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Falling out of love?
Posted 5/2/07
ummm,i dont think love has that kind of power(or any over me for that matter)reikia but anyway,ya people can fall out of love without a third party variable.sometimes people just wake up next to a person they dont love anymore
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Posted 5/2/07
Talking about love as an emotion, yeah sure, emotions pass, so you could say you fall in and out of them.You could also think of it as an actual state, which is incommutable, it either is or is not. I'm not too sure though...
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Posted 5/2/07
Well it depends if it really is love or just physical attraction! If it's Physical attraction then it is definitely possible. You just find some one how is "hotter" or sexier in your eyes! But if it's love then it's a whole different story! I think it might my possible but It takes time! And I think I fyou don't want to "fall out of love" then you won't! It's your own decision!!
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Posted 5/5/07
Maybe... if you think you've fallen out of love, then possibly you weren't really in love before.

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Posted 5/5/07
see if you really love someone you cant fall out of love you can want to see other ppl but anybody ive ever told i love them i still do no matter what has change i will always b/c its real but i might be the only one that sees it like that and feel like that
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Posted 5/5/07
I have fall in love once, i did love her and care about her. I help her with anything she needed, and some space if she needed. I even gave up a lot of time just to be with her, sometimes i didn't come home just to there for her. I put her on top of everyone even my father. Then what she does, she has been going out with another guy at the same time, why why why, she broke my heart into pieces. Since then i have been afraid of falling in love. "Women"
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Posted 5/5/07

Zero20 wrote:

I have fall in love once, i did love her and care about her. I help her with anything she needed, and some space if she needed. I even gave up a lot of time just to be with her, sometimes i didn't come home just to there for her. I put her on top of everyone even my father. Then what she does, she has been going out with another guy at the same time, why why why, she broke my heart into pieces. Since then i have been afraid of falling in love. "Women"


that's pretty tough.. but hope you won't close anything because of her.. everyone's different... you might just have fallen for the wrong person.. and maybe it's a good thing to not give your all to someone until you feel safe/secured to do so...
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Posted 5/5/07
of course you can fall out of love... i do agree that some people may think it's love when it really wasn't at all... however... what is love anyways? there is a different definition for each person. so for someone to say that love is always there UNLIKE emotion and feelings, which can change.. i think this is a bit hazy. the phrase "falling out of love" isn't just a phrase that can be used universally.
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Posted 5/6/07
falling out of love... it happens but there must b reasons if a person fell out of love, like the partner might've become too overweling and the other cant handle him/her anymore


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no sex = no love

You have to put out at least 3 times a week


not necessarily true, i was with my bf for a year and no sex, he's never even been to 2nd base we had to break up because ihad to leave my country and theres no guarantee that i'll come back T_T he still loves me though
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Posted 5/6/07

slowdanse wrote:

of course you can fall out of love... i do agree that some people may think it's love when it really wasn't at all... however... what is love anyways? there is a different definition for each person. so for someone to say that love is always there UNLIKE emotion and feelings, which can change.. i think this is a bit hazy. the phrase "falling out of love" isn't just a phrase that can be used universally.


I agree with you. "Love" can mean so many things to different people. Maybe to love someone is to know that you could take your anger out on them for one moment, then cry to them and hug them the next, with them understanding.
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Posted 5/6/07

reaLee wrote:

is this really true? or is it just an excuse for a guy/girl to break up to their partner 'cause they already found a new love?
what i mean is, can someone really get tired and just lose their love for that person without a third party included? 'cause when you fall out of love, the reason for that could probably be --- you just met someone more interesting or someone you got your attention...


First, yes... it's true. A person can fall out of love.
Second, it's not always mean the person fall out of love because they found someone new.
Third, feeling dies for many reasons. Feelings help build love but if the feeling is gone, so as love.

For some reason, the third party is always accused for the 'falling out of love' stage --- obviously because people are always caught in it. Sometimes, the feelings are already dead but the bond and the memories takes hold of the persons involved not to let go. Some people push through saving a relationship knowing the feelings are draining --- and when they met someone else, was the moment they saw the difference.. whatever is lacking, whatever is taken. Feeling changes dramatically and spontaneously. People are just looking for reasons to make the 'fall out of love' tangible cos you can not always just reason up that you simply 'fall out'.
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Posted 5/7/07
yes, it is possible to fall out of love...that's what happened to me... i just wasn't interested anymore...yes, i'm horrible..
Posted 5/7/07
its possible to fall out of love
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Posted 5/7/07
hm................. does "love" even exist ?
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Posted 5/8/07
I think every thing's based on love.

Maybe there's... love for hate (makes sense right?), love for money, love for people, or maybe even love for just one person is the cause for almost everything.

At least that's what I believe.
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