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Posted 11/3/08

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Here's my problem:





NOTE I want solutions! Help me!

if its okay to ask ...why would your crushs best bud be against your relationship? uhmmm...it would only mean that he(your crush) doesnt have a say on things like that and minds other people.


hes best bud thinks that he (my crush) deserves someone better!


How would he know that? I mean he does not have the right to judge you because he doesn't know you that well... or does he?
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anim3_adik wrote:


midori_101 wrote:


anim3_adik wrote:

Here's my problem:





NOTE I want solutions! Help me!

if its okay to ask ...why would your crushs best bud be against your relationship? uhmmm...it would only mean that he(your crush) doesnt have a say on things like that and minds other people.


hes best bud thinks that he (my crush) deserves someone better!


How would he know that? I mean he does not have the right to judge you because he doesn't know you that well... or does he?


I know him and he knows me! well that's just what he thinks of me!
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hmm... I still think he does not have the right to judge people based on just what he knows...
but then, your crush should not be influenced easily by others... if he really has feelings for you, he can at least fight for you.
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hmm... I still think he does not have the right to judge people based on just what he knows...
but then, your crush should not be influenced easily by others... if he really has feelings for you, he can at least fight for you.


yeah i totally agree... so...if you want to forget about your crush...divert your attention on things that would make you feel good instead of carrying that pain in you.i know its not gonna be easy to do things like that but if you try and take it slowly,then you might see some progress.
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Anyway, if you are for each other then you'll meet again... no one knows what will happen in the future...
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angelofthedarkness23 wrote:

hmm... I still think he does not have the right to judge people based on just what he knows...
but then, your crush should not be influenced easily by others... if he really has feelings for you, he can at least fight for you.


yeah i totally agree... so...if you want to forget about your crush...divert your attention on things that would make you feel good instead of carrying that pain in you.i know its not gonna be easy to do things like that but if you try and take it slowly,then you might see some progress.





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Anyway, if you are for each other then you'll meet again... no one knows what will happen in the future...


I already tried it but no matter what i try our paths will eventually cross!
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Posted 11/4/08

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kurukeground wrote:


angelofthedarkness23 wrote:

hmm... I still think he does not have the right to judge people based on just what he knows...
but then, your crush should not be influenced easily by others... if he really has feelings for you, he can at least fight for you.


yeah i totally agree... so...if you want to forget about your crush...divert your attention on things that would make you feel good instead of carrying that pain in you.i know its not gonna be easy to do things like that but if you try and take it slowly,then you might see some progress.





angelofthedarkness23 wrote:

Anyway, if you are for each other then you'll meet again... no one knows what will happen in the future...


I already tried it but no matter what i try our paths will eventually cross!



It's really hard if the person you are trying to avoid is just around you... I've been there so I know... if you can't totally avoid then at least try to lessen the chances of meeting each other...
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the thing is, you cant really erase your memory about that person so easily.(especially when you have feelings for that guy)even me. it took me 7 years.(but still couldnt forget) so...ive learned to accept that no matter what i do, hell be a part of my good and bad memory. dont worry...you'll get by it...but probably not in days or weeks though:blush:
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Posted 11/5/08

anim3_adik wrote:


kurukeground wrote:


angelofthedarkness23 wrote:

hmm... I still think he does not have the right to judge people based on just what he knows...
but then, your crush should not be influenced easily by others... if he really has feelings for you, he can at least fight for you.


yeah i totally agree... so...if you want to forget about your crush...divert your attention on things that would make you feel good instead of carrying that pain in you.i know its not gonna be easy to do things like that but if you try and take it slowly,then you might see some progress.





angelofthedarkness23 wrote:

Anyway, if you are for each other then you'll meet again... no one knows what will happen in the future...


I already tried it but no matter what i try our paths will eventually cross!


i agree with kuru....sometimes...we need to do forget things that we don't want to forget...a wound can heal but it takes a long time to do it....don't scratch it or else it'll bleed again.....meaning.....don't refresh the memories that leaves you a pain...besides...more guys are out there....i know someone...will come to made you forget about that guy...
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in secret, he's acutally cheating on her.. how could i support them?!?!



well, you should tell her about joe on how you know him! she will think bad about you but she will understand sooner or later! tell her about how you know joe and maybe she will listen!

i tried that, but when i told her, she said. 'liar, lie to me again i'll never talk to you..' on msn -.-


really some people are blinded in love....
my advice is that you should stand for what is true....i know that she'll probably not talk to you....it'll hurt...but then...after such a time......when he'll hurt her....she'll came to realize that you are right....
some people need to learn from their mistakes....just be right there for her when that happens...

hope this helps
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really some people are blinded in love....
my advice is that you should stand for what is true....i know that she'll probably not talk to you....it'll hurt...but then...after such a time......when he'll hurt her....she'll came to realize that you are right....
some people need to learn from their mistakes....just be right there for her when that happens...

hope this helps

THANKS FOR THE ADVICE BUT....

ugh... this problem evolves by time, on the first day of school, joe dumped emily -.-... and since me and joe had been going out before, she thinks that joe had dumped her for me, which he really has, but i dont tell anyone. but then 2 days after, i asked him the question 'did you really dump emily for me?' he replied with a 'yeh, used to.' after that. there were rumours that me and joe were going out again, emily actually believed it and then started saying that me and joe were going out, but were not

how can i prove to her that were not?
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I think this time, you shouldn't bother about proving anything. Emily right now is hurting and she may be trying to look for someone to take her anger for her... well, if it bothers you, you can try talking to her and just tell her that it isn't true though I think her mind might be closed right now so she won't believe anything you say.

It would be enough proof if you stop hanging around Joe for a while. It would clear the rumors that the two of you are going out, Emily will see the truth behind that and you'll start to forget the feelings you had for Joe. So, that's killing three birds with one stone!

You and Emily are best buds which means that whatever happens you are in each others heart... that won't change just because of one guy... just let her have some time for herself but just make sure to let her know that she is your friend and you are there for her if she needs you.
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really some people are blinded in love....
my advice is that you should stand for what is true....i know that she'll probably not talk to you....it'll hurt...but then...after such a time......when he'll hurt her....she'll came to realize that you are right....
some people need to learn from their mistakes....just be right there for her when that happens...

hope this helps

THANKS FOR THE ADVICE BUT....

ugh... this problem evolves by time, on the first day of school, joe dumped emily -.-... and since me and joe had been going out before, she thinks that joe had dumped her for me, which he really has, but i dont tell anyone. but then 2 days after, i asked him the question 'did you really dump emily for me?' he replied with a 'yeh, used to.' after that. there were rumours that me and joe were going out again, emily actually believed it and then started saying that me and joe were going out, but were not

how can i prove to her that were not?


i agree with angel.....you don't have to prove something.....probably emily won't listen to a word you are saying.....if you feel that you like explaining it to her....follow your heart...at least you explained to her that it's not true...if she doesn't listen to you...it's not your problem but hers....one day....she'll realize her mistakes of not believing you....
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Posted 11/8/08

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really some people are blinded in love....
my advice is that you should stand for what is true....i know that she'll probably not talk to you....it'll hurt...but then...after such a time......when he'll hurt her....she'll came to realize that you are right....
some people need to learn from their mistakes....just be right there for her when that happens...

hope this helps

THANKS FOR THE ADVICE BUT....

ugh... this problem evolves by time, on the first day of school, joe dumped emily -.-... and since me and joe had been going out before, she thinks that joe had dumped her for me, which he really has, but i dont tell anyone. but then 2 days after, i asked him the question 'did you really dump emily for me?' he replied with a 'yeh, used to.' after that. there were rumours that me and joe were going out again, emily actually believed it and then started saying that me and joe were going out, but were not

how can i prove to her that were not?

maybe she's just confused and hurt!, don't talk to joe and let emily see that the rumors are wrong! or do you still have feelings for joe?!
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Posted 11/8/08

anim3_adik wrote:


LunarSouls wrote:




really some people are blinded in love....
my advice is that you should stand for what is true....i know that she'll probably not talk to you....it'll hurt...but then...after such a time......when he'll hurt her....she'll came to realize that you are right....
some people need to learn from their mistakes....just be right there for her when that happens...

hope this helps


THANKS FOR THE ADVICE BUT....

ugh... this problem evolves by time, on the first day of school, joe dumped emily -.-... and since me and joe had been going out before, she thinks that joe had dumped her for me, which he really has, but i dont tell anyone. but then 2 days after, i asked him the question 'did you really dump emily for me?' he replied with a 'yeh, used to.' after that. there were rumours that me and joe were going out again, emily actually believed it and then started saying that me and joe were going out, but were not

how can i prove to her that were not?

maybe she's just confused and hurt!, don't talk to joe and let emily see that the rumors are wrong! or do you still have feelings for joe?!

i dont have any anymore, but thanks for all the advice, im realllli happy, hahah!, i can finish the rest on my own, best regards, lunar
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