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Post Reply A "Lovely Complex" of your own
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Posted 12/1/07 , edited 1/13/08
What would you do in their situation? For boys, would you have reacted the same way as Otani? For girls, would you have acted as Risa did? Have you ever been in a like situation?

(Response to my own question): I technically am in their situation - I'm a girl who likes a boy whos shorter than me. We're friends. I have no idea about how do go on about this. If you have advice for this too feel free to post that as well. ^_^'
Edit: Just saying, he found out because of thing my friends said... We're still friends and our relationship doesn't seem like it changed at all.
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Posted 12/2/07
Well I don't think that the heigh is a problem, the problem can be that you are friends, so you have to think carefull if you really want to have a relationship (Boyfriend-girlfriend) with him. Hopes it will turn out good in the end! Good Luck!
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Posted 12/2/07
Im the same here i like a boy who is shorter than me.... lol we are friends too... and plus im a few months older than him.......
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Posted 12/3/07
that is hard for me to even picture. because for a boy to be shorter than me, he would have to be a midget. no lie. i am exactly one inch over legal midget hieght. i am 4'10
Posted 12/3/07
That will look weird of course But I don't think height will be a problem if I am really in love with that boy ;D
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Posted 12/4/07
I used to have a crush on a guy shorter than me & he likes me too. But he is like Otani..or not I dunno..He just doesn't want to be with me..*sigh*
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Posted 12/4/07
I wouldnt be bothered to much, if i like him enough, i'd try overcome the issues, of course i have no such dilema or a boyfriend or anything else....ok i'll stop now *sighs*
Posted 12/4/07
height shouldnt be an issue. actually, i'm kinda opposite of koizumi. people have been saying that this guy (whose about 3 inches shorter than me) has a crush on me... anyways, I wouldnt have acted at all like otani or koizumi. i would have taken it bad. really bad.
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Posted 12/5/07
i care about height. maybe because i never like somebody that shorter than me ^^
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Posted 12/6/07
if i were otani, first id try to get a clue -.-
he was prty cluless about wht to do and kept on making slip ups, poor guy
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Posted 12/10/07
I'm kinda taller than some guys my age maybe it's beacuse I play basketball too much.I did have a crush on a person shorter than me and we got together and now I'm single
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Posted 12/10/07
Yes im having a complex over here...

Im 176cm tall and the boy who has a crush on me is 160cm


we were childhood friends now he wants something more than that
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27 / F / Ohsaka Gakuen
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Posted 12/10/07
i und..mitsukii13..im tall too..166cm..at least im taller than many guys...my good guy friends are somewhat shorter than me..haha..i can relate to risa as well..some of her issues..however..i hope u wuden cry as much as risa...and pachy..woah! ur situation is totally lovely complex! wat happens next?
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Posted 12/11/07
Ummm..right now im acting like nothing happened and were still friends its kinda embaressin when i walk beside him with my friends i try to stay beside my other friend who's abit shorter than me

everytime he brings the subject up i just change it real fast and he gives me this look >> but i dont see him than anything more than an older (shorter) brother or a childhood friend
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Posted 12/12/07
hmmm//complex...ur situation is like the total opp of lovely complex...do u like him in the first place? or as otani puts it: have u or can u ever consider him as ur bf? btw..how do u noe he likes u? thru a friend/subtle hints/confession? sorry if i sound so nosy..just interested in ur lovely complex situation...
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