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Will a guy dump you if you don't "put out"
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Posted 10/31/08
Typically, if a guy dumps you for that, he doesn't really care about you.

However, I will draw the line.

If it's been like, a year, and nothing remotely sexual has occurred, I can sympathize with a guy getting totally frustrated.
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It doesn't have to be sex but if one of the partner never puts out for anything or tries in the relationship, then you know something is wrong, should be about of a little bit of give and take, that's what I believe. If they can do lots of things for you, then i think it's only fair that you put out a bit to show them that you care back. But if one of the partners don't put out in sex even the slightest bit, it will jsut cause the other to wander and lose mutual feelings, lack of satisfaction or frustration i suppose. After all sex gets you guys closer and more intimate. Unless it's jsut som A**HOLE using you then, not worth it.
Posted 10/31/08 , edited 10/31/08
Lol I hope not. I do things at my own pace. XD So I'm hoping the next guy won't be a jerk with very little patience.

So far..seems like a lot of guys have only chosen to focus on my body -_-
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I really think it depends on how old you are.

Like when I was 12 and had a boyfriend it wasn't expected of me to "put out".

When I was 16 it was different and I wanted to do it, so why not. But then I knew I wasn't going to be with the guy forever and I really didn't care that much. Not to say I didn't care about him, I just didn't think sex was that big of a deal as long as protection was used.

It's all about morals and how you feel about it. If you don't want to have sex before you get married, obviously you find someone that shares that opinion. If you don't mind, then wait until you're comfortable.

Although let me tell you from experience: the first time you have sex with a new boyfriend or girlfriend it will typically be awkward. Don't be fooled by movies or shows. Some things take time.
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you dont need that crap just to have a good relationship.. but it depends if you're dating a "S-M" or something..
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o i have my ways of getting a girl to open up
Posted 10/31/08
"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.
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Posted 10/31/08

SkyLightSun wrote:

"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.


dear friend you don't need to know.. hehe
Posted 10/31/08

mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:

"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.


dear friend you don't need to know.. hehe


Am I that young that I don't have to know "Put out"?
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Posted 10/31/08

SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:

"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.


dear friend you don't need to know.. hehe


Am I that young that I don't have to know "Put out"?


if you read other posts you'll know..
Posted 10/31/08

mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:

"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.


dear friend you don't need to know.. hehe


Am I that young that I don't have to know "Put out"?


if you read other posts you'll know..


But I'm too lazy to read.Mind sharing?
Posted 10/31/08

SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:

"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.


dear friend you don't need to know.. hehe


Am I that young that I don't have to know "Put out"?


if you read other posts you'll know..


But I'm too lazy to read.Mind sharing?

Sex.
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Posted 10/31/08
I won't. Dating is just a reservation. Since it is a reservation, she won't have to have sex with other guys. Let the girl develop more before having sex with her. The riper the better.
Posted 10/31/08

KinkyHamster wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:

"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.


dear friend you don't need to know.. hehe


Am I that young that I don't have to know "Put out"?


if you read other posts you'll know..


But I'm too lazy to read.Mind sharing?

Sex.


Ara,I still don't understand.
Will a guy dump you if you don't "sex" ?
Posted 10/31/08

SkyLightSun wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:


mmc06 wrote:


SkyLightSun wrote:

"Put out" ,huh?I wonder what ish that.


dear friend you don't need to know.. hehe


Am I that young that I don't have to know "Put out"?


if you read other posts you'll know..


But I'm too lazy to read.Mind sharing?

Sex.


Ara,I still don't understand.
Will a guy dump you if you don't "sex" ?

Nope.
Only if you don't suck dick.
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