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i'm a guy and i wont ask a girl out either-.- unless its just frens
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key-bearer wrote:

It's really sweet when a girl asks a guy out. I don't like the idea of guys just being the ones to have to do it. A girl has control of her own life, too. So, if she feels like confessing, that's awesome. ^__^



yup! i agree! i am a girl... though i have never asked a guy out i think it would be ok.
when guys asked me out, i know that they are kinda shy in their own way... they are humans anyway so its just natural to be shy.
and besides it depends upon the situation, if the guy is too shy and can seem to get the courage to ask the girl out ( and the girl notices it and is already dying to go out with the guy) then the girl should do it. there is really no need for her to go down her knees and beg the guy... right?
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La0soulja wrote:


jellysh wrote:

whoa.. fast posts. I think majority of the people feel embarassed no matter how long you knew the person. You make yourself vulnerable when u confess and only few are strong enough to bear it.


It's not the fact how long you knew them for it's how well you know them, i.e how would the person who is wanting to confess go on about confessing to someone who they know isn't going to take it seriously? they wouldn't

EDIT: I'm not sure if thay even made sense, getting tired ;_;


Haha it does make sense. In the situation you are getting with, it really depends on the person that confess. Some people are really reserved when it comes to their own personal feeling. Girls are usually more shy. Majority usually wait out for the guys to make a move. And to most of the girls, guys tends to be just bunch of goofy idiots that does not take things too seriously.
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cbisram wrote:

Judging by these responses, women shouldn't be surprised of the lack of gender inequality in this world.


Gaburiera-chan wrote:

I wouldn't make the first move, I'm like you, traditional.



anime_otaku-nerd wrote:

I wouldn't ask...even if I was a guy I wouldn't...I fear rejection and humiliation and they guy I like is a friend



starryeyeddreamer wrote:

No way I'd be to scared, plus I think it's the guy's responsibility ><"



1001_tears wrote:

no i don't think i would, i don't have the guts to do,


I am surprised that in the age of 2007, in a post-feminist era, young women are unwilling to break past tradition in order to get the guy they actually want, and would instead opt to sift through several offers of male companionship over the years to find a guy worth something.

My response to such sentiments as those above would be, don't girls think guys fear rejection and humiliation as well, or are we just emotionless sex hounds? Guys have had to fend for themself and deal with rejection since the dawn of time, and its about time for women to have to pursue the opposite gender, rather than sit back and hope for the best.

There is a reason why being called a 'pussy' denotes cowardism, and as long as girls keep acting in a way which supports this, why complain that its not true?


THANK YOU!! sheesh..someone here has a little common sense...good point
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Posted 12/6/07 , edited 4/14/08

jellysh wrote:


La0soulja wrote:


jellysh wrote:

whoa.. fast posts. I think majority of the people feel embarassed no matter how long you knew the person. You make yourself vulnerable when u confess and only few are strong enough to bear it.


It's not the fact how long you knew them for it's how well you know them, i.e how would the person who is wanting to confess go on about confessing to someone who they know isn't going to take it seriously? they wouldn't

EDIT: I'm not sure if thay even made sense, getting tired ;_;


Haha it does make sense. In the situation you are getting with, it really depends on the person that confess. Some people are really reserved when it comes to their own personal feeling. Girls are usually more shy. Majority usually wait out for the guys to make a move. And to most of the girls, guys tends to be just bunch of goofy idiots that does not take things too seriously.




Ii don't think they're idiots... although i have to admit that i find it a bit weird when i guy would act shy... they tend to be good in hiding it...
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TheGoat wrote:


cbisram wrote:

Judging by these responses, women shouldn't be surprised of the lack of gender inequality in this world.


Gaburiera-chan wrote:

I wouldn't make the first move, I'm like you, traditional.



anime_otaku-nerd wrote:

I wouldn't ask...even if I was a guy I wouldn't...I fear rejection and humiliation and they guy I like is a friend



starryeyeddreamer wrote:

No way I'd be to scared, plus I think it's the guy's responsibility ><"



1001_tears wrote:

no i don't think i would, i don't have the guts to do,


I am surprised that in the age of 2007, in a post-feminist era, young women are unwilling to break past tradition in order to get the guy they actually want, and would instead opt to sift through several offers of male companionship over the years to find a guy worth something.

My response to such sentiments as those above would be, don't girls think guys fear rejection and humiliation as well, or are we just emotionless sex hounds? Guys have had to fend for themself and deal with rejection since the dawn of time, and its about time for women to have to pursue the opposite gender, rather than sit back and hope for the best.

There is a reason why being called a 'pussy' denotes cowardism, and as long as girls keep acting in a way which supports this, why complain that its not true?


THANK YOU!! sheesh..someone here has a little common sense...good point


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I think girls asking guys out is a big turn on for guys! I personally myself would ask a guy out because most of the time I get impatient when he is just standing there looking at me. Most of the time the guy is intimadated or thinks I have a bf so I just go up to him to give him the green light.

Why do handsome guys go out with ugly girls?? I'm still single?!! Sometimes when I go out I see guys with girls who are much less attractive then them and I see that more than often! Then ask mysef what happened to me?!! *sigh* Can someone answer my question?
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No It's better if a guy ask a girl out.....The guy should relly make the move first
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YummiOkashi wrote:

I think girls asking guys out is a big turn on for guys! I personally myself would ask a guy out because most of the time I get impatient when he is just standing there looking at me. Most of the time the guy is intimadated or thinks I have a bf so I just go up to him to give him the green light.

Why do handsome guys go out with ugly girls?? I'm still single?!! Sometimes when I go out I see guys with girls who are much less attractive then them and I see that more than often! Then ask mysef what happened to me?!! *sigh* Can someone answer my question?


I'll tell you why. Good looking girls are usually more arrogant and it's easier to go with uglier ones. Good looking guys always tend to go with easier ones because they usually are the ones that choose to flaunt their big fat ego. And as a guy... i think it's usually a really good looking guy with some plain girl.. a really good looking girl with some plain looking guy... or kinda balanced
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Posted 12/6/07 , edited 4/14/08

jellysh wrote:


YummiOkashi wrote:

I think girls asking guys out is a big turn on for guys! I personally myself would ask a guy out because most of the time I get impatient when he is just standing there looking at me. Most of the time the guy is intimadated or thinks I have a bf so I just go up to him to give him the green light.

Why do handsome guys go out with ugly girls?? I'm still single?!! Sometimes when I go out I see guys with girls who are much less attractive then them and I see that more than often! Then ask mysef what happened to me?!! *sigh* Can someone answer my question?


I'll tell you why. Good looking girls are usually more arrogant and it's easier to go with uglier ones. Good looking guys always tend to go with easier ones because they usually are the ones that choose to flaunt their big fat ego. And as a guy... i think it's usually a really good looking guy with some plain girl.. a really good looking girl with some plain looking guy... or kinda balanced


The reason why?? I hate to admit it but most beautiful girl has a very high PRIDE, you know what I mean,, So its easier to approach uglier ones because
Men too, fear rejection,
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yup yup.. thats how superficial this world is, live with it.

as for girls asking guys out.. i dont see any wrong in that..
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Posted 12/6/07 , edited 4/14/08
I'm a girl and I would never ask a guy out. One of my female friends recently asked a guy out and of course he said "yes" and I thought she was brave for doing that. I'd rather be asked out by a guy, though, anyway.
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Posted 12/6/07 , edited 4/14/08
Its very brave for a girl when she ask a guy out,..

Why most girl are shy,, I could only think of one reason,,

They think they will lower themselves if they ask a guy out.( The thought of "Im a girl he should do the first move" then another will bug your mind " hmmph if I ask him he'll think he'll be the hottest guy")

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Posted 12/6/07 , edited 4/14/08
it is fine if ask a whole group of friend go...


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Posted 12/6/07 , edited 4/14/08
Coz iam a girl i think guys should make the first move.. But then most guys think girls should
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