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Okay, I'm not really good at telling things about my life, but here it goes...

There's this guys I've known since 1st grade, R. And I have this friend that is a guy and I've known since 3rd, J. He's a really good friend that I guess.. cares about me a lot. I started liking R in second, and still sorta do. In 4th grade, J told me he likes me. (J and R were best friends from Kindergarden til 3rd 'cuz in 4th, they got split into different classes.) Since I was kinda young back then, I didn't really care whether he liked me or not. Last year, rumors went around that J still liked me, and he told me that himself. This year, I asked J if he still likes me, and answered, "No, I like Kayla(who is a close friend of mine)." I don't know if I should believe him or not, 'cuz in the summer, J told me he liked Jasmine, but told me he was joking. A few months ago, J asked me who I like. I went all trustworthy on him and told him it was R. Like... 2 months later(which is 2 weeks before now), J asked me again if I was sure I like R. I said, "Yeah." And he said, "No offense, but R is kinda weird. Don't you think?" I didn't know how to respond, so I agreed with him. "Hm.. yea. I guess your right. I was just lying about that. I don't like him." And now, whenever I ask J who he likes, it's now changed to: "Nobody." Should I believe him that he liked Kayla before? What if he still likes me? He's been nicer to me all of a sudden. And the big part is... I'm starting to believe J that... R is "weird"(from what I've seen him do). I don't know what I should do.
I need help girls!! Any advice is welcome!

P.S. And now, J and I are really close friends.
He gets sorta hyper whenever I say hi to him. And he tells people I'm his sister, and I'm okay with it. Some times, if I've met a new friend and they know J, you might catch me tricking them into thinking he's actually my big brother. (Also, we look a like 'cuz we're both the same ethnicity.)
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i really need some help here! i'm going out with my bf(who i love very much!) and everythings well and all that jazz, but since he grauduated last year it's been hard to see each other. now, there's a guy idk and i had a dream that he kissed me and i'm really confused!!!
Posted 12/4/08

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i really need some help here! i'm going out with my bf(who i love very much!) and everythings well and all that jazz, but since he grauduated last year it's been hard to see each other. now, there's a guy idk and i had a dream that he kissed me and i'm really confused!!!


follow wat ur heart say, like me i really like someone but dream of another boy, i follow my heart and believe in me now relise who i like........... thats harrison not my dream boy
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here's my story...^__^
my bestfriend like this guy....
and as a friend i supported her....
i hate it when a guy dont get what girls mean.....
my friend and i did everything for him to know that my best friend exist...
he is so friendly and he talks to me and...when he needs help i help him
so i decided to let my friend help him so that they would know
each other better...i mean you know BONDING lol...
the next day i ask my bestfriend what happened and she said "nothing"
i was kinda excited because i thought that theyre friendship at least upgraded a little
i always told my friend that his crush is soooo dense
he didnt even know that you like him....after all you did he still treat you as a friend and not more than that
when the time comes that i was really pissed i told the guy that i wanna talk to him..... i said "YOU'RE SOO DENSE"
i know he was a little confuse that time...
" DONT YOU KNOW THAT MY BESTFRIEND LIKES YOU????!!!" ' i continued...
he was shocked it was all written in his face that he didnt know anything about it...
then he suddenly told me " BUT I LIKE YOU SINCE WE WERE FRESHMEN"

i thought that time that this boy was the dense one but i realized
that i was more dense than this stupid guy...


then the next morning when i met him at school
he didnt smile at me like he used to do everytime we meet
and then he suddenly talks to my friend like they were so close..
i was happy for her....(no really....im honest lol)
but the problem is ... when he
looks at me theres a voice in
my mind saying "dont look at me like that"
cause he used to greet me everyday and smile at me and talks to me....
and i really like him but just as a friend
waaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh i dont like to see his eyes looking at me
cause i feel strange.....so im avoiding him....my best friend ask me
"why do i keep avoiding him????" well i still havent told her that coz im afraid
(yes i know im a COWARD)
but i just cant get myself to say it to her....i dont have the courage
and besides i think i have to....


he suddenly talked to me and said " I DONT HAVE A CHANCE,DO I???"
then i lied about having a boyfriend lol and told him why me....my best friend likes you (I KNOW!!! ITS SOO WRONG TO SAY THAT)

then he said im already doing that.....wahhhhhhhhh what should i do....
will she hurt my friend or something???
should i tell my friend about this???
( stupid question i know i should but the problem is i dont have COURAGE)

and i hate to see him looking at me like that


i want our friendship to continue sailing but what should i do???

Posted 12/5/08

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Foxy_Angel wrote:

Can somebody plz help me

Ok Im going out with this guy right and he gave me a necklace but like to weeks later he says were going a little to fast.
So i send him a note that says "U said were going to fast " But im wondering was that like the right thing to do!!??


well i guess yes bec i think u dont like things like that and u should tell him that and he should have to wait for the time being^^ i mean if he really loves u he'll understand^^


Ok, we broke up but now i want to be close friends with him again cuz before we even went out we were really close friends. But now we like keep our distanst. And my friend has a myspace and she would send messages to him cuz' he has a myspace too.
But he wants to be friends again but he isnt acting like it so I have a plan. Before we get out of school for christmas break im going to send him a note saying stuff if u would like to be friends again. With this butterfly cuz he wanted me to draw it for him. But is that a good plan or not.

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angelandrodelon wrote:


Foxy_Angel wrote:

Can somebody plz help me

Ok Im going out with this guy right and he gave me a necklace but like to weeks later he says were going a little to fast.
So i send him a note that says "U said were going to fast " But im wondering was that like the right thing to do!!??


well i guess yes bec i think u dont like things like that and u should tell him that and he should have to wait for the time being^^ i mean if he really loves u he'll understand^^


Ok, we broke up but now i want to be close friends with him again cuz before we even went out we were really close friends. But now we like keep our distanst. And my friend has a myspace and she would send messages to him cuz' he has a myspace too.
But he wants to be friends again but he isnt acting like it so I have a plan. Before we get out of school for christmas break im going to send him a note saying stuff if u would like to be friends again. With this butterfly cuz he wanted me to draw it for him. But is that a good plan or not.



well i think its a good plan^^ oh btw why did u too broke up??

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Okay, I'm not really good at telling things about my life, but here it goes...

There's this guys I've known since 1st grade, R. And I have this friend that is a guy and I've known since 3rd, J. He's a really good friend that I guess.. cares about me a lot. I started liking R in second, and still sorta do. In 4th grade, J told me he likes me. (J and R were best friends from Kindergarden til 3rd 'cuz in 4th, they got split into different classes.) Since I was kinda young back then, I didn't really care whether he liked me or not. Last year, rumors went around that J still liked me, and he told me that himself. This year, I asked J if he still likes me, and answered, "No, I like Kayla(who is a close friend of mine)." I don't know if I should believe him or not, 'cuz in the summer, J told me he liked Jasmine, but told me he was joking. A few months ago, J asked me who I like. I went all trustworthy on him and told him it was R. Like... 2 months later(which is 2 weeks before now), J asked me again if I was sure I like R. I said, "Yeah." And he said, "No offense, but R is kinda weird. Don't you think?" I didn't know how to respond, so I agreed with him. "Hm.. yea. I guess your right. I was just lying about that. I don't like him." And now, whenever I ask J who he likes, it's now changed to: "Nobody." Should I believe him that he liked Kayla before? What if he still likes me? He's been nicer to me all of a sudden. And the big part is... I'm starting to believe J that... R is "weird"(from what I've seen him do). I don't know what I should do.
I need help girls!! Any advice is welcome!

P.S. And now, J and I are really close friends.
He gets sorta hyper whenever I say hi to him. And he tells people I'm his sister, and I'm okay with it. Some times, if I've met a new friend and they know J, you might catch me tricking them into thinking he's actually my big brother. (Also, we look a like 'cuz we're both the same ethnicity.)


well do u still like r?? or u've already liked j??
well i think he still likes u and i think that he's just hiding it bec u've already told him that u like r he's just being considerate to u cus he likes u thats only my opinion ^^ but then if u really want to know ask him tell him to answer sincerely and be honest but i guess thats hard
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SaKuRa-No-DoNo wrote:

here's my story...^__^
my bestfriend like this guy....
and as a friend i supported her....
i hate it when a guy dont get what girls mean.....
my friend and i did everything for him to know that my best friend exist...
he is so friendly and he talks to me and...when he needs help i help him
so i decided to let my friend help him so that they would know
each other better...i mean you know BONDING lol...
the next day i ask my bestfriend what happened and she said "nothing"
i was kinda excited because i thought that theyre friendship at least upgraded a little
i always told my friend that his crush is soooo dense
he didnt even know that you like him....after all you did he still treat you as a friend and not more than that
when the time comes that i was really pissed i told the guy that i wanna talk to him..... i said "YOU'RE SOO DENSE"
i know he was a little confuse that time...
" DONT YOU KNOW THAT MY BESTFRIEND LIKES YOU????!!!" ' i continued...
he was shocked it was all written in his face that he didnt know anything about it...
then he suddenly told me " BUT I LIKE YOU SINCE WE WERE FRESHMEN"

i thought that time that this boy was the dense one but i realized
that i was more dense than this stupid guy...


then the next morning when i met him at school
he didnt smile at me like he used to do everytime we meet
and then he suddenly talks to my friend like they were so close..
i was happy for her....(no really....im honest lol)
but the problem is ... when he
looks at me theres a voice in
my mind saying "dont look at me like that"
cause he used to greet me everyday and smile at me and talks to me....
and i really like him but just as a friend
waaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh i dont like to see his eyes looking at me
cause i feel strange.....so im avoiding him....my best friend ask me
"why do i keep avoiding him????" well i still havent told her that coz im afraid
(yes i know im a COWARD)
but i just cant get myself to say it to her....i dont have the courage
and besides i think i have to....


he suddenly talked to me and said " I DONT HAVE A CHANCE,DO I???"
then i lied about having a boyfriend lol and told him why me....my best friend likes you (I KNOW!!! ITS SOO WRONG TO SAY THAT)

then he said im already doing that.....wahhhhhhhhh what should i do....
will she hurt my friend or something???
should i tell my friend about this???
( stupid question i know i should but the problem is i dont have COURAGE)

and i hate to see him looking at me like that


i want our friendship to continue sailing but what should i do???



well i think u like him its just that u dont realize it cus u've been helping ur bestfriend and didnt notice that u've already like him (just my opinion)well do ur friend and that guy seems that they're going out??and observe first about that boy then u'll know if he's going to hurt her or not >.<

Posted 12/6/08

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Okay, I'm not really good at telling things about my life, but here it goes...

There's this guys I've known since 1st grade, R. And I have this friend that is a guy and I've known since 3rd, J. He's a really good friend that I guess.. cares about me a lot. I started liking R in second, and still sorta do. In 4th grade, J told me he likes me. (J and R were best friends from Kindergarden til 3rd 'cuz in 4th, they got split into different classes.) Since I was kinda young back then, I didn't really care whether he liked me or not. Last year, rumors went around that J still liked me, and he told me that himself. This year, I asked J if he still likes me, and answered, "No, I like Kayla(who is a close friend of mine)." I don't know if I should believe him or not, 'cuz in the summer, J told me he liked Jasmine, but told me he was joking. A few months ago, J asked me who I like. I went all trustworthy on him and told him it was R. Like... 2 months later(which is 2 weeks before now), J asked me again if I was sure I like R. I said, "Yeah." And he said, "No offense, but R is kinda weird. Don't you think?" I didn't know how to respond, so I agreed with him. "Hm.. yea. I guess your right. I was just lying about that. I don't like him." And now, whenever I ask J who he likes, it's now changed to: "Nobody." Should I believe him that he liked Kayla before? What if he still likes me? He's been nicer to me all of a sudden. And the big part is... I'm starting to believe J that... R is "weird"(from what I've seen him do). I don't know what I should do.
I need help girls!! Any advice is welcome!

P.S. And now, J and I are really close friends.
He gets sorta hyper whenever I say hi to him. And he tells people I'm his sister, and I'm okay with it. Some times, if I've met a new friend and they know J, you might catch me tricking them into thinking he's actually my big brother. (Also, we look a like 'cuz we're both the same ethnicity.)


well you should talk to him sit down and say i dont know if you still like me or not but i like your friend and if you like jazmine i can talk to if you wont and see what he will say and if he gets a little mad say before you get real mad i only told you this because you are my best friend and i dont wont our friend ship to end so think about it (only when he gets mad) you can walk away or stay thier

Posted 12/6/08

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i really need some help here! i'm going out with my bf(who i love very much!) and everythings well and all that jazz, but since he grauduated last year it's been hard to see each other. now, there's a guy idk and i had a dream that he kissed me and i'm really confused!!!
the thing that matters is that you get to see him but what i really need to tell you if you kiss a guy and you felt something inside you love him if you dont then you think you do but you dont

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animefan_07 wrote:

Okay, I'm not really good at telling things about my life, but here it goes...

There's this guys I've known since 1st grade, R. And I have this friend that is a guy and I've known since 3rd, J. He's a really good friend that I guess.. cares about me a lot. I started liking R in second, and still sorta do. In 4th grade, J told me he likes me. (J and R were best friends from Kindergarden til 3rd 'cuz in 4th, they got split into different classes.) Since I was kinda young back then, I didn't really care whether he liked me or not. Last year, rumors went around that J still liked me, and he told me that himself. This year, I asked J if he still likes me, and answered, "No, I like Kayla(who is a close friend of mine)." I don't know if I should believe him or not, 'cuz in the summer, J told me he liked Jasmine, but told me he was joking. A few months ago, J asked me who I like. I went all trustworthy on him and told him it was R. Like... 2 months later(which is 2 weeks before now), J asked me again if I was sure I like R. I said, "Yeah." And he said, "No offense, but R is kinda weird. Don't you think?" I didn't know how to respond, so I agreed with him. "Hm.. yea. I guess your right. I was just lying about that. I don't like him." And now, whenever I ask J who he likes, it's now changed to: "Nobody." Should I believe him that he liked Kayla before? What if he still likes me? He's been nicer to me all of a sudden. And the big part is... I'm starting to believe J that... R is "weird"(from what I've seen him do). I don't know what I should do.
I need help girls!! Any advice is welcome!

P.S. And now, J and I are really close friends.
He gets sorta hyper whenever I say hi to him. And he tells people I'm his sister, and I'm okay with it. Some times, if I've met a new friend and they know J, you might catch me tricking them into thinking he's actually my big brother. (Also, we look a like 'cuz we're both the same ethnicity.)


well do u still like r?? or u've already liked j??
well i think he still likes u and i think that he's just hiding it bec u've already told him that u like r he's just being considerate to u cus he likes u thats only my opinion ^^ but then if u really want to know ask him tell him to answer sincerely and be honest but i guess thats hard


I guess... I sorta like J now.
That is going to be hard... but I'll try that. Thanks
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animefan_07 wrote:

Okay, I'm not really good at telling things about my life, but here it goes...

There's this guys I've known since 1st grade, R. And I have this friend that is a guy and I've known since 3rd, J. He's a really good friend that I guess.. cares about me a lot. I started liking R in second, and still sorta do. In 4th grade, J told me he likes me. (J and R were best friends from Kindergarden til 3rd 'cuz in 4th, they got split into different classes.) Since I was kinda young back then, I didn't really care whether he liked me or not. Last year, rumors went around that J still liked me, and he told me that himself. This year, I asked J if he still likes me, and answered, "No, I like Kayla(who is a close friend of mine)." I don't know if I should believe him or not, 'cuz in the summer, J told me he liked Jasmine, but told me he was joking. A few months ago, J asked me who I like. I went all trustworthy on him and told him it was R. Like... 2 months later(which is 2 weeks before now), J asked me again if I was sure I like R. I said, "Yeah." And he said, "No offense, but R is kinda weird. Don't you think?" I didn't know how to respond, so I agreed with him. "Hm.. yea. I guess your right. I was just lying about that. I don't like him." And now, whenever I ask J who he likes, it's now changed to: "Nobody." Should I believe him that he liked Kayla before? What if he still likes me? He's been nicer to me all of a sudden. And the big part is... I'm starting to believe J that... R is "weird"(from what I've seen him do). I don't know what I should do.
I need help girls!! Any advice is welcome!

P.S. And now, J and I are really close friends.
He gets sorta hyper whenever I say hi to him. And he tells people I'm his sister, and I'm okay with it. Some times, if I've met a new friend and they know J, you might catch me tricking them into thinking he's actually my big brother. (Also, we look a like 'cuz we're both the same ethnicity.)


well you should talk to him sit down and say i dont know if you still like me or not but i like your friend and if you like jazmine i can talk to if you wont and see what he will say and if he gets a little mad say before you get real mad i only told you this because you are my best friend and i dont wont our friend ship to end so think about it (only when he gets mad) you can walk away or stay thier



that sounds good too.
Thanks for the advice
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YumeHamanaka wrote:

i really need some help here! i'm going out with my bf(who i love very much!) and everythings well and all that jazz, but since he grauduated last year it's been hard to see each other. now, there's a guy idk and i had a dream that he kissed me and i'm really confused!!!
the thing that matters is that you get to see him but what i really need to tell you if you kiss a guy and you felt something inside you love him if you dont then you think you do but you dont



the thing thats kind of confuseing is that (i forgot to put this in there) i was kissing my bf at the beggining of the dream and at the end the other kissed me on the bus. his kiss felt real compared to joshs and idk why T_T

Posted 12/6/08

YumeHamanaka wrote:


101babynana wrote:


YumeHamanaka wrote:

i really need some help here! i'm going out with my bf(who i love very much!) and everythings well and all that jazz, but since he grauduated last year it's been hard to see each other. now, there's a guy idk and i had a dream that he kissed me and i'm really confused!!!
the thing that matters is that you get to see him but what i really need to tell you if you kiss a guy and you felt something inside you love him if you dont then you think you do but you dont



the thing thats kind of confuseing is that (i forgot to put this in there) i was kissing my bf at the beggining of the dream and at the end the other kissed me on the bus. his kiss felt real compared to joshs and idk why T_T

wait do you also love that other boy

Posted 12/6/08
hers my story


some people say if your best friend loves you and you love him dont tell each other or your friend ship will end
well is true this is what happen

my friends ask if i like taj and i said yes so they asked me to follow them

i did and we went where taj and his friends where sitting after lunch he said he had some thing to tell me and he said he loved me and i said i do toothis was on a friday
on monday we didnt talk to each other its seems like we dont even know each other we dont even look at each other when i have to walk with him his bro and my bro we ack like we are not walking together i ethir walk with my friend or just walk by my slef
whats wrong i dont get it
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