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Girls asking guys out
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18 / F / Narnia
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Posted 6/10/11
I think either way (boy asks girl, girl asks boy) is both nerve-wracking. If you ask the other person out, then all the pressure will be on you kind of. You'll feel like you like the other person more than he/she likes you and it makes you self-conscious. It takes a lot of guts to ask out the person you like.

..So I personally would prefer the boy asking me out X_X. But if hes a bit slow and if I'm absolutely sure he likes me, then I'd just go for it. ><
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Posted 6/10/11
If I like a guy enough, then I'll ask him if he wants to hang out or something. I've never actually had to ask a guy to be my boyfriend. He asks me to go steady, or it usually just falls into place. We start spending time to together, and bam! we're dating. No questions asked.
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Posted 6/10/11
I sometimes ask out the guy, and if they say No, i say "Ok, but you are missing out on something" and walk off. But i like it when a guy has the GUTS to ask out someone.
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17 / F / New York
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Posted 6/10/11
I asked once and got rejected LOL.

[well, more like I told him I liked him but he didn't respond]

but I'd do it if it seemed hopeless, just gotta let those feelings out or I'll be stuck with those "what if" scenarios forever looping in my head.
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17 / F / osaka, japan
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Posted 6/10/11 , edited 6/10/11
no way.. haahahaha.. xDi would let him realize it..
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21 / F / Under your skin.
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Posted 6/10/11
If I can't control it any longer, I would confess. It's either you get rejected or not.
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Posted 6/10/11 , edited 6/10/11
o and ladies when you approach me make sure you come correct. lol
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26 / M / Colorado, USA
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Posted 6/10/11
I've had girls approach me, so I know it's realistic for girls to make the first move (9 in one day is flattering yet displeasing). But I've chosen my words carefully each time as to chase them off before actually getting to the point of asking for a chance at a relationship. My higher fashion is not to attract, but to encourage others to boost their fashion too.
Posted 6/10/11
If I don't ask a girl out. It's because I'm either not interested, or don't see sufficient ability to make a commitment in that particular situation.

In a college class there was a chick I started to like after her obvious tsundere attitude got to me. I didn't confess and tried to avoid her because she was a young mom.
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Posted 6/11/11 , edited 6/11/11
Women seem to be more open to asking out guys as they get older. Personally, I think high school relationships are silly, but I remember that back then, a lot of my friends would complain that they don't have a boyfriend, and that they're too shy to tell them, and it doesn't help that most boys at that age are too oblivious to notice any hints. Now a few years into University, my current girlfriend is actually the one who asked me out; a month ago this cute little brunette just walked right up to me after class and asked. I'm glad she did though, because for a second, I thought about saying no but she was so confident that I had a good feeling I would be missing out on something, and she really is an amazing person. Shy probably won't get you a boyfriend, at least maybe not the one you want, but if a girl is upfront about something, they will almost certainly get what they want; and that goes for more than just dating.
Posted 6/11/11
I would prefer it this way. I'm usually disinterested so unless the other side moves...
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21 / M / At The Moment & T...
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Posted 6/11/11
why not?
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21 / M / At The Moment & T...
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Posted 6/11/11

underlock wrote:

I would prefer it this way. I'm usually disinterested so unless the other side moves...


know what you mean i tend to not care.
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Posted 6/19/11
Yeah sure I would no problem!! I was going to at one point but then he beat me too it
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