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Girls asking guys out
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21 / F
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Posted 4/25/11
No I woudn't be able to, I tried telling a guy I liked him and I started stuttering and changed the subject lol so asking a guy out is too hard, I'd show him signs that I'm interested in him though then the rest is up to him.
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A lot of my female friends believe that a guy should always ask out the girl. To quote one of them "They have the balls. They might as well use them."

Personally, I think it's embarrassing to a guy to be asked out by a girl. I have gone through many scenarios in my mind about it (I tend to over-analyze), and every time I get back to the idea that it's demasculinizing. I don't want to make the guy in question feel inadequate. Then, I tell this to my guy friends who just tell me that I'm crazy. I think the real problem with a girl asking out a guy and a guy asking out a girl is who is less shy, and well, if you are both rather shy... you're SOL.
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i've never like anyone that much to asked before. but if i do, then i wouldnt mind asking first.
girls, think about this: guys and girls have the same chance of getting rejected if they were asking someone out. it all comes down to the person u ask. they may or may not like u.


ps: this is just my guess czz girls may be rejected more because guys may think they can be pushy or something?.....
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Posted 4/25/11
ahaha i don't think the guy HAVE to be the one asking i mean sure it's kinda weird for the girl to be the one asking but if you don't you may never know how he feels about you no?



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I don't think of gender roles when it comes to my sex life. If I want a boy, I'll ask him out, I'm not going to demand he be the "man" and he has to ask me out. That's kinda pushy in it's own way :/

I have friends who have missed out on relationship opportunities because they swore the boy has to get the girl...I really don't want to be like that either. That's like saying the girl has to be the guy's slave or something; gender shouldn't be an issue there.
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"A girl asking a guy out is weird?" How so, girls?

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22 / F
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I wouldn't care enough to ask first, and if for some reason I did I wouldn't have the balls to do so. However, I see no problem with girls asking first. If you really want to go out with someone, why let gender stop you from asking? It's silly that you'd give up an opportunity like that just because of gender.
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There's nothing wrong with girls asking guys out. In fact, I think they should do it more often. Be brave, girls!
Posted 5/5/11
I dont agree with it. But as a guy you girls CAN give us a hint to whether you like us or not
Posted 5/5/11
I have heard from guys that for once they'd like to have a girl ask them because some of them are too shy to do it =/ I dont think it should matter what gender asks who out first, if a person in general likes a significant other they should just go for it
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Posted 5/5/11 , edited 5/5/11
I have been asked out by guys, but I have not ask a guy out before. I feel bad for rejecting most of them, so I would fear someone that I like would reject me. Currently I wanted to confess to someone that I like them, because I have never done this before. I have crush right now, and I haven't tell him that I like him. I'm not sure if he already have a girlfriend. I am senior and I don't know what grade he's in. I think he's a few years younger than me.>_< I am just happy that I see him at school. He's so talented in art.
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Posted 5/6/11
I got asked out by girls a few times a year in high school, and it still happens from time to time.. I have to say no nowadays, because my girlfriend would be pissed, lol. But I was always somewhat flattered that a girl would be interested enough to make the first move. As it happened, some of them were just kind of slutty, (not that I had a problem with that, especially as a teen.) but some were just nice girls that got tired of getting asked out, only to learn that the guy was an ass, so they would ask a guy they thought was nice to go out.
It wasn't usually the "confession" kind of deal. I only remember one of those, and it was fairly embarrassing, since she was totally not my type, and she did it during lunch in the cafeteria, so my friends gave me hell about it for weeks. Mostly it was "Hey, I want to go see [movie, concert, sports event, etc], do you want to go with me/take me?" (which only lead to a second date about half the time) when I was in school, and as an adult it was almost always "Hey, you want to go have a few drinks after work?" or something similar.
Posted 5/6/11
Girls who ask guys out will be likely taken for granted for some reason, guys are pretty arrogant and confident.
but honestly it doesn't matter though that's pretty degrading on the girls side.
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25 / F / United States
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Posted 5/6/11
I made the first move with Sal aka Decrepify my boyfriend even though he doesnt like to admit it ^^
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34 / M / Las Noches
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anime_otaku-nerd wrote:

I wouldn't ask...even if I was a guy I wouldn't...I fear rejection and humiliation and they guy I like is a friend


yup i agree with u , but u will end up alone XD

But i like it XD
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