posted 12/2/07

kirstely wrote:


chocuqueen wrote:


kirstely wrote:


chocuqueen wrote:

aww poor kirstely ><
well.. you can either give up or keep going..
but just dont waste your time....
like theres other guys out there right.. not just him... and maybe they're better than him.. im not saying you should give up.. >< i know how you feel... well hope you feel better!


waaaa.. yah.. im weighing my options on what really do i feel.. and should i blame myself for losing his love and interest in me? coz i think im partly to be blamed for not keeping the fire of love burning..


well does he still like you.. like why did you leave you for ?


i can feel he still does.. because he still calls me and all.. it's just that we were together for so long that he said.. i dont place so much importance on him and im always busy.. i do try to make time for him. it's just that sometimes my sched really does kill our quality time together.. i expected him to understand though,,



ohhh i guess your boyfriend want to spend more time with you.. he should like break up with you because of that.. you're always busy right so he understand that..
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let go, anyone who tells you follow your heart is just spitting a bunch of meaningless words. What does it exactly mean to follow your heart? Its answering without really answering at all.

I'll always stand by the idea to let go because a guy who likes another girl isn't likely to come back to you. This applies vice versa for guys to girls too.
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Posted 12/2/07
you should go for him if he doesnt know or something like that
and you should let him go if hes a faggot but you dont know
or if hes married.. Lol
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Posted 12/2/07
fight and sometimes you got to let something go even when it is love.... but i don't know when to fight ore when to let go........hmmm hard
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Posted 12/2/07
the real world is alot harsher than that of a fictional world, lets put it that way.
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27 / F / New York
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Posted 12/2/07
like that quote "If you love someone let them go, if they come back , their yours forever and if they don't, it wasn't meant to be" ...

I say just let go ... he it was meant to be and if he still likes you then ..he'll come back... besides ur young -_- don't tell me u want to be hooked unto that 1 guy ...theres more out there... u haven't reach 1/4 century of ur life yet.... letting go is hard but i onno .... if u want to hold on ....then if you want..talk to the guy abt it =/
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Posted 12/2/07
Well I'd say it depends on the way your relaionship was in the first place. If you uys were contantly fighting and arguing and have in some casesgotten physical theni'd say let them go but if it is someone that you truly get along with and vice versa, respect and honor with your everything then I'd say fight like hell ^_^.
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Posted 12/2/07
depends on the situation......
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Posted 12/2/07
i've been in more relationships then i can count, but the only girl i think i've ever loved, there no possibility of being with
i'm trying to let it go right now... as long as she's happy i should be happy... right?
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23 / F / CR
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Posted 12/2/07
Well i think it depends on how you feel
i mean ok he likes the other gurl
if u know he still like you too
then fight for it Let him Realize what
a Great person you are in
his life

If u Fail on making him realized then
Let him go because you know that
you tried your best to make the relationship
work and its his lost
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Posted 12/2/07
I do sympathize with you; however please do not use the forums as your personal space. We have many other existing threads that are available for these sorts of discussion.

Also try 'The Help Thread'. Sorry!

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