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Will a guy dump you if you don't "put out"
Posted 10/31/08
I will dump a guy if he won't put out... so why would expect any different in return?

kidding kidding *grins*
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Posted 10/31/08
Guys will dump you if you don't put out if their original intent of dating you was to get into your pants. So it's very logical that the outcome would be this. It's a good thing you didn't put out against a horny brat like him.

And to be honest, you're 15 (I say this with no offense at all) and your boyfriend, I assume, would be around this age too. His hormones are going wild and he's horny as Paris Hilton.
Posted 10/31/08
It all depends how you carry yourself. If you show them how true and real you are, they will respect you. Hell I haven't put out to my 3 yr ex and we were ok. i haven't put out on any guy for that matter lol

keep it real. if they can't take it then they're not worth a fart
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Posted 10/31/08
Sex Is not everything!!!!!!!! A relationship consists of give and take, accept and decline..no sex doesn't mean the end. Sex isn't the top priority. People ought to be aware by now.
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Posted 10/31/08
I never had that experience since all of my ex's
respected the fact that i said no.
but when it does happen to me..
then they are not worth my time.
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Posted 11/1/08 , edited 11/1/08
sooner or later, yes

But here's another question:
Why NOT have sex? Sure sex isnt everything but its still an important thing in a serious relationship.
In order to keep a relationship passionate sex IS needed.

People act as if sex is something offending or something. Sex is an act of love (or friendship)
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Posted 11/1/08
If they are idiots..yes, yes they will. But you're better off without them anyway. They'll just end up with an std from the girl who's givin it up to anyone and everyone. You dont want to be one of those girls, they always end up effed up on meth or something because they cant handle the fact they're whores.
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Posted 11/1/08

upshegoes29 wrote:

I've met a couple of guys who have told me straight up they want sex or the relationship won't work. I understand that people like sex, and guys especially...if there's an attraction and both parties are willing I don't see the problem, but I think there should be more to a relationship than just sex. And I'm talkin' a meaninful one, not one of those "friends with benefits" setups. I've never been dumped because of the whole "putting out" situation though.


yeah thats true what you said but i hate its always one sided chicks are the same way i've met my few share of them trust me.

but back to this question honestly some guy's would brake up cause you aint givin it up
cause some just in it for the sex not for the relationship. i remember my ex thought i
was like that cause she said she wanted to save it and i completely understood
her reason i wasnt mad. and yeah i still broke up with but let me get this straight
it wasnt for that reason its cause she kept me a secret from her parents and she cheated
okay (just to make that clear)
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Posted 11/1/08

thenatureofthings wrote:

I will dump a guy if he won't put out... so why would expect any different in return?

kidding kidding *grins*


what are you talking about i put out all the time i feel used hahaha jp jp
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Posted 11/1/08
The majority in today's society, yes. That's why one of the reasons why high school girls around my location are getting pregnant. They're afraid of their boyfriends leaving them just 'cause they refuse to "put out." They shouldn't though. 'Cause if their boyfriends are the type of guys who are only after their virginity, they should be doing the dumping instead. Really, those types are not worth it; giving "it" to them would only result one of your biggest regrets in life. Unless, you have no idea that they've already manipulated you and you actually enjoyed it. Warning: Usually, once you've done it, they'd continuously ask for more.

It's a good thing you asked first, so that you can be aware.
Posted 11/1/08
The bad ones do, good guys like me will never do such a thing! ;O
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Posted 11/1/08
for me its a NO...i will not....

well you hear a guy's answer...
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Posted 11/1/08
not immediately, but after a long time.. maybe..
but srsly.. y not have sex.. a lot of girls actually gets addicted after the first time = =...
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Posted 11/1/08 , edited 11/1/08
Sex is part of a relationship i guess. x] but its not as important as chemistry..
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Posted 11/1/08

KinkyHamster wrote:

Hmmm....I'm looking pretty bad here.


Don't worry, they'll all see the light someday.

If the girl can cook and clean and doesn't mind me sleeping with other girls, then it's ok if she doesn't want to spread 'em. But she definitely isn't going to leave the house until she does.
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