Is this forbidden love?
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I'm a senior in high school---and I am in love with a freshman girl. We're 4 years apart---I am 18, she is 14. I really like this girl. She is smart, talented, a great artist, sweet, caring, and did I mention a great artist? The majority of the guys in my school wouldn't even look at her, because they wouldn't find her "hot" enough, but to me, that doesn't matter. I know it's illegal for an 18-year-old to date a 14-year-old, but isn't it okay to be together? Or is a relationship only about sex? I wouldn't dare look at her in a sexual/inappropriate way. I just want to be with her....

The senior girls don't really steal my attention. I mean, they're good-looking, but the majority don't really have anything going on upstairs. Unlike my...err... the freshman girl that I really like. She is so open and friendly.

Am I crazy? Tell me what you think. Go for her? Forget about her? I won't be in high school anymore next year, should I take this as an excuse to not go after her, so that I can avoid the pain of breaking up?

Please, help.
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It's cool.. I dated my wife when I was 21 and she was 16... 25yr old now vs 19yr old wife.. it's still jail bate though becareful..T~T
Posted 10/31/08
I think you should talk to her openly and see how things are going. Since your feelings for her seem to be genuine, i guess that's more than enough to have this work?
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Posted 10/31/08 , edited 10/31/08
go for it...just be careful not to do something stupid (because of that law or something)
but i think you should go for it...
maybe it's best for you to talk to her about it... you'll probably get the better answer that way
Posted 10/31/08

treble wrote:

I'm a senior in high school---and I am in love with a freshman girl. We're 4 years apart---I am 18, she is 14. I really like this girl. She is smart, talented, a great artist, sweet, caring, and did I mention a great artist? The majority of the guys in my school wouldn't even look at her, because they wouldn't find her "hot" enough, but to me, that doesn't matter. I know it's illegal for an 18-year-old to date a 14-year-old, but isn't it okay to be together? Or is a relationship only about sex? I wouldn't dare look at her in a sexual/inappropriate way. I just want to be with her....

The senior girls don't really steal my attention. I mean, they're good-looking, but the majority don't really have anything going on upstairs. Unlike my...err... the freshman girl that I really like. She is so open and friendly.

Am I crazy? Tell me what you think. Go for her? Forget about her? I won't be in high school anymore next year, should I take this as an excuse to not go after her, so that I can avoid the pain of breaking up?

Please, help.


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