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Your life-dream, or the love of your life?
Posted 4/15/07

s_j_b wrote:

Wow, CR members like making 'dillemas' for love lately! o_O


Yea I noticed that as well. I think some of the CR members are complicating love a little too much.

Anyway to stay on topic - probably life dream. My career and future aspirations are really important to me.
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Posted 4/15/07
^ Yea we really need to stop with these either/or topics. These dilemmas can all really be put in just one thread. People need to stop flooding the forums with these things.

I'd probably go with a life dream as well. My love would probably understand, and if she actually cared she would wait. If not, then she wouldn't really be the love of my life.
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Posted 4/15/07

animoo_x wrote:


s_j_b wrote:

Wow, CR members like making 'dillemas' for love lately! o_O


Yea I noticed that as well. I think some of the CR members are complicating love a little too much.


lmao! completely agree!
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s_j_b already posted pretty much what I was thinking.
(false dichotomy # 49 in this forum)



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Posted 4/15/07
hey mushroomjay true, but even if i never saw threads likes this, i would of created this topic anyways, cause me and my friends had a conversation about this life-dream / love choice thing yesterday
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Posted 4/15/07
My life dream. Love is something that anyone and everything can have. Their dream isn't.
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Posted 4/15/07
^u are just saying that cause u people don't have gf (talking to nazareeni)
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Posted 4/15/07
woow chosing is a lot of presior because my dream is big but i don'thave a love of my life, yet... lets think...now i would chose my dreame because i don't have a love of my life.but when i will be 20 maybe i will have and i wont want to lose him... but if i now wouldn't have my dreame i would chose love... what thw hake now i would chose the love of my love because i don't now mfjucer and because i love riking...
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Posted 4/15/07
I would totally rather have my dream than my love, cause my dream is to become immortal, conquer all the universes, enslave my enemies, marry all the pretty girls, etc. etc. etc.....and so on, so why would anyone rather have love than the dream?
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Posted 4/15/07
i rather live with the girl i love then live the dream...whenever you are with your love you will never feel empty inside...while the dream is something you can only achieve and while you achieve it there nothing more to it
Posted 4/17/07
When I originally asked myself this question many years ago, I almost sprained my brain trying to reach a conclusion. Because if I left one day, explaining to my love that I had to move on, I wouldn't let myself enjoy my work because of the betrayal to my love. And if I threw away my dreams to be with someone, I couldn't promise that I wouldn't get up at night and scratch the door, eager to be let out ten years down the line. Living with my love while my heart is elsewhere would also spell out doom.

My problem is that my life dream is something I want to do all my life, and my love is someone I want to do all of my life . I can't do one and then the other, I'd have to have them both, or aspire to achieve them.
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Posted 4/17/07
^ too true, why can't you have both?

but in the case i can't my comfort would be to say that if we're really meant to be together, we'd see each other again, because i know that when it comes down to it, i'd rather have a fulfulling career bacause the career i want is something i also love. it maybe cowardly of me but a person's feelings can change but u goal will always be there, in one shape or another.
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Posted 4/17/07
Believe me, living in a clic'e dream world would be lots better than living with the one I love. For several reasons. First, becasue my dream world kicks @$$ (imagine it raining bacon that's good for your health), and second because I don't know who the love of my life is yet. I'm on this website. Does it sound like I would have found my soulmate yet?
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Posted 4/17/07

Nazareeni wrote:

which would you pick. To live your dream without your love, or the opposite. I just made this up cus this hapened to my friend's fathers around me.

(if this thead allready exists then feel free to lock)


If love takes time to heal then I'm willing to live my dreams.......sooner or later the true prince will come.....


right?
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Posted 5/19/07
I think I would choose my dream...cos at the end of the day, noone loves u as much as urself, so I d rather be content with my life and my dreams than be with the guy I love and feel like I could have done something more in my life....I want to be famous! fame is so much better than love! u can still date men without love..
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I'd pick my soul mate every time cause with him nothing else would make me happy!!
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