need your advice..
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i need your advice..

i have a friend, well actually my bestfriend....it so happens that we teased her...she got angry and never talked to us..[until now] i kept saying sorry but she just ignores me...i was really sorry...but now i'm kinda angry at her because she's too shallow...we already did our part [we said sorry] but she just can't forgive us...i don't know..

now...she's with one of my classmates...my classmate said that my friend said to her that she's not really angry with the two of us...but with the other one [we don't know who]..she's angry because she thought that that person is a bad influence to her..but i think it's not a good reason to hate us that much...she also said that she will not talk to the two person she is not angry at until the other one is with them[kinda felt angry with that]..she could just said the problem so we can solve it..i don't know..i always say to myself that it's ok..it's ok if she can't forgive us..but i can't..i just keep on thinking ways for her to forgive us..

there was also a time when we were in first year high schoo..she got angry at me..but i don't know why..she just forgave me when we were on our second year..i always thought that she has too much pride..and i still understand her..but i just can't live with her ignoring me..i kinda feel jealous of my classmate she talks with..

^have you encountered such thing like this...i need your advice..what should you think i should so?......it's been almost a week since she got angry at us...
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i dont know if this is the proper place to post your topic but,...

well heres an advice i could give to you:

never let her know that your angry to her at anything, firstly because you guys teased her and that caused her to get angry at you. let it pass give her space, talk to her if she reply in a way that she wants to talk, but if you feel like shes trying to snub, just let it pass and again give her space, in time she'll just forget about things.

or you could make her laugh but not intentionally.

remember somethings that may not be that offensive to you may be really offensive to others and all types of people are bound to overflow.
Posted 10/8/08
Maybe You Went To Far in Teasing Her...Or She Can't Take A Joke =~=
You Should Post This On The General Help Thread Btw
Posted 10/8/08
no personal threads sorry
but you are a cruel friend if you tease your best friend like that, you should be more sensitive to your best friend
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Posted 10/8/08

shan021 wrote:

i need your advice..

i have a friend, well actually my bestfriend....it so happens that we teased her...she got angry and never talked to us..[until now] i kept saying sorry but she just ignores me...i was really sorry...but now i'm kinda angry at her because she's too shallow...we already did our part [we said sorry] but she just can't forgive us...i don't know..

now...she's with one of my classmates...my classmate said that my friend said to her that she's not really angry with the two of us...but with the other one [we don't know who]..she's angry because she thought that that person is a bad influence to her..but i think it's not a good reason to hate us that much...she also said that she will not talk to the two person she is not angry at until the other one is with them[kinda felt angry with that]..she could just said the problem so we can solve it..i don't know..i always say to myself that it's ok..it's ok if she can't forgive us..but i can't..i just keep on thinking ways for her to forgive us..

there was also a time when we were in first year high schoo..she got angry at me..but i don't know why..she just forgave me when we were on our second year..i always thought that she has too much pride..and i still understand her..but i just can't live with her ignoring me..i kinda feel jealous of my classmate she talks with..

^have you encountered such thing like this...i need your advice..what should you think i should so?......it's been almost a week since she got angry at us...


No personal thread please.

No I've never encountered something like that. It was very unwise for you to tease her you know.You know how females can be, very fragile.



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Hi,

My advice to you is that you learn not to fucking hurt others. Seriously, did you think after insulting someone they'd be like "Oh well it's fine". Wake up to reality you stupid child.

I knew the younger ones were stupid but this just crosses the line. Fucking stupid little shits. It's a week. You're 14. Fuck you are dumb. A whole damn week, shiiit, life's over now eh? Seriously. I swear, can you little girls get more retarded? Do you have down syndrome or do you like being in a contest of wits against a brick?

Not much to say, just harden the fuck up!

Oh and you sound like a lesbian.
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Kthxbaii wrote:

Hi,

My advice to you is that you learn not to fucking hurt others. Seriously, did you think after insulting someone they'd be like "Oh well it's fine". Wake up to reality you stupid child.

I knew the younger ones were stupid but this just crosses the line. Fucking stupid little shits. It's a week. You're 14. Fuck you are dumb. A whole damn week, shiiit, life's over now eh? Seriously. I swear, can you little girls get more retarded? Do you have down syndrome or do you like being in a contest of wits against a brick?

Not much to say, just harden the fuck up!

Oh and you sound like a lesbian.


I am touched by your reply lawl seriously I was going to say that but don't wanna hurt a dumb 14 year-old.
She does sound like one.

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Posted 10/8/08
Mman just wait for another week or 2, she'll give in... She's not gonna ignore you forever jeez...
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No personal threads pleez...
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I'm not going to say that personal threads are not allowed, because they've already done that, but I just sort-of did.

Anyway, you're the shallow one for always teasing her, there's a time for everything, and too much is bad.

Meaning there's appropriate time to tease and don't push it too much.
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Posted 10/8/08
lol. Either she is wayyy to sensitive. Or you guys aren't very good at treating your friends. Or both. I've never even heard something like this happening in high school. Twice for that matter. And you might want to ask for advice in person to someone you know or an adult. Not strangers online in an Asian show/media forum.
Posted 10/8/08
No personal threads please. Use the General Help thread for this instead.

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