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Will a guy dump you if you don't "put out"
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Posted 10/27/08
Well, after a certain amount of time its ridiculous. If I dated a girl for a month or two and we still haven't gone at it like mad rabbits, I'd feel that the relationship isn't making much progress and I'd end it.
Posted 10/27/08
^ About time someone told the truth.
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Posted 10/27/08
Stop being such a prude. It's just sex, and it's fun.
Posted 10/27/08
Depends how long i have to wait for it.
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Posted 10/27/08
He's going to dump you after he gets the vagina anyway....
Posted 10/27/08
Depends on the guy.
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Posted 10/27/08
yes
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Posted 10/27/08
If a guy dumps you for not wanting to 'put out' then he's obviously not worth your time, you should be the one dumping HIM.
Posted 10/27/08

BankaiMalaria wrote:

Well, after a certain amount of time its ridiculous. If I dated a girl for a month or two and we still haven't gone at it like mad rabbits, I'd feel that the relationship isn't making much progress and I'd end it.






You do have to realize most girls are completly different than guys dude.
Especially when its a younger girl with an older guy. (Which is usually the case.)
While most girls are eager to have sex to please the guy, some girls are afraid to. Be it they're afraid of physical pain, or trust issues. And it generally takes much longer time for girls to trust guys than the other way around.
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Posted 10/27/08
Obviously.
Why have a girlfriend who doesn't do anything.
Posted 10/27/08

BankaiMalaria wrote:

Well, after a certain amount of time its ridiculous. If I dated a girl for a month or two and we still haven't gone at it like mad rabbits, I'd feel that the relationship isn't making much progress and I'd end it.


Sex is overrated. Maybe if you were cuter, the girlies would be all up on your nuts around first or second date. -shrug-

It also depends on what kind of "relationship". Some relationships are well established, for lack of a better term, booty calls. So, if you have a sex buddy and they aren't playing their part -- get rid of them. DUH.

However, if it's an exclusive relationship (bf/gf) then personally, sex doesn't mean the world. However, if you've gone half a year without doing the dirty or anything sexually intimate, why tie your bonds with that person when obviously, the both of you are nothing more than just good friends?
Posted 10/27/08

Anime_rocks_95 wrote:

Seriously I wanna know because a lot of people I know have gotten dumped b/c of this, guys can u answer honestly? And girls share ur experiences





Also, if this is a double sry


Seriously, I never have that problem from my current girlfriend. I take great care of her so she's always in the mood for something. I had some bad breakups before, but it was never for that reason.


Hana-Lala-Chan wrote:

The only guys who will do that are the ones who date you for your body, so I'd dump THEM.



upshegoes29 wrote:

I've met a couple of guys who have told me straight up they want sex or the relationship won't work. I understand that people like sex, and guys especially...if there's an attraction and both parties are willing I don't see the problem, but I think there should be more to a relationship than just sex. And I'm talkin' a meaninful one, not one of those "friends with benefits" setups. I've never been dumped because of the whole "putting out" situation though.


Exactly, talk things out between to two of you and find out just exactly what both of you are in the relationship for, before meeting up only halfway and both feeling rejected.
Posted 10/27/08

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You do have to realize most girls are completly different than guys dude.
Especially when its a younger girl with an older guy. (Which is usually the case.)
While most girls are eager to have sex to please the guy, some girls are afraid to. Be it they're afraid of physical pain, or trust issues. And it generally takes much longer time for girls to trust guys than the other way around.


I'm the older guy in the relationship with my girlfriend, I was 27 while she was 21 when we first started dating. And to make things even more complicated, I was the experienced one while she's just started this whole dating circle.

It sure wasn't easy, for communications were often long and tedious. But I enjoy every single moment of it, because it really helped us getting to know each other better. It took us four months before we're both committed, howbeit I was more than will to do so than she was, but we sure were glad we took our time back then.
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Posted 10/27/08
If guys expect it so much then wouldn't it be a pointless relationship? Might as well find someone else who WILL put out for your own pleasure then. If you do, then you'd just be using them for your own benefit. So it is better to respect the girl's decision and be patient if you are really serious, that's what good boyfriends are anyways right?

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Posted 10/31/08
Well that depends on if he's a complete dick only interested in you for sex, or not.
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