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Marriage , why do they do it?
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Posted 11/7/08
because its what society dictates most of the time
and yeah you get some advantages
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touchzanaflexpens wrote:


Bearcrunch wrote:


touchzanaflexpens wrote:


Bearcrunch wrote:

If you get marry, u either

- get bored of each other eventually
- cheat on ur spouse
- the romantic died away when tey are over 40 and they acted more like friends
- on rare cases, kill them to get money

So why? Is it because u want a kid and somebody to take care of it but kids are annoying.



Well well, aren't we the cynic?

Some of us actually love a significant other so much we want to spend the rest of our lives with them.

And just so you know:
- If you really love someone, they don't get boring. Yes, they may do things that annoy you, and you may have arguments, but boredom, if you really care- nope.
- Again, if you are TRULY in a committed relationship, you won't cheat.
- OK, fyi, in most cases, the romance doesn't die away, it's just a lot more discreet because, well...if a couple has kids, they probably don't want to get all lovey-dovey in front of them. There are also a lot more concerns, like dealing with every day life situations, that take some time away from romance. Doesn't mean it goes away. If it does, then you can divorce.
- Yes, I do know someone who seems like they're killing their spouse to get money. I know another story about a couple my mom knew when she was young that was around the same lines. However, this is RARE, so it generally doesn't stand for all marriages.

And if you think kids are annoying, you don't have to have them. I don't want them.



Sup, my bad too long don't feel like reading it, but my post is really a though gained from years of watching t.v. And you have admit finding the one u truly love is hard


Tsk tsk, laziness.

TV!? Sorry but I just found that funny right there. 99% of the things you see on TV aren't accurate.



laziness, lady its 12:12 in the morning and u know in newspaper, lot of marriage broke up from affair(secondary souce) and even my parents seem to be bored of each other ( primary souce). To find one that u truly love is like really hard becuase living together heightened the hcance of showing ur bad sides and arguement start.......... ah what the hell i can't stand watching a show for twenty days , twenty years wil probably kill us

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How else do women get rich?


ow wow hit the jackpot ahahahahha
meh, i guess it's their own issue not like evrybody has the same reason
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21 / iN MY ROOM Duh ♥
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Wow..
how negative
cuuz they love each other..
i think
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25 / F / USA
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I don't really know why they do it, but I guess it's because they're so infatuated with each other that means tying the knot seems about the "right" way to possess your love one.
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28 / F / melbourne
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its bcos in the past, women didnt have the oppotunities in life like they do now.

the economy wasnt as it is today. people were poorer, and would be better off if they had someone to depend on, someone to support them aswell. especially women. we were never given the chance to be educated, so all we could do was depend on our husband. when we depend on them, we cannot risk a divorce, thus we cannot fight back, women had to listen to their husbands.

when the economy became better, when women started being educated more, things started to change, but most were still bound by their traditional views. if i could support my life financially, i wouldnt be afraid to get a divorce, i wouldnt need to depend my life on my husband. and to support myself financially, i needed a job in which i would need to be educated for.

now, in my generation, its a fact that people are getting married later and later in life, some dont at all.

theres also good points about marriage though. the person you marry may not always be the love of ur life, but its the person thatll suit u and ur lifestyle the most.
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to have a bond... between you and your love one
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27 / M / Sweden
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dont know.

The divorce rate here in sweden about 60%. I guess we only want sex
Posted 11/8/08
I find marriage HIGHLY overrated.


Bearcrunch wrote:

If you get marry, u either

- get bored of each other eventually
- cheat on ur spouse
- the romantic died away when tey are over 40 and they acted more like friends
- on rare cases, kill them to get money

So why? Is it because u want a kid and somebody to take care of it but kids are annoying.


My thoughts exactly. "True love" doesn't exist in this world. We're just stuck with this man-made, manufactured product made by cooperate to work its way to society
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27 / M / Look up.
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Marriage is so they can uniformly take care of the children that they created together. If they forget that reason than they deserve the worst.
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Posted 11/8/08
Bcuz u can live together legally and see each other every day...
And also do anythin u like
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29 / F / England
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what a cynical world....creating a life with and sharing the last name of the man I love is something i look forward to
Posted 11/8/08
its amazing how many people think getting married is negative...
of course you cant get along with someone all the time, but that does not mean you should avoid getting maried...
I think people marry because during hard times they know they can depend on each other...
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29 / F / England
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mcvf wrote:

its amazing how many people think getting married is negative...
of course you cant get along with someone all the time, but that does not mean you should avoid getting maried...
I think people marry because during hard times they know they can depend on each other...


I awwwww'd at that then nodded in agreement
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27 / M / WA
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mcvf wrote:

its amazing how many people think getting married is negative...
of course you cant get along with someone all the time, but that does not mean you should avoid getting maried...
I think people marry because during hard times they know they can depend on each other...


At the same time, who can spare the money to hold a ceremony these days? Marriage is only important because it has evolved from its religious background into a legal one. It's one way to say you're in love, and another way for women to say to their husbands "Cheat on me and you're fucked!" *True Story*
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