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putting off annoying guys please help?!
Posted 10/12/08
i'm really not good with dealing with guys who are bothering me either. i just try to get the fuck away from them as soon as i can.
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Posted 10/12/08
Supreme help from FryingGuy that you'll probably ignore because I'm not female or that its probably too difficult for you!

Here goes:

Lighten up, take annoyance like a cube of gelatin with a hard iron core.

In other words, annoyance is a feature that when fought, it produces more annoyance. Instead, absorb the blows by showing the opposite reaction that you would normally have and when and if it gets too far (eg: permanent damage) then resort to brute strength or make it so they cannot annoy you any further. Annoyance is always easier on your mind when faced with acceptance.
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Posted 10/12/08

FryingGuy wrote:

Supreme help from FryingGuy that you'll probably ignore because I'm not female or that its probably too difficult for you!

Here goes:

Lighten up, take annoyance like a cube of gelatin with a hard iron core.

In other words, annoyance is a feature that when fought, it produces more annoyance. Instead, absorb the blows by showing the opposite reaction that you would normally have and when and if it gets too far (eg: permanent damage) then resort to brute strength or make it so they cannot annoy you any further. Annoyance is always easier on your mind when faced with acceptance.


Heh, clever. But yes sadly annoyance will and always does end in more annoyance.
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Posted 10/12/08 , edited 10/12/08
Just make it clear that you don't wan't anything to do with the person. Fuck hurting his feelings, he's going to get burned eventually and he probably still notices the hate but just not have acknowledged it.
You're being unfair to yourself and to him if you keep quiet about this, you're waisting time for the both of you.
Posted 10/15/08
just..be like yeah...ok. and make it obvious that you really don't care about him. if he doesn't stop...say it straight out to him "ur frikin annoying."
Posted 10/15/08
You seem to be doing fine at putting off guys.
Posted 10/15/08

diazragu08 wrote:

ladies have you ever gone some where and there was always some guy trying to talk to you? how do you put them off when thier annoying the shit out of you? it would seem guys are always bothering me when i go out and its beyond annoying! sometimes i just want to mace them or threaten them do you ever find that when your polite to them they bother you even more? and ask you a ton of questions that dont concern them? or the guys that can see your married and they still try to talk to you even when your husband is around? what do you do in situations like that especially when you dont want to be bothered?


i would really like opinions from the ladies!


File a restrain order.
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Posted 10/15/08
there's no right way to get rid of guys. realistically speaking, there's always going to be at least 1 guy who ignores all your protests and still follow you around.
But for the rest, just ignore them or honestly tell them straight to their face that they're creeping you out.
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Posted 10/15/08
i either say "get the **** outta here or ill kick your ass" or "wtf? get away creep!" other than that I usually kick um in the "happy place" and run if i feel like annoying them bak
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Posted 10/15/08
Tell them that your name is Jorge.
If that's not enough, then tell them that you have a Penis.
If that's not enough, then tell them that you can Dance.
If that's not enough.....
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Posted 10/15/08
whenever I talk to girls, I always wonder if I'm annoying the heck out of them....well I haven't gotten maced yet!
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Posted 10/15/08
Some guys out there just don't know how to quit. Im not sure what to recommend you. Maybe carry a taser and or mace? Just to be on the safe side. For me I would put them in my favorite move, "The Crucifix"
Posted 10/16/08
Scream something like, "Quit raping my ears!" Not only will it get people to look, but it might freak the guy out just enough to get him to leave. Just a random thought. lol
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Posted 10/16/08

h4x0rz wrote:

surprise castration


Pretty much what I do....well depending on the level of stalker-like behavior.
Posted 7/15/09
Just walk away. That's what I do.
Sorry but no personal threads allowed. Post in the Personal Advice thread instead

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