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Personality VS Looks
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Personality or Looks?? =] which would you choose?

i cHoose Personality. =D

u?

has anyone actually fallen for a guy/girl with personality or looks ONLy??
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personality
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both would be good. but if it were one or the other... of course personality.
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lol i knoe wat u mean. =]
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both! but if i have to choose, i'd choose personality...
my girlfriend is more lik looks ...she is so selfish but idk..i feel confortable with her
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Both would be ideal, but personality is more important to me. Besides it's not that hard to find who possesses both. And it doesn't mean you have to get the most handsome or beautiful one out there for the looks category.
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LOL!!! haha LOl.. Thts funny. HEHE buht its good. tht u feel comfortable wid her.


CrashAriMP5N2O wrote:

Both would be ideal, but personality is more important to me. Besides it's not that hard to find who possesses both. And it doesn't mean you have to get the most handsome or beautiful one out there for the looks category.


yeahh.. agreed.. =D hehe

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I'm not sure about this thread as there are a few on what you look for in a partner already. ^-^

Anyway - i think it's an impossible question to answer! Everyone automatically says 'personality' because that is the the cliche 'correct thing to think'. However looks are important to people aswell. Eventhough they are not accurate you can still understand a bit about a person based on what they look like.
When you first meet someone, looks are more important because they are a 'new face'. However, over time it's dificult to notice if they are 'hot' because you know more about them. You build up a more semantic image of the person than a physical one. It's like how i can never tell if my closest friends are 'hot' - because i will naturally be positive about them ^-^.
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personality *nods*


s_j_b wrote:

I'm not sure about this thread as there are a few on what you look for in a partner already. ^-^

Anyway - i think it's an impossible question to answer! Everyone automatically says 'personality' because that is the the cliche 'correct thing to think'. However looks are important to people aswell. Eventhough they are not accurate you can still understand a bit about a person based on what they look like.
When you first meet someone, looks are more important because they are a 'new face'. However, over time it's dificult to notice if they are 'hot' because you know more about them. You build up a more semantic image of the person than a physical one. It's like how i can never tell if my closest friends are 'hot' - because i will naturally be positive about them ^-^.


oh you're right(like always ^_^ ). but a lotta good lookin' people piss me off when i first meet them so i sometimes tend to stay away from them.
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Lol. same here.. agreed.
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looks for myself ..while look for personalities from others
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s_j_b wrote:

I'm not sure about this thread as there are a few on what you look for in a partner already. ^-^

Anyway - i think it's an impossible question to answer! Everyone automatically says 'personality' because that is the the cliche 'correct thing to think'. However looks are important to people aswell. Eventhough they are not accurate you can still understand a bit about a person based on what they look like.
When you first meet someone, looks are more important because they are a 'new face'. However, over time it's dificult to notice if they are 'hot' because you know more about them. You build up a more semantic image of the person than a physical one. It's like how i can never tell if my closest friends are 'hot' - because i will naturally be positive about them ^-^.


Yes how right you are. I think love starts out as an infatuation then grows to true love, where looks do not matter as much as how you see the person for who they are. But my statement in my earlier post was looking at the latter part of a relationship. If you restrict my timeframe say for the first few days or weeks, my reason would probably go by looks.
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come on people be realistic, Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. i dont believe people fall inlove because theyre so nice. first they fall in love coz they look good and niceness is second.
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bellus-vae wrote:

come on people be realistic, Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. i dont believe people fall inlove because theyre so nice. first they fall in love coz they look good and niceness is second.




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I feel like this thread is much like asking everyone "Do you want everyone to know you're a shallow selfish arrogant prick or would you rather pretend to be nice?" Seriously how many people are going to say looks and even those that do are simply trying to add some rational and difference for the point of discussion.
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