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Cool It or Lose It
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Posted 4/17/07
There are things we know......but can we actually cool ourselves before losing our minds?

One of my friends is getting on my nerves.....she goes to the same school as me....just got back from being injured.....she acts like I'm just her friend....me and her been best friends since we were little....now I feel like I just got push off because her boyfriend dislikes me.....or that's the vibe I'm getting.......


got any advice do tell me?

Telling her would be meaningless if she just gives me an attitude.....so please....


This.......I mean me needs help
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Posted 4/17/07
.....kill her.
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Yeah I wish you were right....they are in love.....or so she says....ay I feel like an outsider when she's around....every time I tried to tell her something she changes it and doesn't even look at me.....its just really annoys me......I know its drama, but this has been going on for awhile......

Your a guy....maybe you can tell me whats going on?
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Posted 4/17/07
This thread might be considered an illeitimate topic. Believe me I've seen threads closed down because it's more like a chat setting type but that's for the mods to decide.

Getting back on your topic, now is the opportunity for you to find out if she truly is your bestfriend. You may wish to leave your assumptions for now and examine their behavior towards you a little longer. Then talk with your other friends and get opinions from them (particularly those with connections with either of these two people you speak of). Then you'll know for sure if this boyfriend of hers dislikes you or not. That's all you have to do for now. If problem persists, then we'll proceed with the next step, which isn't possible unless you truly confirm the above.
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Posted 4/17/07
Nothing you can do about it. She obviously doesn't like you anymore
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Nope, its pretty much inevitable. I lost mine years ago.

Tell her your concerns. See how it goes, ditch her if you want.

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Try to get together and do stuff. Friends do stuff together. Go see a movie or something. Personally, I suggest an improv show. Improv Boston (yeah, I live near Boston, ya Yankee fan) for example, was the best show I ever went to. Yet I digress. If she doesn't start being nice again, just ignore her. Whenever someone gives me a hard time at school, I just act real lazy and they actually let up a whole lot. Luckily I don't have too many people who get on my nerves. The ones that do are either stoners or just really big idiots.
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lol.....crasharimp5n20 your right....i tried that.......its too sad to keep going on like this....its either her relationship with him or me.....but she chose him....so now.....I think back on when we were cool friends...hanging out......is this how it turns out when your best friend suddenly gets a boyfriend overnight?
Posted 4/17/07
Ahem, we sewer rats have a mantra for situations like these. "Bros before hoes." Meaning, friends before significant others

Boys will come and boys will go. If you and her are truly friends, you'll wait till she realizes who is more important to her. We are all young, so she might not come back to you anytime soon, but you should work it out with her and forgive her for letting her hormones cloud her judgment.
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Hey, if she is just shovin you around or not treatin ya like she should, she aint your friend. Believe me, I've been in that spot. More so actually.


I was pretty much betrayed and ditched by my all of my friends. They just up and ditched me, started insulting me, and all that shit. I know. I know.
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more like storming on her.....this happens numerous times....getting sick of it.....i know im young and should go forgive her.....this happened forever now........since 5th grade....
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How about you kill him and then problem is solved.
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Umm... How old are they? Cuz if they're younger than 28 I'm just going to assume their another of the attention thirsty Emos of our world. Specially if their teenagers. I swear this kind of drama makes me sick.

Well, if she makes you feel like an outsider, and refused to listen to you when you explain this, she’s -not- a friend. She’s another self centered emo. Just tell her you envy her for being so lucky as to find glorious love! He’ll try and get into her pants and either A. Succeed and then leave her, or B. Get shot down and leave her. Or C. Get shot down and then keep trying until he succeeds and then leave her.

90% is that he’s either an emo or he’s trying to get some. 90% chance she’s either an emo or a drama queen. Well, I’d just avoid her entirely.
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lol killing is not the type of thing i would do.....



If you were in my situation and you got hurt pretty bad because of an accident that happened two weeks ago.....you come back to school.....your best friend acts like she is all miss perfect......what would you do?
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jashlyesro wrote:

lol.....crasharimp5n20 your right....i tried that.......its too sad to keep going on like this....its either her relationship with him or me.....but she chose him....so now.....I think back on when we were cool friends...hanging out......is this how it turns out when your best friend suddenly gets a boyfriend overnight?


The important thing to keep in mind is that you make sure that you don't let this thing change who you are. If you truly consider yourself to be her best friend, you would forgive her the moment she comes back to you as a renewed best friend. Who knows you might reap a lot more by staying the way you are. If this boyfriend of hers has a brain and a heart, he would probably admit his wrong too and you all can be good friends. Even if they're in a relationship, that wouldn't deter your own special friendship with her. Case and point I got a bully to be my friend and he turned out to be decent in the end.
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