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I am open to girls asking me out.. I think girls don't realize that the situation is actually very casual to a Guy.. I mean unless the Girl was compeletely throwing herself... But i do perfer to do the asking.. cuase I know girls don't like to ask, most guys should know
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i dont c the big dea,l saves me the trouble, but i do think the man should ask the woman if theyre gonna get married
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Doesn't really matter who asks who out. Basically it's the guys who ask the girls out.
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i believe that girls should be more daring now; and be brave enough to try and win their happiness. ask the guys if you like him!!
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it doesn't really matter to me... i'd do it...
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i can see how guys have gotten used to girls asking them out but that makes it really hard for us traditional girls, specially if we've been single since birth and we fear rejection
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batnim wrote:

i can see how guys have gotten used to girls asking them out but that makes it really hard for us traditional girls, specially if we've been single since birth and we fear rejection


well what yor looking at is exactly what a guy whos no good at making the 1st move has to go through exept there are more traditional girls who expect us to ask then there are boys who expect you to ask
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well, asking a guy out should be of no problem. why must the guy always take the initiative?
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I don't really think it's a bad thing if a girl asks a guy out, If your going to stereotype then guys should ask out girls but some girls don't mind asking guys out. I give major credit to girls who ask out guys or tell them they like him it takes a lot of guts lol.
If your a guy like me and a girl tells you they like you it feels nice.
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I think its fine for girls to ask guys out, but I wouldn't. My opinion is that if a guy has enough courage to face me and ask me out, that would impress any girl, right?
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In my school, being traditional equals never getting a boyfriend . There are twice as many girls as guys, plus all the guys are chicken because the girls here are so . . . powerful, for a lack of another way to say it.
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lol.. get drunk and then ask him out
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sinoku wrote:

I think its fine for girls to ask guys out, but I wouldn't. My opinion is that if a guy has enough courage to face me and ask me out, that would impress any girl, right?



I suppose that's exactly it. Females have been designed through evolution to dislike cowardice and to be impressed by acts of courage, and a male who is strong, and knows what they want.

In the distant past, males such as this were neccessary to protect the female and her offspring from being raped by other males in the vicinity, and finding a male that would be able to fend off such attacks made such sense thousands of years ago. A male with self confidence, and the bility to become violent if neccessary were key traits that these women needed in a male at the time.

This female attration to men who have 'balls' makes alot of sense now that I think about it. I can't count many times have I been to party with both genders present, and a male engages in a ridiculously stupid act such jumping from heights and whatnot, just to impress the ladies. So the guy will continue with his shenanigans until he is injured, he is egged on by his male friends who will think him a 'pussy' if he backs down ( I wll not overlook the fact that alcohol is another contributor to these stunts), and the women will laugh at the guy's stupidity.

Its the whole peacock who struts around to impress members of the opposite sex situation, men must have some built in engine that causes us to keep in high regard courage, even to the point of being ridiculous, as it was merely a trait that women looked for throughout the process fo natural selection over the generations.

When it comes then, to the initiation process of relationships, women thus cannot help to be cowards themselves for the most part, it is not really their fault. Therefore I have tremendous and great respect for all those women who are willing to go beyond traditional values in a relationship (which are based on evolutionary use-value practices such as the afforemention 'balls' factor) and ask a man out. They are girls who transcent societal norms, and IMO will pave the way for a path to true gender equality, that is if society would even want or benefit from such a level of equality.

Forgive my ramblings or if I wrote too long, I was just trying to reason it out through the keyboard, anyways I could be wrong, but this is one theory as a possible explanation for the strong female sentiment of tradtitional practices in regards to dating.

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lol..it should be...boys!!!!! u can do dat if u r really desperate to have him!!!!
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it's true i guess asking out is hard for either gender which makes dating a miracle hehe

Iduno wrote:


batnim wrote:

i can see how guys have gotten used to girls asking them out but that makes it really hard for us traditional girls, specially if we've been single since birth and we fear rejection


well what yor looking at is exactly what a guy whos no good at making the 1st move has to go through exept there are more traditional girls who expect us to ask then there are boys who expect you to ask :P


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