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Father’s Have a Right -not- to pay Child Support?
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Posted 11/17/08
here's a father who fought back - very interesting piece:
http://www.motormanmark.com/?p=102
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Posted 11/22/08 , edited 11/22/08

lonely_devil wrote:

Yes, there are times when it's basically ridiculous for men to pay child support but, if they change the law for those guys then I bet you anything there are going to be guys that get away with not having to pay child support because they found a whole in the system.

See my father divorced my mom right before I was born and left for china and since he's out of the U.S. they cant do anything about it, so my mom was left with a 14yr old daughter, 7yr old son, and a just born baby, so throughout all these years she's raised three kids without any child support. Yet when I turn 18 and am of legal age and he comes back from china to live in the U.S. like he told me he was he'll be a free man... now, lol, wtf?


Well, yes, if men are given the right to get out of parental responsibility they’ll use it. This is true of women too, however. So, if you address it from your end of the argument then women shouldn’t be allowed to have abortions because they’ll use it to get out of financial drains. Why can a mother get out at the cost of her offspring and spouse but a man can't do the same thing?
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Posted 11/23/08
Won't happen, i myself am having a hard time feeding all my children from different wumenz.
Posted 11/28/08
i've never even seen meh dad and he dont pay child support...........i kill him
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Posted 12/27/08
Fathers shud always pay freakin child support because men are horny assholes who get women pregnant.
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Posted 1/14/09
Hello guys,especially men who are reading this forum!!

There is a birth control,if you do not want to pay a child support.
Or just do not men have to hold on with sex life till they get married:)))
Im an expecting single mom,my ex walked away,he said that it was my decision to keep the baby and he did not want that.Radicules...because every time we had sex,i said to him that if i get pregnant i will keep my baby.But he still wasnt for birth control.But who man is...And now he is complaing that i kept the baby.Yes i did and i will never regret it.I am having a sweet baby girl and maybe i will have to work hard through all my life to make her happy as a single parent and to give her food and comfort,but i know i will make it.Even without the father's child support paying if he will refuse after i give a birth.
I am not worried...all what i am worried is that one day he will see his beautiful daughter and he will be the one who will have something to regret.
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Posted 1/14/09
Martinka im sorry to hear that!!! The bastard will get justice!! But generally, about this topic i'm very neutral, there are very pressing points on both sides of the coin. If you have sex you should expect to have a baby, he should've of used protection and not make it almost seem like he was dodging responsibility. However, if they both agreed to avoid having a baby, she shouldn't have lied about it as well as faked birth control. Think about it, would they have this problem now if she had told beforehand that she still had the baby, he could've prepare for the child support charge! He wouldn't be so devastated about her cover up, and that now he'd have to pay about what he had done earlier, she shouldn't of even have lied in the first place. However, like i said protection, USE A CONDOM if you don't want a child!!! That's whats make this guy look so retarded in my eyes, what did he do it for pleasure? Was it intentionally a one night stand in the first place? You know getting into the act will do that!
About the other problem of the case of sperm donation, he probably thought he was free even after doing that, didn't he even know you could've of release rights from the donation? But he should've checked his rights, you know someone will get impregnanted eventually, don't drop sperm like a ton weight in these kind of cases! Or.... he wanted to someone to benefit off it, for good reasons and he gets sued for it, if you donate your sperm to a friend who boyfriend/husband cannot generate it becuase of a specific reason or syptom then when they have fiancial problems and you're doing pretty good do you think your own FRIENDS should hit you with child support? Not that you shouldn't try to help them with their fiancial problems in the firs tplace but resorting to child support, even when you gave it away for a good reason? Kind of pathetic to sink that low unless that accepted the child support bill to help.
Also Unsure Sakura? Wtf???? What's your problem? You just got dumped or something then figured out you had a baby?
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Posted 1/14/09
Case 1... The guy shouldn't have to pay. This should be common sense.

Case 2... The guy should pay. When you have unprotected sex, you're taking a chance. The pill just greatly reduces the chances of getting pregnant. That guy made a stupid decision and has to live with it. Had he not had a fling while married, his marriage would be fine. Had he not had unprotected sex, he wouldn't be in this situation today.

Case 3... The guy shouldn't have to pay if he was willing to pay for the abortion. There should a legal way to remedy the situation of the father wanting an abortion and the mother not wanting one. If the dad wants one and is willing to pay for one, he should be able to put that money towards some legal process that guarantees him no fiscal responsibility for the child. The way you feel about abortions is irrelevant. They are a legal alternative.
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