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Gays & Bis: Acknowledging, then Accepting Yourself
Posted 1/7/09
I don't know if I'm straight , gay , or lesbian . I mean at my age and still didn't found love .(weirdly attracted to both boy and girl)
Posted 1/7/09
This is fairly acceptable. Yet, like what welook said, not the marriage idea.
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Posted 1/7/09
I'd be pretty upset if I was gay or bi. I'm Korean and that shit is taboo. Not that I find it wrong but the last thing a guy wants is more stress in his life.
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Posted 1/14/09

Kipikipo wrote:

This thread isn't about how you feel about gay people and whether or not you accept them! It's about how gays/bis have come to terms with themselves and how they think of themselves now.

Okay, so uhmm... just curious to compare my life story to other people's. When did you acknowledge the possibility that you might be gay/bi, and when did you accept it?

As for me personally, I've never actually had a sexual preference, as odd as that may sound. I was taught to look down on gays, but I eventually came around to opening my mind and realized that no matter who you are, you're still human. Earlier in life when I was close-minded I'd occasionally have a "gay thought", but I always ignored them and told myself they were just random thought bubbles that meant nothing. At one point I even prayed that these thought bubbles would never pop up again, and swore at myself for having them. About a year ago was when I became kinda liberal and accepting other people's beliefs and lifestyles, although I still kept my own sexuality somewhat of a secret. Up until a few months ago, I was convinced I was straight as an arrow, although there were many issues that I questioned. One of which was that I didn't find any man attractive, but neither did I feel that way to woman. Over the Summer, I became great friends with another guy that made me think about his lifestyle. I never questioned him, but I always question myself. I asked him what he thought of me and what kind of aura do I give off, and he simply said, "Don't worry, Kipi. I know you're straight". I kinda forgot about that for a while, and continued to live out my life. A few weeks later, I started questioning why I wasn't attracted to anyone, and asked for some advice from a group of furries. They told me that "the first ten years of your life is spent not caring, the next ten is spent experimenting and figuring it out, and the rest is spent knowing." I wasn't really satisfied with that response, but I kept living as I did, treating everyone I met exactly the same regardless of gender. At this point I acknowledged the possibility that I might be gay. A few days later, a guy named Shara started showering me with complements and I knew he liked me, but It didn't bother me at all; I didn't give a crap about his appearance or gender: I figured that I was attracted more to personality than anything else... That's when I accepted that I was bi. If someone told me that I was going to get into a homosexual relationship with someone a few weeks earlier, I would've thought that person was a moron and try to ignore them. I'm completely satisfied with myself. I haven't changed at all; the only thing that is different is my new relationship with my love, Shara.


aw, that's like the best story everrr
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Posted 1/14/09
ok...my story;
i knew i was gay when i was 14...but i didnt want to admit it :| i was already considered the school's nerd/freak, so i didnt want coming out to make it worse
i decided to tell my family first, 'cause i thought they'd love me no matter what...but my brother ended up beating the shit out of me for months and my mom didnt do anything about it, until i ran away...
eventually, i ended up with lesbian foster parents
at my new school, i was literally spit on and harassed :\
but i joined the gay-straight alliance club, and thats how i made my 1st group of friends in high school
aaand 3 years later, im the president
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Posted 1/14/09
lol



think straight men....hahaha lame...
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Posted 1/15/09
im a lesbian [:
my mum is very religous PLUS korean. which is a VERY BAD MIX :/
im 16, and its only been like less than 2 years since i was open to my friends that i was gay. They still accept me and love me the way i am. I do not like guys AT all but still note than one is hot and all but i have never had a crush on any.
girl love for me
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Posted 1/15/09
I'm not sure what I am...
Straight or bi.
I'm leaning towards straight because while I kinda like to kiss and hug all my friends, I think I just really like my friends.
I only go into my whole being in crush and love mode for guys.
But I like guys who are really feminine.
Which doesn't work because they usually don't like girls.
*sigh*
Maybe I should just switch over to girls. -_______-
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Posted 1/15/09
gays are scary no offense
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Posted 1/15/09
This thread is cool.
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Posted 1/16/09
well, i have always known myself. It's like ive been homo since birth.... i always knew that. i never got interested in girls. even my 1st love was a boy.. but i am discreet. it's like a conviction. I know I am gay but I don't have to announce to the whole world that I am right? i just keep my gender preference to myself but I am open enough to admit it when someone really asks what orientation i had.
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redirected thread

http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-741487/hi-there-what-is-your-sexuality
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Posted 11/23/11
I'm bi so I can't accept myself. LOL
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Posted 11/23/11
I support lgbt. My best friend, who's a lesbian, recently invited me to pride. I'm excited.
Posted 11/23/11
I've experimented, but I really don't have romantic feelings for other girls, and there was always a guy involved.

I was with a bi male couple once, and that was an absolutely amazing experience. :3
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