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girls that insist that their boyfriends fight for them
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Posted 1/11/09

super52 wrote:

So my boy who i've known for over 10 years has a girlfriend/soon to be fiancee who insists that he stand up for her whenever a guy insults her or doesn't treat her with respect, and when I say stand up for her I mean she wants him to F*CK the dude up LOL physically..she's crazy but I know a ton of females just like her....

If he doesn't do anything once she's been disrespected and she gives him that "look" (look-meaning, beat this guys ass and honor your women) she stops talking to him, giving him sex and treats him like a nobody until he proves his worth in some way or another..I've been talking to him trying to get him out of this crazy relationship but he's whipped

So I guess my question to all the females here is; how do you expect your man to react when you two are together and some idiot disrespects you? Are you the type of girl that likes a man who's willing to put up a fight to honor you or the sensitive guy who runs for cover lol?

When I say "put up a fight" I don't necessarily mean to actually start fist fighting..

"put up a fight" i.e-cuss the guy out
-demand that the asswhole appologize to his girl
- stare the guy down
-fist fight etc...




To answer your questions, I don't expect my guy to physically fight, but I don't expect him to tell the idiot that it's a big no-no to disrespect me. You don't have to fight, but you do have to say something that tells them that it's not okay. If you don't like, too bad that's the type of girl that I am.

What if the same idiot who disrespecting your boy's girl, start disrespecting his mom? Would you tell him to lose the relationship with his mom, or would you tell him to fight? My point is, the girl is going to be a family member. Would you let anyone disrespect your family?


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She's a bitch.
Only one he should hit is her, for even thinking that she is in command.
Submissive guys are like dogs.
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24 / M / Michigan
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If i had a gf, if its about another woman, she could fend fr herself. If its a guy and he does something physical, then some heats gonna be startin up. If its just verbal but not harsh im sort of ok with that.
Posted 1/11/09

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Screw that, I ain't gonna fight for anyone, If my girlfriend gets into a situation, she has to get out of it on her own, There is not a chance in hell that I'm gonna fight for her. I'm way too lazy to do that.


If she didn't put herself in that situation though, you better stand up for her, else youre a sissy.

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Hung upside down, naked, for everyone to see, be ridiculed at and never given the chance to commit suicide.
People like that deserve to experience hell on earth.
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I suggest running...these are attention whores and will make your life a living hell.

Edit: Ok, I'm obviously sleep-deprived, and didn't read the first post very thoroughly. I would post a better response, but I'm too tired and it probably won't make any sense anyway...
Posted 1/11/09
I'm usually the type of girl that can stand up for myself. Since I have no father, I had to learn to be tough on my own and even though we do have men in the family, they don't do shit so it's up to the females to do the work. A man that can't stand up for you is usually a pussy anyway. I hate the sensitive ones that run away, be a man and fucking fight! Especially if he puts his hands on me.
Posted 1/11/09 , edited 1/11/09
I would hope that he sticks up for me(only verbally of course) because i cant really stick up for myself >.< i cant handle harsh words so if he's my boyfreind, then he should know that very well and help me out.

but im not the type of person who looks for fights anways so id probably never be in that kind of situation.
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1) people dont normally insult you unless you have provoked that individual to do so
2) If some random individual comes up and verbally insults you, why should that hold any effect on you. Brush it off...
3) If someone who you actually care how they think about you insults you, you either pick bad friends or should see point 1.
4) If some random guy comes up and hits on you or tries to harass you, then yes as a boyfriend it is your duty to step in and "fix" the situation. Really unless you are dealing with the ultimate of tools should fighting the individual become necessary.

The bottom line is if you have to resort to insults to make yourself feel better, you probably have underlying anger or self-esteem issues. There's a big difference between standing up for yourself and letting some random douche get a rise out of you.
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What man would allow someone to disrespect the woman he loves?
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super52 wrote:

So my boy who i've known for over 10 years has a girlfriend/soon to be fiancee who insists that he stand up for her whenever a guy insults her or doesn't treat her with respect, and when I say stand up for her I mean she wants him to F*CK the dude up LOL physically..she's crazy but I know a ton of females just like her....

If he doesn't do anything once she's been disrespected and she gives him that "look" (look-meaning, beat this guys ass and honor your women) she stops talking to him, giving him sex and treats him like a nobody until he proves his worth in some way or another..I've been talking to him trying to get him out of this crazy relationship but he's whipped

So I guess my question to all the females here is; how do you expect your man to react when you two are together and some idiot disrespects you? Are you the type of girl that likes a man who's willing to put up a fight to honor you or the sensitive guy who runs for cover lol?

When I say "put up a fight" I don't necessarily mean to actually start fist fighting..

"put up a fight" i.e-cuss the guy out
-demand that the asswhole appologize to his girl
- stare the guy down
-fist fight etc...




This isnt politically correct, u forgot to add black people and their ccrew, dikes/lesbians, gay's/girly men, indians with their hatchets, Europeans and their stuck up way. lol prly going to get flamed for this even though most of the comments above are jokes and people prly wont read this part of the sentence. :O
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well... i would punch a guy if he was insulting my gf. maybe.(cause then i would get expelled...)
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Posted 1/11/09
of course they have to stand up for us at times where we cant stand up for ourselves
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26 / F / Colorado
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Ha ha. This made me laugh.
I had a boyfriend who argued with me because I won't let him fight for my "dignity."
He said I made him look less manly and that since he's the man in the relationship he should be the one protecting me, after that I broke up with him, cause I find what he said really degrading.

I would like a guy who knows when is the right time to step in and when to be in the sidelines.
I don't like a guy who resorts to fist fights... somehow it seems to me that he's fighting to show who's manlier instead of fighting to "defend" me.
But there are situations where you need a guy to stop or to resolve the problem. If that was the case, I would want the guy to take initiative without me hinting that he needs to step in.
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Posted 1/11/09

geeene_16 wrote:

Ha ha. This made me laugh.
I had a boyfriend who argued with me because I won't let him fight for my "dignity."
He said I made him look less manly and that since he's the man in the relationship he should be the one protecting me, after that I broke up with him, cause I find what he said really degrading.

I would like a guy who knows when is the right time to step in and when to be in the sidelines.
I don't like a guy who resorts to fist fights... somehow it seems to me that he's fighting to show who's manlier instead of fighting to "defend" me.
But there are situations where you need a guy to stop or to resolve the problem. If that was the case, I would want the guy to take initiative without me hinting that he needs to step in.


So you are looking for a soft guy maybe a little emo and a little bit a Pussy.
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