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Posted 12/9/12 , edited 12/9/12
I asked out a guy once, he said yes and we dated for awhile

Waiting doesn't get you anywhere, if you want something go get it don't let it slip through your fingers. You don't know whether or not you're going to miss out on something great (personally, I'd have preferred to have missed out on that one, but at least I know that!)

There are too many gender stereotypes, people of both genders just do as you please so society can get over them
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Does it really matter who asks who out?
Kind of selfish to assume its the others responsibility..
Love is sort of like A pendulum. It does not matter which way it starts or develops, but eventually stops due to the laws of
motion and its restrictions. Meaning Its a trivial topic to debate about, either way love begins and it ends. Just like everything else.
( dark I know, but its all about personal preference, ) If you want better then you're just going to have to make things last regardless of gender or any form of diversity
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25 / M / Far west texas
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I think its cool when girls ask guys out, both guy and girls should if they like someone.... trust me as a guy I've been completely oblivious to the fact when girls had a crush on me and only find too late. (Like after high-school finding out many of the girls I liked felt the same... man I was an idiot and still am when it comes to stuff like that) On a side note for girls if you really like a guy and just wait and hope he'll ask you out it may never happen, unless you have a good friend that rats on you to your crush
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17 / M / Tórshavn
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Personally I would really love to be asked out by a girl, thats probably every nerds dream xD
But of course we have this stereotype that tells us that "We are men, we take you out for dinner, We pay up, we ask you out, etc(I guess this is sorta being a gentleman means, but what I'm saying is that there shouldn't be this stereotype of it, if I were to do this, it would be because I'm nice, not because it's the role that the "man" has to play.)" Which I kinda hate, I don't see the logic behind that we have to do those things, it's really no reason to say that a girl shouldn't do it:p
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Posted 12/9/12
It should be girls that ask boys out. : P
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Posted 12/9/12

JayVeeDees wrote:

Personally I would really love to be asked out by a girl, thats probably every nerds dream xD
But of course we have this stereotype that tells us that "We are men, we take you out for dinner, We pay up, we ask you out, etc(I guess this is sorta being a gentleman means, but what I'm saying is that there shouldn't be this stereotype of it, if I were to do this, it would be because I'm nice, not because it's the role that the "man" has to play.)" Which I kinda hate, I don't see the logic behind that we have to do those things, it's really no reason to say that a girl shouldn't do it:p


Oh my gosh, i just found someone that shares my view.
I'm with on that 100%
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23 / F / Rapture
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Posted 12/9/12
I fear rejection entirely too much. I applaud any guy or girl who has the balls (or lady-balls) to ask someone out. More power to ya
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21 / F / California
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Posted 12/9/12
i can do both but i rather have the guy come up to me personally and say it
back when i was in highschool.....ah nevermind x3 lol
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26 / M / NY
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Posted 12/9/12
Us guys can fear rejection as well. Plus women are good at sending mixed signals. So either be obvious or ask us out. But in practice it tends to work better if the guy initiates.
Posted 12/9/12
I don't mind doing it. But I admit, I do prefer if the guy asks me out first. For some reason, when I know a guy is interested, yet doesn't try to ask me out, I tend to have this thought that this guy is probably one of those types that will force me to make most of the decisions, and I don't really want that. I'd like the dude's input as well.
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24 / M / virginia
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Posted 12/9/12
i wouldnt call a girl not wanting to ask a guy out "traditional".

i would call it a girl trying not to come off as a whore
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22 / M / Louisiana
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Posted 12/10/12
I will say it doesn't matter which way it is done. It can be bad though if you ask through friends. I am not a person for rejecting someone because I know how that feeling is. But when someone is asking through other people; I didn't feel so bad to reject them. I wasn't at all interested but would've given her a chance if she asked me herself. I don't know though I feel like a hypocrite myself though because I wouldn't know how to ask any girl I liked out. I do feel bad for rejecting her. But I didn't feel right to accept through other people.
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37 / M / Charleston, SC
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Posted 12/10/12
Here's how I met my wife.

Was at a party and I was pretty tore up. This was 16 years ago so please excuse the next part. I was Rolling pretty hard, and having a real good night. This adorable young woman came in wearing overalls and a baseball cap, very Tomboyish, but very cute. So the party progresses and this cute girl says she's got a kick ass movie she wants us to see. But she was having issues operating the machine. So in my typical smartass demeanor I told her, "You know it helps to be smarter than the machine." And she looked up and pointed her finger at me and said all mad like, "Listen here you, If I want any lip out of you I'll rip it off my zipper!" I fell madly in love with her that instant.

Been 16 years now, we have 2 kids and she's still my best friend.
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Posted 12/13/12
I admire anyone who can actually confess especially girls as there's this stereotype that guys should do it, I've never done it and would be way to scared to do that!
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Posted 12/13/12
Product of the guy asking first.

I have asked 4 girls, gotten rejected every time, in fact, the last time I told a girl I liked her she replied with, "No you don't" -.-
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