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Posted 10/24/08
Well ive been great friends with this girl I know and I love being around her and she is heaps of fun but only as a friend. I have a girlfriend who i really do truely love more than anything but now, one of my closest friends seems to be wanting more from me and getting a lot closer to me as usual. Telling me she really misses me and if there is one person she would have to be with for the rest of her life it would be me, now im hoping that she just means this in a friendly way because I lover her but like as a sister more than as a girlfriend and dont want really want anything more. The thing that worries me the most is that leavers is coming up, i donno if thats a world wide thing or just austrailian wouldnt have a clue but it celebrates graduation from high school and we all graduates go away somewhere for a week and ill be going with her and staying in the same tent as her which im hoping (because ill be drunk most liekly) nothing happens because i am easily influenced while im drunk its a sad fact but i dont want anything to happen because i love my girlf so much and love this other girl aswell but as a sister not as someone id want to do something else with.

Sorry for the long read xD

To the girls do you think she is starting to feel more for me or just becoming closer as a friend?

and to the guyys have u ever had anything like this happen to you?

P.S
Im actually quite proud of the way i typed the above because ive had quite a bit to drink ;D
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Posted 10/24/08
a little confusing.....but i think i understand...it never happen to me~
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76 / M / UK
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Posted 10/24/08
have both of them and dnt let ur gf know!
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25 / M / Australia
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Posted 10/24/08
hahaha I cant! Its the only thing i have a conscience about!
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Posted 10/24/08
Haha so even now you're drunk! Boy you have a drinking problem! Lol just kidding. Back on topic, yeah I think that your friend thinks of you more than a friend, or else why would she tell you such a thing (about being with you for the rest of her life and stuff). Maybe you should talk to her directly, to make things clear. For the event that's coming up, can't you change tent? o.O If it worries you that much, stay away from her lol, during the night. Anyway, be careful and prevent things before it's too late. Lol haha, and your girlfriend is one lucky lady ^__^, you care so much about her!
Posted 10/24/08
This Is Why You Should'nt Get Close To The Opposite Sex.
Lol.
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Posted 10/24/08
Your going camping? Sweet..
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Posted 10/24/08
yeah, she diffenetly has a thing for you. she would not have expressed those deep thoughts if not. even if she is just joking try to clear it out in a "not so obvious" way. girls have emotions and weird ways of expressing them so if you really love your girlfriend don't let her think your friend that happens to be a girl get in the way
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Posted 10/24/08
sorry to say but no personal threads. On a side note just deal with is straight out and tell her how you feel.
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Posted 10/24/08 , edited 10/24/08
First of all you're an idiot for even going into that tent and drinking if you know something will happen when you're drunk and know you might pull a move. Control yourself!
If you do anything in that tent, your girlfriend will most likely not forgive you.
Also if you ever use the excuse "but I was drunk! I didn't mean it! We're only friends. I'm not interested in her in that way" I hope you get ran over by a car.
You don't even deserve your girlfriend if you know that outcome and are still willing to go through with it.

This is why I hate it when the guys I'm going out with, has close friends that are female. Even though sometimes they really are just friends and they might not be interested, there's still that little suspicion.


Also like Jesterj said. No personal threads. Ask away here:

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Posted 10/24/08
Flip a coin, heads say you stick with your girlfriend, tails say you dump her and go for the 'sister'
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24 / F / Southern California
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Posted 10/24/08
Hm, I feel bad for the girl but if you already have a girlfriend, you really need to confront her and ask her how much does she like you. Forget being shy or whatever. Just tell her you love her. As a friend. Nothing more just say it randomly one day. The last thing you want to do is lead her on.
Posted 10/24/08

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dude, if you are easily influenced by something when drunk, then DON'T sleep in the same tent as her. rather bring your own gf with....because, i am sure that she is going to attempt something, when you are all alone, drunk, and your gf is faaar away o_o

secondly, tell her straight out, that you don't like how she's getting too suck up-erish with you. make it clear to her, say something, haha, you are like a little sister i never had..or always wanted to have.. emphasize the "sister" part...
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Posted 10/24/08 , edited 10/24/08

NaruHina2210 wrote:

This Is Why You Should'nt Get Close To The Opposite Sex.
Lol.


Exactly, I wouldn't want my boyfriend to spend all his time with one girl, regardless of the "Just friends" deal. You don't want him to be stuck in that position. Either he might end up falling for her or she might end up falling for him. But if you truly love someone, you would want to consume your time with just them.

Not any other woman. And don't share a tent. That's not a good idea. And if you have no choice have every man possible in between. If you are going to jeopardize loosing your relationship with your girlfriend because of being drunk then you don't deserve her.
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76 / M / california
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Posted 10/24/08
woah that leaver thing sounds like fun we dont do that in cali

well ne way at least you have a back up jus in case ur gf breaks up or if shes really butt ugly then hook her up with one of ur friends
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