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Post Reply who would you love ... the one you love or the one who loves you?
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Posted 10/16/08
well.... the one you love may hurt you..what if the one you love does not love you back instead he hurts you... will you still go on??
the one who loves you will do anything to make you happii and does not hurt you...
who would you choose??
it hard though..
for me I DONT KNW
Posted 10/23/08
i guess the one who loves me..
though its hard to chose...
i chose the one who loves me cos he will do everything to make me happy
Posted 11/12/08
well it actually depends, but if i were to choose i would choose someone who loves me more than i love him.. u can just say that i'm a selfish girl but knowing my friend who loves her bf more than he loves her, makes wanna noe... wat is love? even tho he does that to her, she is still in love with her...
ok this is getting off topic, ok bak to the topic... maybe i would love him if he tries anything to make me happy.. idk as i sed depends...
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Posted 11/19/08
let me say as well its very hard to choose when both will atract u in a deferent way like the one u love u are in to him 100% then he will for sure hurt u then the one loves u will come and do what ever he can to change ur sad face and u will feel like u want this that will never make u sad and there u will remember the other and so u wont choose looooooooooool man how hard is that? ask me

answer i dont know yet
Posted 11/30/08
the one i love obviously because if someone loved me i probably wouldnt know unless they said it in my face with a serious face xD haha
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The one who loves me...Why would I even bother loving someone who I know will hurt me someday..And besides, love naturally comes when you feel loved...
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WELL I WOULD HAVE TO SAY NEITHER ONE....IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE AND THEY DONT LOVE YOU YOU END UP WITH A BROKEN HEART..IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE AND THEY DONT LOVE YOU YOU END UP WITH A BROKEN HEART AS WELL...SO WHY NOT JUST FIND SOMEONE WHERE BOTH OF YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY AND YOU CAN GROW TO LOVE EACH OTHER..
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Posted 1/30/09
I think.. 5 yrs ago.. the same question was asked by my cousin... I replied (then) that i would choose the one who loves me... But now..

I would say... I'll just look for the guy that i will love and will love me in return... ^_^

Bcoz, if force myself to be with a guy that loves me but i don't love in return, I'd end up hurting him or myself.. coz.. I'd be living in a lie... If the guy that i love loves another girl.. then... there's nothing i can do.. but of course.. one shouldn't give up right away... I mean... What if the guy u like was meant for u? it's just that he hasn't realized it.. or hasn't met you... I think the right thing to do is wait.. until he finally (sort of) tell you himself... (telling you in words or actions... by actions i mean... that person's body language... like.. u just know his true feelings)
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Posted 1/31/09
i think i would love the one i love..more than the one who loves me..cuz love can't be forced..and forced love won't last long and u'll regret it..but if u'r with the one u love u can make many happy memories..
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i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.
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i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.


Yeah, I agree because if you love someone, you can't just move on and love somebody else, who loves you. I can't imagine that. If you seriously love someone it can't be replaced.
Why do you look down on the ones who loves you? I mean, what do you feel?
But yes, it's hard to stay around the one you loves you, but only if you turned him down. If you like the person, than it's totally a happy feeling
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Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:

i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.


Yeah, I agree because if you love someone, you can't just move on and love somebody else, who loves you. I can't imagine that. If you seriously love someone it can't be replaced.
Why do you look down on the ones who loves you? I mean, what do you feel?
But yes, it's hard to stay around the one you loves you, but only if you turned him down. If you like the person, than it's totally a happy feeling


yeah
i don't know why, i look down on them... i just feel disgusted by them (maybe because its the really annoying nerds who tend to like me and they stalk me... or maybe because they make everything awkward). sometimes i am really mean to them and then i feel really bad afterwards but then they say stupid stuff and then im happy i was mean to them >.<
yeah, i hate how uncomfortable it is. and ive never known for sure when a person i like liked me back so i dont know that feeling
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alignedstars wrote:


Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:

i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.


Yeah, I agree because if you love someone, you can't just move on and love somebody else, who loves you. I can't imagine that. If you seriously love someone it can't be replaced.
Why do you look down on the ones who loves you? I mean, what do you feel?
But yes, it's hard to stay around the one you loves you, but only if you turned him down. If you like the person, than it's totally a happy feeling


yeah
i don't know why, i look down on them... i just feel disgusted by them (maybe because its the really annoying nerds who tend to like me and they stalk me... or maybe because they make everything awkward). sometimes i am really mean to them and then i feel really bad afterwards but then they say stupid stuff and then im happy i was mean to them >.<
yeah, i hate how uncomfortable it is. and ive never known for sure when a person i like liked me back so i dont know that feeling :(



Oh, then I understand it It depends on the person who loves you, how you feel. If they're keeping stalking you, than it;'s really annoying, but kind of funny You know,there are many movies and anime etc where it's about a situation like this, but in the end it's a happy end. I mean, for example, you turn smb down, but he keeps liking you and maintain a kind of relationship, like in Lovely Complex or Itazura na Kiss , I don't know if you know these. I don't know either how is the feeling when smb likes you back, I know only how it feels if I really like smb. And also experienced a turn down, so I kinda know how it is xD And now I think about how it would've been if I keep reamining by his side and try to make him like my or smth like that... it's confusing a little.
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Posted 3/9/09

Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:


Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:

i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.


Yeah, I agree because if you love someone, you can't just move on and love somebody else, who loves you. I can't imagine that. If you seriously love someone it can't be replaced.
Why do you look down on the ones who loves you? I mean, what do you feel?
But yes, it's hard to stay around the one you loves you, but only if you turned him down. If you like the person, than it's totally a happy feeling


yeah
i don't know why, i look down on them... i just feel disgusted by them (maybe because its the really annoying nerds who tend to like me and they stalk me... or maybe because they make everything awkward). sometimes i am really mean to them and then i feel really bad afterwards but then they say stupid stuff and then im happy i was mean to them >.<
yeah, i hate how uncomfortable it is. and ive never known for sure when a person i like liked me back so i dont know that feeling :(



Oh, then I understand it It depends on the person who loves you, how you feel. If they're keeping stalking you, than it;'s really annoying, but kind of funny You know,there are many movies and anime etc where it's about a situation like this, but in the end it's a happy end. I mean, for example, you turn smb down, but he keeps liking you and maintain a kind of relationship, like in Lovely Complex or Itazura na Kiss , I don't know if you know these. I don't know either how is the feeling when smb likes you back, I know only how it feels if I really like smb. And also experienced a turn down, so I kinda know how it is xD And now I think about how it would've been if I keep reamining by his side and try to make him like my or smth like that... it's confusing a little.


yeah, you're right. yeah, i know what anime/movies your talking about. i dont think im going to end up liking them though.... they are really weird people and i already like someone ;). me too, turn downs hurt a lot. i don't have enough confidence to keep trying after a turn down
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alignedstars wrote:


Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:


Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:

i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.


Yeah, I agree because if you love someone, you can't just move on and love somebody else, who loves you. I can't imagine that. If you seriously love someone it can't be replaced.
Why do you look down on the ones who loves you? I mean, what do you feel?
But yes, it's hard to stay around the one you loves you, but only if you turned him down. If you like the person, than it's totally a happy feeling


yeah
i don't know why, i look down on them... i just feel disgusted by them (maybe because its the really annoying nerds who tend to like me and they stalk me... or maybe because they make everything awkward). sometimes i am really mean to them and then i feel really bad afterwards but then they say stupid stuff and then im happy i was mean to them >.<
yeah, i hate how uncomfortable it is. and ive never known for sure when a person i like liked me back so i dont know that feeling :(



Oh, then I understand it It depends on the person who loves you, how you feel. If they're keeping stalking you, than it;'s really annoying, but kind of funny You know,there are many movies and anime etc where it's about a situation like this, but in the end it's a happy end. I mean, for example, you turn smb down, but he keeps liking you and maintain a kind of relationship, like in Lovely Complex or Itazura na Kiss , I don't know if you know these. I don't know either how is the feeling when smb likes you back, I know only how it feels if I really like smb. And also experienced a turn down, so I kinda know how it is xD And now I think about how it would've been if I keep reamining by his side and try to make him like my or smth like that... it's confusing a little.


yeah, you're right. yeah, i know what anime/movies your talking about. i dont think im going to end up liking them though.... they are really weird people and i already like someone ;). me too, turn downs hurt a lot. i don't have enough confidence to keep trying after a turn down :(


The thing is that, if you like someone and you go to tell him, the difference between the 2 kinds of feeling is big... how to say it... maybe he don't like you back in the same way or never thought about you that way. Then, why go out, I mean I would feel just awkward that I like him very much and he doesn't ... Wouldn't that be? or if smb confesses to you and asks you to "give him a chance"... wouldn't that be? I just can't clear it yet:P The feeling is so good when you like something:P will you talk with the person?:D
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