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Can someone help with moral support?
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Posted 4/17/07
moral help?....psst..........this means you don't believe in yourself that much. do so, and have enough will-power to overcome this problem mentally. therefore you won't have to live life in depression.
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>_> Minnasan (ie. "everybody", in case you are looking for a username and didn't watch enough anime), I know lack of sympathy. Believe me, I'm full of (the lacking in) it. It probably isn't your business if your next door neighbour choked on a sweet and died or the random person 3 streets down has a sister who has a friend who has a dog that saw this man one day, while on his morning dog walk, get knocked down by a trishaw. I know how it doesn't concern you, therefore it doesn't concern you, period.

But I also know the feeling of having something terrible that people don't (usually get). You start looking at others, almost hoping that they have it too just so that they know what (insert adjectives, ie. FKINGHELLUVALOTGODAMMIT!!!!!!!) pain you are going through. This applies for both the post author and us. He's trying to find comfort and 'people who understand' probably, but unfortunately, we can't. Not on a personal level, and definitely not the same experience. That's why I don't buy stories like 'OH YOU POOR POOR CHILD, I feel so sorry for you, lemme cry on your behalf. Now, of course, that is an exaggeration, but still.

Superfly, the rest are right, in the sense that the internet is definitely not the best place to seek comfort. But advise, there is plenty. There are bound to be some websites that can help answer your plentiful of questions with regards to your condition. I'm not saying that you can't attempt to squeeze what remaining sympathy (and the lack of) out of CR members. I can forsee (with my cynic eye) that there will bound to be some careless statements that might end up hurting instead of comforting you.

Although I can't say that I have an indefinite amount of pity or sympathy to offer, but I definitely don't want to see any CR members getting hurt over emotional things. It's not worth it (ningen=warui! :D). But do, keep these members posted personally on how you are doing (I mean, if they are concerned, let them know)
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