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What's harder?
Posted 11/1/08 , edited 11/1/08
So, i was watching Coffee Prince and Eun Chan asked Han Kyul whats harder.."giving up a one-sided love or loving in a one-sided love"..what do you guys think?
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Posted 11/1/08 , edited 11/1/08
Loving in a one-sided love is harder. You're forcing yourself on someone who wouldn't return your feelings.
You're practically lying to yourself hoping for the day to come when your feelings will be replied.
Its pointless. But people say that love is to wish for the opposite's happiness, so I guess he/she has their own way to express their love to others and those who are able to stay put in a one-sided relationship must have strong feelings and determination. Love is not dead, the outcome can't just be specified.

I just thought of the word...its unrequited love, which i will search for any dupes
Posted 11/1/08
Eehh?I'm not into rabu-rabu.
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Posted 11/1/08

makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

Loving in a one-sided love is harder. You're forcing yourself on someone who wouldn't return your feelings.
You're practically lying to yourself hoping for the day to come when your feelings will be replied.
Its pointless. But people say that love is to wish for the opposite's happiness, so I guess he/she has their own way to express their love to others and those who are able to stay out in a one-sided relationship must have strong feelings.


I agree. x] loving someone in one-sided relationship is soo hard. Well, love is something u expect to receive back in return when you start to love someone.. but. Looking at how the other person treats u nothing more then a friend probably would break your heart much more then giving it up. Well, im speaking from experience.. XD
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Posted 11/1/08
I'm not entirely sure if what I'm about to say is in the same topic 'cause I haven't seen that drama. Anyway...! I'm still gonna try. xD;

Well, I don't see how giving up a "one-sided love," AKA unrequited love as maki already stated, is harder. It should actually ease you up for ending all the pain the person you love has caused you, right? That you have finally accepted the truth and can move on. But if we're talking about giving up a one-sided love because the person you love is already in love with someone else, then.. that would be harder to bear; knowing that it isn't YOU who is making him/her happy. Loving in a one-sided love, as long as you still have a chance, it shouldn't be THAT hurtful.
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Posted 11/1/08
If you reach into my pocket you'll feel something that's even harder than those two choices.
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Posted 11/1/08
i think giving up is harder. bcos when u love someone, sometimes even if they dont return ur feelings, you're happy just being with them, you're happy just because theyre smiling.so you're enjoying some of it. but when it comes to giving up, you'll think of things like.. what if i told him? is there a possibility? do i want to ruin our friendship? do i want all this time spent to turn into nothing? its hard to let go at times...
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Posted 11/1/08
neither.. i mean if u give up you can find another person.. and if you love a one-sided love the person may fall in-love sooner or later if you give them 100% pure love..
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Oh, boy... probably loving. I've been there, and it hurts loving someone when you know you aren't getting the same love, yet you just can't give it up. You refuse to. When you give up, at least you're going somewhere, but when you stay and keep loving, you're stuck there forever until you can't love anymore.
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Posted 11/1/08
it's much harder to continue loving someone when you know deep inside that you'll never be together. it will hurt you more in the long-run when the person you love falls in love with someone else, which will either force you to give up anyway or become a stalker
Posted 11/1/08

lovelishaa wrote:

i think giving up is harder. bcos when u love someone, sometimes even if they dont return ur feelings, you're happy just being with them, you're happy just because theyre smiling.so you're enjoying some of it. but when it comes to giving up, you'll think of things like.. what if i told him? is there a possibility? do i want to ruin our friendship? do i want all this time spent to turn into nothing? its hard to let go at times...


golly, i totally agree with you on what you're saying BUT i still cant choose which is harder. I mean i've never experienced either of these yet so i dont truly know how your feelings are gonna be but in my opinion, i would think that loving someone in a one-sided love is harder because how painful would that be. To love someone and not have those feelings returned to you. heart breaker YET giving up a one sided love must also be hard but then again..i dont think it takes as much strength to GIVE up your love then to LOVE. you know what i mean? Well thats just what i think. so yeaahh.

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Posted 11/1/08
I say loving in a one-sided love
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Posted 11/1/08
loving and giving up are both hard...if i have to change which is harder it would be ....loving
Posted 11/1/08
lul. The characters get mad at each other while they keep forgetting their genders, especially Eun Chan. The manager, of course, would double-think about his feelings because Eun Chan's identity is still unknown to him. While Eun chan just like to push it, making the guy sexually confused.
Posted 11/1/08

whatsome wrote:

lul. The characters get mad at each other while they keep forgetting their genders, especially Eun Chan. The manager, of course, would double-think about his feelings because Eun Chan's identity is still unknown to him. While Eun chan just like to push it, making the guy sexually confused.


haha, i know seriously. I thought they were so cute though. AHHH.
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