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Girls asking guys out
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This is how i do it... I just ignore them while acting arrogant/overconfident and silent , so they get desperate for attention. Occasionally glance their way and talk with them a little to keep their hopes up and so they know you're not antisocial. Never had to ask a girl, they always let it slip. But traditionally, guys are the ones who are supposed to act, so I don't blame girls for being hesitant, though it's interesting when they do come clean.
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Personally I would love it if a girl asked me out
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34 / M / The Void.
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I just let them come to me.
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@OP lol if people always wanted to follow the old school mentality/traditions than women wouldn't be in the workplace. Men would always be the head of the household. Women wouldn't be allowed to vote. I don't even think they were allowed to become educated or voice an opinion. Times change, get with it yo!

If a girl is tired of being single than maybe she should take the first step and do something about it. You know what the actual problem with the world is: Smart people are full of doubt while dumb people are full of confidence. Most people won't make the first move because of fear of rejection.
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This is the 21st century I think its okay for girls to ask guys out. What if a girl likes a guy but he never asks her out she should take the initiative and ask the guy out. Girls cant wait forever for a guy to ask her out.
Posted 12/13/12
Girls be hooching it now a days. They don't wait for the man, they take action and eat u up NOM
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I doubt i would ask a girl out scared of rejection rather let them ask me, doubt i would reject many of them
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If a girl asked me out, I'd give her a chance.

...why not?

She's going through all the trouble I go through every time I ask a girl out.
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27 / M / Austin, Texas
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anime_otaku-nerd wrote:

I wouldn't ask...even if I was a guy I wouldn't...I fear rejection and humiliation and they guy I like is a friend


I am a virgin and a shy guy so, I will never ask a girl out because of fear of rejection and humiliation as well.
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xD I would hope someone would ask me out or maybe give me the most obvious hint in the world since I'm very oblivious to these sorts of things
Posted 12/13/12
I agree with OP, I'm pretty traditional as well so I don't think I'd ever make the first move. I think that if the guy really likes the girl, then he should just step up to the plate and tell her his feelings rather than being secretive or confusing .
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My questions are to the girls who responded that they rather the guy ask them out and they would never ask the guys out.

If you like a guy do you give him some hints or do you just lay and pray and hope the girl he is going to ask out is you? This is like luck of the draw here.

What if he has shown no interest in anyone yet do you just sit there and wait until something happen? Honestly, I don't think that's going to work either but I'm curious.

Because a few girls, had I found out earlier how they felt I probably would've asked them out or the thought never crossed my mind until after. They didn't make themselves known or appear on my radar and guys can't read minds.
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If a girl likes someone, for goodness sake tell a guy. It's like the 21st century. men clean the house and women sit in high positions in big companies in fortune500
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22 / M / Aloha, OR
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Posted 12/14/12
I'd rather be asked out. My fear of rejection holds me back. I have tried to break free from it but it has not worked yet.
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Posted 12/14/12
no i like how the guy asks u out first
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