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Posted 4/17/07
Let her believe that lie. Just know yourself that she isn't. As long as she doesn't get to you it's ok.
(If you don't know what that means it means Get on your nerves.
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Honestly, just get over it. You have other friends to talk to. It's not that big of a deal if someone finds a new friend. Things don't stay static. You can't expect friends to always be there for you to make way for your own personal needs. They have wants of their own. The environment changes and you can't expect people to always be around. There's nothing you can do. Meet new people, make new friends instead of moping around and you'll feel better.

If you don't like that suggestion, then you can just bitch slap your friend into submission.
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Posted 4/17/07

CrashAriMP5N2O wrote:


jashlyesro wrote:

lol.....crasharimp5n20 your right....i tried that.......its too sad to keep going on like this....its either her relationship with him or me.....but she chose him....so now.....I think back on when we were cool friends...hanging out......is this how it turns out when your best friend suddenly gets a boyfriend overnight?


The important thing to keep in mind is that you make sure that you don't let this thing change who you are. If you truly consider yourself to be her best friend, you would forgive her the moment she comes back to you as a renewed best friend. Who knows you might reap a lot more by staying the way you are. If this boyfriend of hers has a brain and a heart, he would probably admit his wrong too and you all can be good friends. Even if they're in a relationship, that wouldn't deter your own special friendship with her. Case and point I got a bully to be my friend and he turned out to be decent in the end.


suppose your right i guess......i can forgive her....somewhere inside of me....i can....the outside wants to scream in her face and say.....girl you got probs.....
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Posted 4/17/07

jamehze wrote:

Honestly, just get over it. You have other friends to talk to. It's not that big of a deal if someone finds a new friend. Things don't stay static. You can't expect friends to always be there for you to make way for your own personal needs. They have wants of their own. The environment changes and you can't expect people to always be around. There's nothing you can do. Meet new people, make new friends instead of moping around and you'll feel better.

If you don't like that suggestion, then you can just bitch slap your friend into submission.


omg your a rough friend....wouldn't want to get on your bad side....


besides.....got your point.....I know i got alot, but she's pulling them too
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Okay, I'll be nice then. What would I do?Well, I assume your point is that you didn't deserve it right? If that's the case I actually agree with the others that she's not good friend material. Okay she's young, might be her first bf, so stay cool, be friendly but uncommiting, don't chase her around, show her that you have lots of fun with your other friends. Eventually,she should miss the good old times with you. But "oh sorry, i don't have time for you today, same goes for tomorrow" etc. She'll get the point. If not, you'll have to let go...Uhm, you've been injured and she ignores you, are you limping now or something like that?
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jashlyesro wrote:

lol killing is not the type of thing i would do.....



If you were in my situation and you got hurt pretty bad because of an accident that happened two weeks ago.....you come back to school.....your best friend acts like she is all miss perfect......what would you do?


Fine, since you live in NY too I'll help you out. If you're willing to pay me a decent amount of cash, I'll get the nosy punk to dissapear and then we can surely say that the problem is solved.
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26 / M / Jersey
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Posted 4/17/07
I'm not a really that tough of a tough friend, but a lot of people don't realize that you usually won't keep your best friend from that long ago. People change and find new interests. It happens and you can't force things to go back to normal, because they won't. I just tend to be a blunt pessimist.
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Posted 4/17/07
wait? it doesn't solve anything....
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No personal threads allowed. Post in the Personal Advice thread instead

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