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Posted 3/9/09

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Michija wrote:


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i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.


Yeah, I agree because if you love someone, you can't just move on and love somebody else, who loves you. I can't imagine that. If you seriously love someone it can't be replaced.
Why do you look down on the ones who loves you? I mean, what do you feel?
But yes, it's hard to stay around the one you loves you, but only if you turned him down. If you like the person, than it's totally a happy feeling


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i don't know why, i look down on them... i just feel disgusted by them (maybe because its the really annoying nerds who tend to like me and they stalk me... or maybe because they make everything awkward). sometimes i am really mean to them and then i feel really bad afterwards but then they say stupid stuff and then im happy i was mean to them >.<
yeah, i hate how uncomfortable it is. and ive never known for sure when a person i like liked me back so i dont know that feeling :(



Oh, then I understand it It depends on the person who loves you, how you feel. If they're keeping stalking you, than it;'s really annoying, but kind of funny You know,there are many movies and anime etc where it's about a situation like this, but in the end it's a happy end. I mean, for example, you turn smb down, but he keeps liking you and maintain a kind of relationship, like in Lovely Complex or Itazura na Kiss , I don't know if you know these. I don't know either how is the feeling when smb likes you back, I know only how it feels if I really like smb. And also experienced a turn down, so I kinda know how it is xD And now I think about how it would've been if I keep reamining by his side and try to make him like my or smth like that... it's confusing a little.


yeah, you're right. yeah, i know what anime/movies your talking about. i dont think im going to end up liking them though.... they are really weird people and i already like someone ;). me too, turn downs hurt a lot. i don't have enough confidence to keep trying after a turn down :(


The thing is that, if you like someone and you go to tell him, the difference between the 2 kinds of feeling is big... how to say it... maybe he don't like you back in the same way or never thought about you that way. Then, why go out, I mean I would feel just awkward that I like him very much and he doesn't ... Wouldn't that be? or if smb confesses to you and asks you to "give him a chance"... wouldn't that be? I just can't clear it yet:P The feeling is so good when you like something:P will you talk with the person?:D



yeah... i think both ways you would feel weird... i think someone who wants you to give him a chance though would be less uncomfortable and awkward because you aren't worrying whether or not he is starting to like you back... but im not sure... it really depends on the person. um... idk the person i like (i've only said sorry to him because i was in his way) because i've only met him once. i heard from a friend that he likes me so i guess if i get lucky and see him again i will talk to him. idk... im a little shy when it comes to boys i like
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i guess the one who loves me..
though its hard to chose...
i chose the one who loves me cos he will do everything to make me happy


i agree :D
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alignedstars wrote:


Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:


Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:


Michija wrote:


alignedstars wrote:

i would go with the one i love because if he ends up loving me back it would be worth it. usually, i look down on the ones who love me first... i probably wouldnt be able to stand being around the one that loves me.


Yeah, I agree because if you love someone, you can't just move on and love somebody else, who loves you. I can't imagine that. If you seriously love someone it can't be replaced.
Why do you look down on the ones who loves you? I mean, what do you feel?
But yes, it's hard to stay around the one you loves you, but only if you turned him down. If you like the person, than it's totally a happy feeling


yeah
i don't know why, i look down on them... i just feel disgusted by them (maybe because its the really annoying nerds who tend to like me and they stalk me... or maybe because they make everything awkward). sometimes i am really mean to them and then i feel really bad afterwards but then they say stupid stuff and then im happy i was mean to them >.<
yeah, i hate how uncomfortable it is. and ive never known for sure when a person i like liked me back so i dont know that feeling :(



Oh, then I understand it It depends on the person who loves you, how you feel. If they're keeping stalking you, than it;'s really annoying, but kind of funny You know,there are many movies and anime etc where it's about a situation like this, but in the end it's a happy end. I mean, for example, you turn smb down, but he keeps liking you and maintain a kind of relationship, like in Lovely Complex or Itazura na Kiss , I don't know if you know these. I don't know either how is the feeling when smb likes you back, I know only how it feels if I really like smb. And also experienced a turn down, so I kinda know how it is xD And now I think about how it would've been if I keep reamining by his side and try to make him like my or smth like that... it's confusing a little.


yeah, you're right. yeah, i know what anime/movies your talking about. i dont think im going to end up liking them though.... they are really weird people and i already like someone ;). me too, turn downs hurt a lot. i don't have enough confidence to keep trying after a turn down :(


The thing is that, if you like someone and you go to tell him, the difference between the 2 kinds of feeling is big... how to say it... maybe he don't like you back in the same way or never thought about you that way. Then, why go out, I mean I would feel just awkward that I like him very much and he doesn't ... Wouldn't that be? or if smb confesses to you and asks you to "give him a chance"... wouldn't that be? I just can't clear it yet:P The feeling is so good when you like something:P will you talk with the person?:D



yeah... i think both ways you would feel weird... i think someone who wants you to give him a chance though would be less uncomfortable and awkward because you aren't worrying whether or not he is starting to like you back... but im not sure... it really depends on the person. um... idk the person i like (i've only said sorry to him because i was in his way) because i've only met him once. i heard from a friend that he likes me so i guess if i get lucky and see him again i will talk to him. idk... im a little shy when it comes to boys i like


I think most of the people are shy when it comes about like this
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Hmm... I would have choosen the one that I love. Because if the one who love me really loved me, then he would understand and let go of me. Since his biggest wish is that I will be happy with the one I love..
Posted 5/3/09
me too! for some reason once I know that a guy loves me first, he's going to have a harder time getting me than if I had liked him first bcuz I'm very critical of him ~ poor guy :sweating bullets:
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Posted 11/4/09
i'm sticking with the one i love. . .

call me crazy or a fool. . .but i would rather choose to be hurt than let go. . .

it would be unfair of me to choose someone who loves me knowing that i love someone else. . .




Posted 12/27/09
I think I would choose ... the one who loves mie.
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