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Posted 12/4/07 , edited 12/4/07
to me loneliness has a definition but for another person it may have another meaning
that's what i'm trying to find out by giving you what i think about the word loneliness

1) an unpleasant, painful, anxious yearning for another person
2) a feeling that no one wants you and frustrating because you don't know why
3) wanting a friend without even knowing who is that friend
4) Being with others, but being alone.....
5) The yearning to be loved. Protected. Held. Soothed to sleep. The cutting absence of comfort.
6) Loneliness is knowing where you are physically, but emotionally, you feel very far away.

finally , sometimes i considerate my loneliness as a living death

so what are your definitions ?? if you don't have one you can chose from mines !



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Posted 12/4/07
loneliness can range from having no friends to having many but feeling alone. fear can make you feel alone, lack of understanding of others or others understanding you can make you feel lonely. loneliness to me is a feeling of peace, having to bend for others to like me is not what i want, i'd rather be alone than be in the company of enemies. it's safety at the cost of allys, i am alone because although i have friends i'd only consider them as aquaintances at best. not much more to life than people you would kill for, people you woundn't care if they were killed and people you would kill. (at extremes)
Posted 12/4/07

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loneliness can range from having no friends to having many but feeling alone. fear can make you feel alone, lack of understanding of others or others understanding you can make you feel lonely. loneliness to me is a feeling of peace, having to bend for others to like me is not what i want, i'd rather be alone than be in the company of enemies. it's safety at the cost of allys, i am alone because although i have friends i'd only consider them as aquaintances at best. not much more to life than people you would kill for, people you woundn't care if they were killed and people you would kill. (at extremes)


yeah that's also true , but you said " i'd rather be alone than be in the company of enemies" to me i prefere being alone even if the people around me were my family or people that i'm sure they do love me

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even though I have loving family and some "best" friends I feel lonely.
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mona0211 wrote:

even though I have loving family and some "best" friends I feel lonely.


yeah i do feel lonely too but the problem is why
aren't we satisfited ? or maybe cuz we are waiting for someone special
who know ....

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not exactly but you know someone who can really understand me, somehow I feel I can tell what I'm feeling to a stranger rather than a family member or a friend.
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strangers, it's easy to say things to them espicially on the internet because there is a lack of judgement and persecution+ it's easier to run away from your problems here. you can make superficial friendhips here and feel you can tell them anything, and they could pretend to care. with my family i feel i have to stay strong and shut up and not tell them my problems because they may act differently around me, not see me as the same person...
Posted 12/10/07

mona0211 wrote:

not exactly but you know someone who can really understand me, somehow I feel I can tell what I'm feeling to a stranger rather than a family member or a friend.


yeah it's true in someways

Posted 12/10/07

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strangers, it's easy to say things to them espicially on the internet because there is a lack of judgement and persecution+ it's easier to run away from your problems here. you can make superficial friendhips here and feel you can tell them anything, and they could pretend to care. with my family i feel i have to stay strong and shut up and not tell them my problems because they may act differently around me, not see me as the same person...


that's right when i talked to my mother about something in my personnality
she acted like hat i'm telling her is some bullshit i was really angry cuz it hurts
when no body try to understand you
that's why i said to myself to never share my problem ith anybody
expect if he/she was like me

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Posted 12/11/07
though u have a lot of friends and family who cares for you at time it feels as if u r alone and it hurts real bad
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what kind of pain do you get kalyanam? the kind that you can't quite but your finger on or something else?
Posted 12/11/07

kalyanam wrote:

though u have a lot of friends and family who cares for you at time it feels as if u r alone and it hurts real bad


yeah but it depend how do you get hurt ....
because not all people get hurt the same way
Posted 12/11/07
when i got hurt at the begining it seems like anger
but after that i feel like if i want to scream or hurting someone
after i calm down i realise that it was my pain
and i really want other to feel it cuz sometimes is just too much to bear
i know other people their shest hurts or they feel like crying
but this is not how pain seems to me
cuz when you cry you really help yourself and feel a bit relaxed and calm
so to me the pain is when you can't show your tears
Posted 12/13/07

Evardemon wrote:

My loneless is mostly about not trusting people as much as I should. I been betrayed by love ones and friends so I don't trust people as much. I always feel alone and unwanted. Do you guys feel the same? Or am I just bring an baby?


i know what you mean
and i'll say no you're not the only one who feels this way
i don't trust people too i even hate them


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